Desert Drama: A Gay Man’s Guide to Palm Springs’ Local Theater Scene

While Palm Springs may be a gay man’s paradise for poolside lounging and brunching—our little desert city also boasts a dazzling lineup of local theaters that serve up everything from Broadway-level productions to provocative LGBTQ+ works. Whether you’re in the mood for heartfelt drama, sidesplitting comedy, or something refreshingly gay and risqué, Palm Springs is an intriguing cultural oasis you didn’t know you existed. Considering what relatively small towns Palm Springs and our surrounding desert cities are, we have a surprisingly robust theater scene! 

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In the meantime, here’s our spotlight on the desert’s theatrical darlings (in alphabetical order) that’ll have you shouting, “Encore!”

Coachella Valley Repertory

• Theater Company: Coachella Valley Repertory

• Location: 68510 E. Palm Canyon Drive, Cathedral City

• Website: cvrep.org

• Show: Next to Normal

• About: Coachella Valley Repertory (CV Rep) delivers Broadway-level aspirations in an intimate setting that strives for you to feel the synchronized heartbeats between both the actors and your fellow audience members. With visionary leadership under Adam Karsten, CV Rep is redefining what’s possible in the desert. Their commitment to affordable, high-quality productions and new-works program makes this a must-visit for theater buffs.

• Our Experience: Next to Normal left us breathless. Emotional, stirring, and superbly acted, this production rivaled our Broadway memories. There were definitely tears and synchronized sniffles from the crowd.

Desert Ensemble Theatre

• Theater Company: Desert Ensemble Theatre

• Location: 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs

• Website: desertensembletheatre.org

• Show: LOOT

• About: Known for innovative storytelling, Desert Ensemble Theatre explores human complexity with award-winning productions. They’re also actively grooming the next generation of thespians through various scholarships and internships.

• Our Experience: The black farce LOOT had us smiling with its dark humor abound. The cast balanced absurdity and authenticity, making it an unexpectedly unique experience.

Dezart Performs

• Theater Company: Dezart Performs

• Location: 314 S Cahuilla Road, Palm Springs

• Website: dezartperforms.org

• Show: Hillary and Clinton

• About: Dezart Performs is the Coachella Valley’s hub for thought-provoking and contemporary plays. Their plans to convert a historic building into a state-of-the-art theater promise exciting things ahead as well.

• Our Experience: This alternate-universe tale of Hillary Clinton’s 2008 campaign was witty, sharp, and quite captivating throughout. And seeing fellow Vermonter Craig Wells behind the scenes directing was a bonus as well.

Palm Canyon Theater

• Theater Company: Palm Canyon Theater

• Location: 538 North Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs

• Website: palmcanyontheatre.net

• Show: La Cage aux Folles

• About: As the valley’s longest-running theater, Palm Canyon Theater is synonymous with community and creativity. Their lineup features ambitious productions that make the stage a spectacle to behold.

• Our Experience: La Cage aux Folles sparkled with charm and relevance, reminding us why this story remains iconic. And Raul Valenzuela’s performance as Jacob was the cherry on top for us.

Revolution Stage Company

• Theater Company: Revolution Stage Company

• Location: 611 S Palm Canyon Dr Suite 16, Palm Springs

• Website: revolutionstagecompany.com

• Show: Little Shop of Horrors

• About: Revolution Stage Company is transforming Palm Springs into a premier theater destination with fresh takes on beloved classics, bold new works, and diverse concerts as well.

• Our Experience: Little Shop of Horrors was a feast for the senses. The puppetry and performances were exceptional, and the energy in the room was electric from beginning to end.

The BENT

• Theater Company: The BENT

• Location: 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs

• Website: thebent.org

• Show: FUCKING MEN

• About: The BENT champions LGBTQ+ theater in Palm Springs with a sharp focus on authenticity and representation. Only a few years running, they’ve already made an honorable splash here in the local theater scene.

• Our Experience: FUCKING MEN was provocative and heartfelt, exploring themes of love, connection, and good-old-fashioned gay cruising culture. The stellar cast made this a standout experience.

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With its active theater scene, endless sunshine, and welcoming community, it’s no wonder gay men flock to Palm Springs to relax, connect, and indulge. Whether you’re living your best gay life at one of our fabulous clothing-optional resorts or attending a cutting-edge show, Palm Springs has everything you need for the ultimate getaway. So pack your bags, bring your short-shorts, and prepare for an unforgettable gay desert adventure!

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Pride Highlights: Palm Springs Pride 2024

Palm Springs isn’t just a Pride destination for the LGBTQ+ community – it’s a way of life here. Our little California desert oasis has become the destination for gay men seeking sun-soaked fun and fabulousness year-round. And when it comes to event season, no celebration shines brighter than Palm Springs Pride. Whether you’re a leather aficionado, a lover of drag, or a dance party connoisseur, there’s something for everyone here. So, mark your calendars now because Palm Springs Pride 2025 will surely be as epic as this year was!

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We had gay-old time this year experiencing various Pride events ourselves, so here are our Pride highlights for Palm Springs Pride 2024!

Pride Highlights: Palm Springs Pride 2024

Palm Springs Leather Pride

The festivities began with a steamy weekend of Palm Springs Leather Pride, where the city’s sultry side was on full display. From the Dark Alley Marketplace at Tool Shed to the Go Deep! Dungeon & Play Party at Hotel Zoso, this event embraced liberation and kink with sophistication. Blackbook’s Just For Fans Meetup? A sultry cherry on top.

Día de la Reina Featuring Neon Trees 

Arenas District was electric as NEON TREES headlined the Pride Stage, turning this free block party into a night of pure magic. Think less ghouls and goblins, more glitter and glamour!

Jurassic Drag at Oscar’s 

The iconic Coco Peru, Jackie Beat, and their Jurassic drag sisters Sherry Vine, and Varla Jean Merman delivered a prehistoric riot at Oscar’s. Their collective wit and talent? Positively Jurassic in scale.

DESERTOPIA

For the younger, edgier crowd, DESERTOPIA served up queer magic. Poolside caftans, gender-fluid vibes, and a backdrop of Mt. San Jacinto made this a celebration of art, music, and individuality. Not the typical Palm Springs scene, but a new generation of refreshingly queer inclusivity!

PRIDE MASSIVE / PALM SPRINGS

"Drag-A-Licious" was a highlight for us – a spectacular drag show featuring an all-star lineup of Ru Girls (aka Drag Race Queenz), including Kimora Blac, Shannel, Roxxxy Andrews, Jorgeous, Kylie Sonique Love, and Vanessa Vanjie Mateo – and kicking off three incredible pool parties that left us gagging for more.

Dina Martina Halloween

Presented by Rainbow Entertainment Group at the Revolution Stage Company, Dina Martina – one of our all time favorite Provincetown comedy queens – returned to Palm Springs with her tragically hilarious blend of absurdity and drag brilliance. If you missed her, pencil in January 2025 – she’s not to be missed!

Palm Springs Pride 5k Run and Walk

The Palm Springs Front Runners & Walkers hosted another successful 5K event to raise funds for local LGBTQ+ organizations. All ages and abilities were (and are always) welcome to participate in this annual community-building event.

SISTER SLEDGE at the Palm Springs Pride Festival Marketplace

The legendary SISTER SLEDGE brought down the house with timeless hits, while the Festival Marketplace offered an irresistible mix of shopping, dining, and cultural vibes.

CCBC’s Rainbow Splash Pool Party 

The clothing-optional Rainbow Splash at CCBC Resort provided the perfect mix of fun and relaxation, with DJ Bobby spinning tunes and a “play” area to boot.

Palm Springs Pride Parade

Nothing compares to the iconic Pride Parade, which transformed Palm Canyon Drive into a kaleidoscope of love, music, and community spirit!

Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop 

We saved the best for last: our very own Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop Party. With stunning views from the Flannery Exchange rooftop our celebration included music by DJ MODGIRL, The Desert Studs dancers, and yours truly – The Palm Springs Guys! Delicious drinks & bites were provided by Lulu’s, and a portion of the proceeds benefited the LGBTQ Center of the Desert. Keep an eye out for next year’s rooftop event as tickets went fast this year!

George Michael Reborn at the Festival Marketplace

George Michael Reborn graced the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage this year, which was almost as good as the man himself. They definitely brought the energy and nostalgia we all know and love from the music!

Brunch with Miss Richfield 1981

The inimitable Miss Richfield 1981 brought Pride to a delightful close at EIGHT4NINE with a brunch that had everyone laughing, eating, and loving every minute.

What was your favorite Palm Springs Pride event this year? Let us know!

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Lucky for us locals, Pride is a year-round experience here in Palm Springs. It’s a haven of sunshine, community, and fabulous living with events that have locals and visitors alike feeling safe and free to be who they are. 

From our stunning mid-century modern architecture to our vibrant nightlife, it’s easy to fall in love with this desert gem. Friendships are formed over martinis at local gay bars, memories are made lounging by resort pools, and the sunsets are pure magic. Whether it’s for Pride or a quiet weekend away, Palm Springs will always welcome you with open arms.

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Palm Springs Pride 2024: The Ultimate Guide

Get ready, because Palm Springs Pride 2024 is about to take over the desert again! With a jam-packed schedule of events from October 30th to November 3rd, there’s something for everyone looking to live their best gay life. Whether you're into drag shows, film nights, block parties, or parades, Palm Springs Pride promises an unforgettable experience. Here’s your comprehensive guide to all the essential events you won’t want to miss.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you want to include it too)!

Which Palm Springs Pride event are you most excited for this year? What's your go-to Pride outfit? Let us know in the comments!

In the meantime, here is our Ultimate Guide to Palm Springs Pride 2024!

Palm Springs Pride 2024 Events Map

🖤 Oct 24 - 27 | Palm Springs Leather Pride

• Where: Hotel Zoso, 150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs (Official Host Hotel) & Multiple Locations
  Kick off Pride with an enticing weekend of sexual liberation at this year’s Palm Springs Leather Pride! From pool parties to play parties, they’ve got everything your dark leather heart could ask for. Don’t miss the Just For Fans meetup at Blackbook, the Dark Alley Marketplace at Tool Shed, or the Go Deep! dungeon & play party at Hotel Zoso.

🎬 Oct 30 - Film Night: Tom of Finland & Selected Shorts | 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM

• Where: Palm Springs Cultural Center, 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA
  Kick off Pride with an evening celebrating the Tom of Finland Foundation's 40th Anniversary. Enjoy a mix of art, film, and cocktails in honor of the foundation’s legacy and cultural impact.

🌈 Oct 31 - Arenas District Stage | 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM

• The Pride celebrations start in the heart of Palm Springs' gayborhood Arenas District! Join the crowd for an evening of music, dancing, and festivities that set the tone for the days ahead.

🕺 Oct 31 - Día de la Reina Featuring Neon Trees | 5:00 PM – 10:30 PM

• Where: Arenas District Pride Stage, 302 E Arenas Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA
  NEON TREES will headline this free block party celebration dedicated to the Queens and Kings of Palm Springs. It’s a night traditionally known for ghouls and goblins, but this year, it’s all about reveling in fabulousness.

🎉 Nov 1 - Arenas District Block Party & Pride Weekend Kickoff 2024 | 4:00 PM – 11:00 PM

• Celebrate the start of Pride weekend with high-energy DJs, dancing, and food trucks. The Arenas District transforms into the ultimate party zone with outdoor beverage lounges and house music that will keep you dancing all night long.

🎭 Nov 1 - La Cage Aux Folles - VIP Performance | 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM

• Where: Palm Canyon Theatre, 538 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262
  This VIP performance is a must-see! Enjoy a pre-show reception with champagne, light bites, and luscious desserts during intermission. After the performance, meet the cast and capture some memorable photos.

🦖 Nov 1 - Jurassic Drag at Oscar’s | 7:00 PM & 9:30 PM

• Get ready for a prehistoric performance featuring the legendary Coco Peru, Jackie Beat, Sherry Vine, and Varla Jean Merman. This show combines musical spectaculars and comedy, showcasing some of the most talented drag queens who have collectively "survived a hostile world" for millions of years (in drag time, that is).

🕺 Nov 1-2 - DESERTOPIA

• Where: The Sonoran / Infusion Beach Club Hotel / Palms Springs Surf Club
  A very queer celebration of music, dance, art and a uniquely Palm Springs experience. Featuring a caftan-laden pool party, a club night of extravagant proportions and an outdoor afternoon festival featuring the finest in queer talent and music under the sun and stars in the majestic backdrop of Mt. San Jacinto.

🕺 Nov 1-3 - PRIDE MASSIVE / PALM SPRINGS

• Where: RIVIERA RESORT & SPA (Formerly Margaritaville), 1600 N Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs.
  Beginning with a star-studded "Drag-A-Licious" drag show into three massive pool parties. "Drag-A-Licious" at 7:30 PM. This spectacular drag show features an all-star lineup of Ru Girls (aka Drag Race Queenz), including Kimora Blac, Shannel, Roxxxy Andrews, Jorgeous, Kylie Sonique Love, and Vanessa Vanjie Mateo.

👑 Nov 1-3 - Miss Dina Martina Halloween

• Where: Revolution Stage Company, 611 South Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs
  Dina Martina returns to Palm Springs with a blend of surreal comedy and “tragically funny” performance. This drag legend is known for leaving audiences in hysterics, so don’t miss out on this experience!

🕺 Nov 1-3 - Desert Heat Palm Springs Pride

• Where: Hotel Zoso, 150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs
  Paul Nicholls & Justin David present The Biggest Parties of Palm Springs Pride with 3 Days, 5 Events, and 12 All Star DJs – including BRUT, HEAT Pool Party, The GPS, PARADISE Pool Party, and SUPER SUNSET TEA CLOSING PARTY.

🏃 Nov 2 - Palm Springs Pride 5k Run and Walk | 8:00 AM – 10:00 AM

• Where: W Chino Dr & Belardo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262
  Join the Palm Springs Front Runners & Walkers for a 5K event to raise funds for local LGBTQ+ organizations. All ages and abilities are welcome to participate in this annual community-building event.

🛍️ Nov 2 - Festival Marketplace and Entertainment | 11:00 AM – 11:30 PM

• Don’t miss SISTER SLEDGE at 8:00 P.M. on the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage. The marketplace on Palm Canyon Drive opens up, featuring a diverse array of artists, food, beverages, and shopping. It’s the heart of Pride where you can sip, sashay, and celebrate with friends.

🏊 Nov 2 - Rainbow Splash Pool Party | 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM

• Where: CCBC Resort, 68-300 Gay Resort Dr, Cathedral City, CA 92234
  Cool off with a splash at CCBC Resort's pool party. Your ticket includes day-pass resort access and music by DJ Bobby. Dive in and relax with friends old and new!

🎶 Nov 2 - Arenas District Official Block Party 2024 | 4:00 PM – 11:00 PM

• The biggest free LGBTQ+ street party in Palm Springs takes over the Arenas District. The bars and businesses will be packed to the rafters with people dancing to DJs under the stars. Open-air beverage lounges and revelers fill the streets to celebrate Pride.

🎤 Nov 2 & 3 - Shakira “Las Mujeres Ya No Lloran” World Tour at Acrisure Arena

• On November 2nd, Shakira kicks off the North American leg of her world tour at Acrisure Arena in Greater Palm Springs. It’s your chance to see this GRAMMY® Award-winning artist perform live.

🏳️‍🌈 Nov 3 - Palm Springs Pride Parade | 10:00 AM - Noon

• Where: Palm Canyon Dr from Tachevah to Amado
  The iconic parade steps off in the Uptown Design District, making its way through downtown Palm Springs in a riot of color, music, and joy. It’s the highlight of Pride weekend, filled with vibrant floats and community pride.

🥂 Nov 3 - Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop | 9:00 AM - 2:00 PM

• Where: Flannery Exchange, 750 North Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs
  Party with a parade view! This rooftop celebration includes music, drinks, bites, and plenty of fun with local celebs like DJ MODGIRL, The Desert Studs, and yours truly – The Palm Springs Guys! Presale tickets include two free drinks from the full bar. Delicious drinks & bites provided by Lulu’s. In addition to the GA tickets, there are some limited parking passes and 6-pack VIP table options available too (yaasss, VIP)! Limited parking available for purchase as well. Benefitting the LGBTQ Center of the Desert. Tickets now on sale – and use the discount code PSGUYS to get $5 off general admission tickets.

🛍️ Nov 3 - Festival Marketplace and Entertainment | 11:00 AM – 6 PM

• Don’t miss GEORGE MICHAEL REBORN on the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage. The marketplace on Palm Canyon Drive continues, featuring a diverse array of artists, food, beverages, and shopping. It’s the heart of Pride where you can sip, sashay, and celebrate with friends.

🍳 Nov 3 - Brunch with Miss Richfield 1981 | 1:00 PM

• Where: EIGHT4NINE Restaurant & Lounge, 849 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs
  End your Pride weekend on a high note with brunch hosted by the drag legend Miss Richfield 1981. Her interactive format, homespun warmth, and edgy improv promise an unforgettable experience.

Why Palm Springs Pride is a Must-Visit

Palm Springs is more than just a city; it’s a year-round playground where the sun shines and the LGBTQ+ community thrives. With its welcoming atmosphere, breathtaking desert landscapes, and endless array of cultural events, it’s the ultimate destination to celebrate love, equality, and pride. So come for Pride, stay for the friendships, the nightlife, and the promise of unforgettable memories. See you soon in Palm Springs! 🏳️‍🌈

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10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs for Your Next Gaycation Getaway

Palm Springs is a destination-state-of-mind for gay men looking to let their guard down and embrace their inner selves. With our stunning desert landscapes, year-round sunshine, and thriving LGBTQ+ scene, there’s nowhere quite like Palm Springs for a fun-filled gaycation getaway. 

So let’s talk about the gay bars! Our city is sprinkled with fun and flirtatious nightlife gems, from cozy neighborhood watering holes to dance clubs. While there is much more to the magic of Palm Springs than simply getting our drink on, I always like to remember that our gay history is rooted in bar culture. Undercover gay bars run by the brave few were where we first found our community in stealth – and it wasn’t that long ago when it was extremely dangerous to do so. In many other parts of the world, it’s still dangerous just to be gay – let alone the kind of out-and-proud we get to be here in Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley. So, the next time you’re here in Palm Springs, raise a glass to our community and how far we’ve come!

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In the meantime, here are our votes on the 10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs! 🥂🌴 

The 10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs:

1. Blackbook Bar & Kitchen

Winner of Desert Sun's Best Restaurant in 2020, Blackbook is the real "chill bar" in the Arenas district. Its sleek, industrial style creates the perfect atmosphere for relaxing with friends or making new ones. Plus, they boast some of the best bar food in Palm Springs! Whether you’re looking to meet new friends at their welcoming bar and communal tables or just want a laid-back spot to unwind, Blackbook has you covered. Visit Website

2. Chill Bar

The coolest gay bar and dance club (pun fully intended) in Palm Springs as far as we’re concerned. Chill Bar is a beloved staple in the Arenas district, offering drag bingo, go-go boys, and those iconic disco-ball male statues that make for perfect Instagram moments. It’s where you go when you want to let loose and get your dance on (on the weekends), or just be unapologetically you any night of the week. Their Monday night happy hours are some of the best (and cheapest) in town too ;) Visit Website

3. Dicks

Dicks is all about cruising, drinking, and having a blast. It’s cruising culture at its most traditional, and that’s why we love it. This Arenas district gem is gay-owned, operated, and dedicated to serving the gay community. The drinks are strong and so are the bartenders. Their Friday happy hour is even more affordable (but the drinks are just as strong). With an unapologetically bold vibe, Dicks wants you to come, have fun, and keep cumming (or coming) back for more. Visit Website

4. Hunters

Hunters has been the go-to gay bar and dance club in Palm Springs for over 20 years. With the longest (Friday) happy hour in the Valley, this Arenas district hotspot serves up drag shows, karaoke, and DJs that keep the dance floor packed all night long. It’s loud, proud, and always entertaining. It’s also an in-season destination hot spot for bachelorette parties these days. We realize our gay community has mixed feelings about that, so consider yourself warned. Visit Website

5. One Eleven Bar

Formerly known as Studio One 11, One Eleven Bar has everything you need for a memorable night out. With weekly drag shows, karaoke, and live local entertainment (they’ve even got a grand piano they magically roll off and on stage!), it’s a versatile spot where old friends meet new ones. One Eleven is also home to Vanity’s Dollhaus, and lots of Ru Girls (Ru Paul’s Drag Race) Queen make cameo appearances there as well. Free entry and good vibes make this the top pick in Cathedral City. Visit Website

6. Quadz

Quadz is our kind of video "sports bar" — but swap the sports for showtunes, popular, classic, and gay-iconic film & TV moments that gay men LOVE to sing and monologue along to! The also host ongoing karaoke and weekly events. The Arenas district wouldn’t be the same without this TV bar, where everyone gets to revel in gay culture and music nostalgia. Visit Instagram

7. Roost Lounge

This neighborhood bar in Cathedral City offers a welcoming atmosphere where all are free to "roost." With ongoing weekly entertainment and karaoke, Roost Lounge is perfect for a laid-back evening out in Cat City. It’s a bit of an older crowd of regulars, but entertainment always brings a mixed crowd to the nest. Visit Website

8. Streetbar

Open since 1991, Streetbar is a Palm Springs institution! Mostly known as drawing an older crowd, this neighborhood bar is a favorite among locals and tourists alike. Known for their strong, cash-only drinks, they also serve up cabaret and karaoke to keep the party going. Visit Website

9. Tool Shed

The last remaining leather bar in Palm Springs (RIP, Barracks!), Tool Shed is all about that warm sands cruising scene. With daily happy hours and themed nights like Thursday's "Underwear Nights," it's the place to be for a more fetish-forward adventure. It also happens to be right across the street from Club 541 – our newest (and only) sex club. Just saying ;) Visit Website

10. Toucans Tiki Lounge

Dance your heart out at this no-attitude bar, known for its friendly patrons, great music, and packed dance floor. With regular drag shows, live performances, and Sunday tea dances, Toucans Tiki Lounge is the ultimate spot to let your inner diva shine. Visit Website

Comparisons:

• Hunters vs. Chill Bar: Both offer lively dance floors, but Hunters is known for its lengthy happy hour, while Chill Bar shines with its variety of drag events and go-go boys.

• Blackbook Bar & Kitchen vs. One Eleven Bar: Blackbook is all about a sleek, modern vibe with its industrial style and whiskey selection, while One Eleven Bar gives off a more classic, piano-bar ambiance with a mix of karaoke and live entertainment.

• Tool Shed vs. Dicks: Tool Shed caters to the leather and cruising scene with themed nights, while Dicks offers a more laid-back cruising experience with more of a dive bar feel.

Palm Springs: Your Next Gaycation

Palm Springs is the place to be for a fun, flirty, and fabulous gaycation getaway. Whether you’re dancing the night away at Chill Bar or enjoying a chill evening at Blackbook, there’s a spot here for every mood. Plus, with an inviting community, making new friends, having new experiences, and creating lasting connections is practically a given. It's easy to see why this desert oasis has become a haven for gay men. So pack your harness, put on your best swimwear, and come experience the magic of Gay Palm Springs for yourself!

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Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs

Palm Springs is the ultimate desert oasis for gay men seeking fun, relaxation, and fun. Whether you're planning a weekend getaway or a longer retreat, there are so many gay men's spas and resorts to help you unwind that our fabulous city has to offer. Palm Springs is known for its warm weather, endless sunshine, stunning landscapes, and welcoming atmosphere. We’ve got a variety of luxurious spa and massage experiences for everyone under the sun – and lucky for us, many of them cater specifically to gay men.

What are your favorite spas and resorts for gay men here in Palm Springs?

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know.

In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Gay Men's Spas in Palm Springs!

But first… Spa and Massage Etiquette 

It’s important you understand the spectrum of experiences here in Gay Palm Springs when you’re getting pampered. Some say that anything goes here, but don’t just assume that because your massage therapist (for example) is super hot and his touch is even hotter that your massage will result in a happy ending. Just as is the case in cruising culture, you must always carry a mutual respect with everyone you come into contact with. Massage services are professional services. Of course, every “professional” has rules of their own, but always assume you are in good professional hands and be careful not to cross any lines. Now, just take a deep breath in… And relax ;)

Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Gay Men

Men's Wellness Retreat

Palm Springs Men's Wellness Retreat is an exclusive massage spa designed by men for men located in downtown Palm Springs. It offers peaceful private treatment rooms as well as an upscale wet room with a table shower. Luxury products including coconut oil, wine scrubs, milk scrubs, and professional large size massage tables for additional comfort are part of their services. They also offer their services at the most competitive rates in downtown Palm Springs.

Men's Grooming Spot

The only complete men’s spa in the Coachella Valley, Men's Grooming Spot is the destination for men to relax, recoup, renew, and just be. Their spa services are specialized to provide men with a well-rounded experience, ensuring that every visit is a pampering one.

Palm Springs Gay Massage

Pamper yourself with a soothing and rejuvenating massage at Palm Springs Gay Massage. Services include massage therapy, Swedish massage, deep tissue massage, and sensual massage to soothe tight muscles and relieve stress. They also offer same-day appointments and gay massage services seven days a week.

Gay Wellness

Gay Wellness is an online platform that connects clients with quality gay massage therapists and wellness practitioners. More than just a directory, Gay Wellness is a hub for connection and wellness in a friendly, safe, and inclusive environment.

Top Gay Saunas and Bathhouses in Palm Springs for Gay Men

Palm Springs is a unique destination when it comes to its sex-positive offerings. You won’t find traditional gay bathhouses or gay saunas here (yet) like you might find in bigger cities. Instead, these types of amenities and play areas are infused into our many fabulous boutique resorts for men-only – all of which are clothing-optional (aka swimsuit-optional), and some of which even offer day passes and night passes for those who are more interested to play vs. stay (keep reading)…

That said, it’s worth a pit-stop at CLUB541 – Palm Springs’ newest (and hottest) sex club. It’s the ultimate playground for gay men seeking a thrilling, sex-positive adventure when the sun goes down. Check out our CLUB541: Discover Palm Springs' Newest Sex Club article to learn more about it.

Top Spa Resorts in Palm Springs for Gay Men

Santiago Resort

Located in the heart of Palm Springs, Santiago Resort is an exclusive boutique hotel for gay men. Staying at Santiago feels like a never ending spa day. The resort's serene atmosphere and top-notch service make it a must-visit for those looking to unwind in luxury. Check out their brother properties Twin Palms Resort and Descanso Resort for an equally pampered and luxurious stay.

The Hacienda at Warm Sands

This dreamy gay resort is landscaped with palms and backed by the stunning San Jacinto Mountains. The Hacienda offers a tranquil spa experience designed to help you unwind and relax. It's the perfect spot for those seeking a peaceful retreat.

Desert Paradise Gay Men’s Resort

Desert Paradise is aptly named, offering a wonderful escape with excellent spa-like amenities. Guests rave about the superb staff and the relaxing pool area, making it a perfect destination for those looking to unwind in comfort and style.

CCBC Resort Hotel

CCBC Resort Hotel is more than just a place to stay and play – it's an experience. This all-men’s resort features spa-like amenities and play areas. The resort's cruisy social scene and relaxing atmosphere make it a must-visit for any curious gay traveler. They even offer day passes.

All Worlds Resort

Known for its cruisy vibe and welcoming community, All Worlds Resort also offers spa-like amenities and both indoor and outdoor maze play areas. They offer day passes as well, so be sure to check things out at your leisure.

Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Everyone

The Spa at Séc-he

Recognized as the top spa in the U.S. for 2023, The Spa at Séc-he is a premier spa complex spanning over 73,000 square feet, renowned for its state-of-the-art treatments and therapies in a tranquil environment. It features 15 treatment rooms offering massages, facials, and body treatments, ensuring a holistic spa experience. Located at the Agua Caliente Cultural Plaza in the heart of Palm Springs, the spa blends rich heritage with healing treatments and luxurious amenities, including men's and women's bathhouses, a salon, fitness room, and outdoor mineral pools.

The Spa at Colony Palms

If you love a good White Lotus aesthetic as much as we do, The Spa at Colony Palms is a delightful sanctuary that will make you feel like you’re on set with Jennifer Cooliage. They offer luxurious treatments to relax your muscles, purify your body, and rejuvenate your spirit. Their spa menu includes a wide range of restorative massages, invigorating body wraps, and refreshing facials. Utilizing contemporary therapies, their holistic treatments are crafted to provide a tranquil experience and invigorate the senses. They carefully select natural, organic tools and products to ensure an exceptional experience.

Azure Palm Hot Springs Resort & Day Spa

Located just outside of town, Azure is a newer place to experience the desert’s legendary restorative hot springs. The star of this modern adults-only facility is the oversized outdoor pool filled with warm, soft, and odorless mineral water, plus two indoor and two outdoor spa pools naturally heated to different temperatures. Purchase a day pass to enjoy the spring-fed pools, cedar sauna, and relaxing lounging areas. Book a reasonably priced massage or mud wrap and receive complimentary admission to the mineral pools for the day of your treatment.

Come Visit Us in Gay Palm Springs

Visiting Gay Palm Springs is a fabulous idea for countless reasons. With year-round sunshine, a rich cultural scene, and a welcoming community, it's the perfect destination for making new friends and lasting connections. Whether you're here for the spas, the nightlife, or the stunning desert landscapes, Palm Springs offers something for every gay traveler. So pack your bags, book your spa appointments, and get ready to relax and rejuvenate in one of the most vibrant and inclusive destinations in the world.

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A Gay Man's Guide to a Hot Summer in Palm Springs

Warm summer nights in the low desert are when the boys come alive and the hot gay summer fun begins here in Palm Springs, California. With its vibrant LGBTQIA+ community, endless sunshine, and year-round array of activities, Palm Springs is the ultimate summer destination for gay men looking to have a fabulous getaway. Whether you're lounging by a clothing-optional pool, boozing & cruising, or just dancing the night away, there's no place quite like Palm Springs for a memorable and exciting summer escape. 

What do you love about Palm Springs in the summer? Email us and let us know.

In the meantime, here’s our gay man's guide to a hot summer in Palm Springs!

Stay Gay

Palm Springs boasts an impressive selection of gay resorts, each offering unique amenities and a welcoming atmosphere. Whether you're planning a solo trip or a getaway with besties, these resorts are perfect for indulging in some poolside flirtation and restoration.

Start by checking out our favorite stylish trio of men-only resorts by the Resorts Palm Springs group: Twin Palms Resort, Santiago Resort, and Descanso Resort. The next-level experience at any of these three resorts will never disappoint. Be sure to check out each resort website for any summer deals that might be happening too.

For more enticing clothing-optional experiences, check out:

• Triangle Inn: An architectural gem.

• Canyon Club: Known for its frisky atmosphere.

• El Mirasol: Offers understated grandeur with a clothing-optional pool.

• Vista Grande: Waterfalls, lounge spots, and naked men (of course).

• The Hacienda: A home away from home (and more of a swimsuit-optional respite).

• All Worlds: Known for letting it all hang out.

• Desert Paradise: A haven of seclusion.

• INNdulge: Features comfortable cabanas with cooling fans.

Where To Get Your Hair Did

Feeling hot starts with looking hot. Head to Daddy’s for a makeover, or try Sunny Dunes Barber Shop for a trendy cut. The Men’s Grooming Spot offers waxing, massages, skincare, hair, and nail services in a cool spa setting in nearby Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Where To Get Your Drink On

The Arenas district is the gay epicenter (aka gayborhood) of Gay Palm Springs, featuring a variety of lively bars and clubs like:

• Dick’s: Perfect for cruising.

• Chill Bar: Perfect for mingling.

• Quadz: The fun place for show tunes lovers.

• Evening Citizen: A classy speakeasy-style lounge.

More of our favorites just outside the Arenas district:

• Canopy Wine Lounge: Offers a sophisticated wine selection in downtown Palm Springs.

• Tailor Shop: A cocktail bar in Uptown with a cool speakeasy vibe.

• Tool Shed: The only leather and Levi bar, known for its happy hours and cruisy theme nights.

• Barracks Bar: Famous for its Sunday Beer Bust, Wednesday Underwear Night, and other (very cruisy) leather events, located in Cathedral City.

For more nightlife options, check out our Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs.

Where To Eat

Stay hydrated (it’s the desert, guuurrrl!) and stay well-fed with some of our favorite Palm Springs' dining spots:

• Koffi: Perfect for a morning kickstart.

• Townie Bagels: Freshly boiled bagels and baked goods.

• FARM: A Provencal-style gem.

• Chicken Ranch: Farm-to-table salads and rotisserie chicken.

• Santorini Gyro Restaurant: Affordable and delicious Greek cuisine.

• Clandestino: Modern Mexican and Latin American delights.

• Blackbook: Known for being the best bar food in town.

• French Miso Cafe: A unique blend of Japanese and French cuisine.

• Bar Cecil: A modern bistro experience celebrating individuality and creativity.

For more dining options, visit our The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler.

Where To Play

Palm Springs offers a range of enticing activities from mild to wild:

• CCBC Resort: Known for its range of sex-positive special events.

• CLUB541: Palm Springs’ newest (and hottest) sex club.

• All Worlds Resort: Features a play area maze and offers day passes.

• Canyon Club Hotel: Features a play area labyrinth and offers day passes.

• Pool parties: There are always pool parties happening throughout the summer months. Check out Gay Desert Guide, or make fast friends while you're in town to find out where the fun private pool parties are ;)

If you’re planning to live your best gay life here in Palm Springs, stay safe and be sure to get tested at one of our amazing local clinics offering free STI and HIV testing. Check out our Get Tested, Stay Fabulous: Your Ultimate Guide to STI and HIV Testing in Palm Springs.

Where To Explore

If you want to venture out on some traditional tourist excursions in and around Palm Springs, explore:

• Palm Springs Aerial Tramway: Offers breathtaking views, hiking, and cooler climates at the top of San Jacinto Mountain.

• Joshua Tree National Park: Known for its natural wonders in the high desert.

• Palm Springs Art Museum: Features an impressive collection of modern and contemporary art in a nice air-conditioned environment.

• Mid-Century Modern Tours: Explore the architectural wonders that define Palm Springs, with guided or self-led tours. Consider Palm Springs Mod Squad Tours or Mid-Century Modern Tours. If a self-guided tour is more your jam, you can caravan around some iconic Mid-century modern neighborhoods with The Palm Springs Guys MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour Guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)! And the open houses here in Palm Springs on the weekends will have you feeling like you’re at Modernism Week.

Check out our Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs for more inspiration.

Where To Shop

Find all your gaycation fashion needs and unique home goods that will awe-inspire right here in Palm Springs:

• Division Palm Springs: Our favorite variety of short shorts (the unofficial official shorts of Palm Springs).

• GayMart USA: America's Favorite Gay Superstore.

• Gear Leather & Fetish: High-quality fetish goods.

• Just Fabulous Palm Springs: Modern lifestyle boutique.

• PS Homeboys: Specializes in Mid-Century meets Modern home décor.

• Revivals: It’s like a gay Good Will that supports comprehensive healthcare at DAP Health for the LGBTQ+ community.

For more shopping ideas, visit our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs.

Where To See a Show

From drag shows, karaoke and underwear nights to a thriving live local theater scene, we've got something for every taste here in Palm Springs. Here are a few of our favorites:

• One Eleven Bar: Features drag shows, karaoke, and live entertainment, often featuring acclaimed Ru Girls (aka Ru Paul's Drag Race Queens).

• Toucans Tiki Lounge: Primarily known for it’s fun local drag shows.

• Drag Brunch: There are always fun drag brunch shows on the weekends here. Check out Gay Desert Guide’s Fun and Fabulous Drag Brunches in Greater Palm Springs for listings. 

• Oscar’s: Offers dancing, live dinner entertainment, drag brunches, and their signature T-Dance on Sundays.

• Palm Springs Cultural Center: Hosts LGBT film festivals, live performances, and so much more.

• Local theater: Check out our Palm Springs Performs: A Tour Of The Desert’s Finest Theaters.

For more ideas and inspiration, check out our Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs.

Palm Springs is a fabulous destination for gay men year-round, offering warm weather, vibrant culture, and a welcoming community. Whether you're making new friends or enjoying the array of activities, Palm Springs is the perfect place for hot summer fun and having experiences to remember.

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Your Ultimate 2024 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (April-December)

Welcome to Palm Springs! The LGBT+ scene is on fire in 2024, making it the ultimate playground for gay men once again. If you’re seeking the perfect blend of culture, party, and relaxation, Palm Springs is the place to be – where the events are as diverse as our fabulous community itself. 

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!

In the meantime, here’s your ultimate 2024 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (April-December)… 

April 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Apr 11: Play Time: Private Jazz Concert at Eldorado / Artful Event – Jazz under the stars in one of Palm Springs' most enchanting locations? Yes, please! This event mixes art, music, and the magic of the desert for an unforgettable evening.

Apr 12-14 & Apr 19-21: Coachella Weekend 1 & 2 – Need we say more? The festival that everyone's Instagram feed dreams of, featuring an eclectic mix of music, art, and fashion. It's where the desert becomes a canvas for the arts.

Apr 13: World Art Day Festival – Celebrate art in all its forms, from painting and sculpture to digital and performance art, in a festival that spans the vibrant streets of Palm Springs.

Apr 13: Coming OUTdoors - Hike & Mixer in the High Desert – Combine the beauty of nature with the joy of meeting new people in this unique event that takes you on a scenic hike followed by a mixer.

Apr 14: Twice Blessed: An Afternoon Cabaret – A cabaret afternoon with a twist, showcasing talent from within our community in a cozy, intimate setting.

Apr 15: Idyllwild Art in Society's 7th Annual Symposium – Engage with art on a deeper level in the serene setting of Idyllwild, where thinkers, creators, and enthusiasts come together.

Apr 20-21: Modern Men Chorus: Greatest Hits – The local chorus group that has been touching hearts and eardrums alike brings you a compilation of their greatest hits.

Apr 21: Cocktail Party at Frank Sinatra's Twin Palms Estate – Sip cocktails at the legendary Twin Palms Estate, once home to Frank Sinatra, in a night that promises elegance, nostalgia, and perhaps a little crooning.

Apr 25: DAP Health, Dining Out for Life 2024 – Dine out, do good. Participating restaurants donate a portion of their proceeds to support DAP Health, so you can help the community simply by enjoying a delicious meal.

Apr 24-26: Stagecoach 2024 – The country music festival that's a little bit rock n' roll and a whole lot of fun. Dust off your cowboy boots and get ready to line dance under the desert sky.

Apr 25-28: Defying Gravity with Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus – A musical journey that promises to lift your spirits and perhaps even your feet off the ground.

Apr 26: Revivals After Dark / Back Alley Event – A night market like no other, blending art, fashion, and music in a setting that's as unexpected as it is thrilling.

Apr 27: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

April 28: International Jazz Day – Celebrate the universal language of jazz with performances that span the genre's rich history and its bright future.

May 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

May 1: Rock the Park - WANTED: A Tribute to Bon Jovi – Channel your inner rock star at this electrifying tribute concert. Sing your heart out to "Livin' on a Prayer" under the stars and feel the energy of live music bringing people together.

May 4: Beethoven & Friends / Desert Winds Freedom Band – An evening of classical music with a modern twist, showcasing the talents of the Desert Winds Freedom Band. It's a perfect blend of history and harmony.

May 3-5: Artworks: Theatre Fest 2024 / Desert Theatreworks – Dive into the world of theater with this festival showcasing local playwrights, directors, and actors. From comedy to drama, there's a story for everyone.

May 9: Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast 2024 – Start your day with inspiration at this breakfast honoring the legacy of Harvey Milk. It's an event that celebrates diversity, courage, and the ongoing fight for equality.

May 15: Momentum: a Concert by Modern Men's Chorus – Experience the power of voices united in song. The Modern Men's Chorus presents an evening of music that promises to inspire and move you.

May 17-18: Tag Team (Bears & Cumunion Collide): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

May 24-27: Desertopia Memorial Day Weekend 2024 – Kick off the summer with a bang at Desertopia, a weekend-long celebration of LGBTQIA+ pride, culture, and community. Expect parties, performances, and plenty of poolside fun.

May 31: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

June 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

June 1: Sarah McLachlan at Acrisure Arena – Fumbling Towards Ecstasy 30th Anniversary Tour, with special guest Feist.

June 4: Janet Jackson at Acrisure Arena – Together Again Tour, with special guest Nelly.

June 18-24: Palm Springs International ShortFest 2024 – Celebrate the art of short filmmaking at this renowned festival. With screenings, panels, and workshops, it's a cinephile's dream come true.

June 28: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

June 29: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

June 29: Equality Wine Fest – Sip, savor, and support equality at this exquisite wine festival. Featuring selections from LGBTQIA+-friendly wineries, it's a taste of the good life, all for a good cause.

July 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

July 4-6: Dadfest – Dadfest is a celebration of, you guessed it, daddies! Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

July 5: New Kids On The Block at Acrisure Arena – With special guests Paula Abdul and DJ Jazzy Jeff.

July 19: Jennifer Lopez at Acrisure Arena – This Is Me Tour.

July 19-21: Gay Wine Weekend 2024 – Continue your vinicultural voyage with a weekend dedicated to the finer things in life. Wine tastings, vineyard tours, and elegant dinners await in this oenophile's oasis.

June 20-22: Heatwave 2024 – Western Xposure is a sex-positive bear party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

July 21: Palm Springs Lip Sync Contest – Let your inner diva shine at this uproarious event. Whether you're channeling Cher or channeling your best Madonna, it's your time to lip-sync for your legacy.

July 26: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

July 27: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

August 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Aug 8: Alanis Morissette at Acrisure Arena – The Triple Moon Tour, with special guests Joan Jett and the Blackhearts and Morgan Wade.

Aug 8-11/16-18: Splash House 2024 – The ultimate summer pool party is back, blending the heat of the desert with cool beats and even cooler drinks. It's where music, swimming, and dancing create the perfect summer vibe.

Aug 16: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

Aug17: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

September 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Sept 6: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

Sept 7: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Sept 21: Art In the Park in the Dark – Experience art like never before in this unique nighttime event. As darkness falls, the park comes alive with illuminated installations, live performances, and an atmosphere of mystery and wonder.

October 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Oct 10-12: The Haunted Gay Resort – Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Oct 17-19: Raise Some Hell – Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

November 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Nov. 1-3: Palm Springs Pride 2024 – Cap off the year with Palm Springs Pride, the pinnacle of LGBTQIA+ celebrations. With parades, parties, and performances, it's a festival of love, acceptance, and fabulousness that draws together the community from far and wide.

Nov 8: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

Nov 9: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

December 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Dec 6: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

Dec 7: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Why Palm Springs? 

Aside from the year-round sunshine and the backdrop that looks like a constant Instagram filter, Palm Springs is a place where you can truly be yourself. It's a community that welcomes everyone with open arms and a cold cocktail. Making friends is as easy as stepping out your door, and forming lasting connections happens as quickly and naturally as the desert blooms after a rain. Whether you're here for the art, the parties, or the peace of mind, you'll find your tribe in Palm Springs.

So, pack your bags, bring your short-shorts, and prepare for a vacation that's anything but ordinary. Palm Springs is where every gay man's travel dreams are set to come true. See you soon in the desert!

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The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler

Ah, Palm Springs! A Mid-century modern mecca nestled in the Coachella Valley under the Californian sun, serving up a slice of paradise with a side of fabulous for the gay male solo traveler. This is where the vibe is as warm as the desert heat, where you can let it ALL hang out without a care in the world, and where every moment is a chance to celebrate who YOU are in this world. Welcome to Palm Springs, the ultimate destination for gay men seeking a solo (or boys weekend) adventure, relaxation, and everything in between.

Why Palm Springs?

Palm Springs is more of a lifestyle for gay men than it is a destination. It’s a safe haven where the LGBTQ+ community isn't just welcomed; it's celebrated. Our little desert oasis offers year-round sunshine, stunning architecture, and a vibe so inclusive you'll feel like you've finally come home – especially if you're flying solo. It's all about living your best life here, and often in ways guys have never truly experienced (or even imagined) until they get here.

Stay in Style

Santiago Resort: Luxe Lounging

At the Santiago Resort, luxury meets liberation in a clothing-optional paradise. Dive into their saline pool, indulge in complimentary poolside lunch, and make new friends under the Palm Springs sun. If it's all booked, their equally chic siblings, Descanso and Twin Palms, are just around the corner.

INNdulge Palm Springs: Economical Elegance

For a blend of affordability and allure, INNdulge is your haven in the Warm Sands district. With a 24-hour heated salt water pool, a 12-man jacuzzi, and decades of experience, it's the perfect pick for those new to the clothing-optional scene.

CCBC Men’s Resort Hotel: Playful Retreat

Seeking fun in a sex-positive space? CCBC Resort in Cathedral City (aka Cat City) offers a vast playground for your desires with special events – CUMUNION sex parties and male bonding pop-up events – day and night passes, and endless opportunities for adventure.

Dine Like You Mean It

Breakfast

Koffi: Kickstart your day with their robust oat milk iced lattes and satisfying egg sandwiches, available at various chic locations across Palm Springs.

Townie Bagels: For freshly boiled bagels and scrumptious baked goods, this spot in the Antique Shopping District is a must-visit.

FARM: A Provencal-style gem serving traditional French dishes with a twist of local flavors. Be early to beat the brunch rush!

Lunch

Clandestino: Dive into Latin American delights with a side of artistic flair, brought to you by the creators of FARM and Tac/Quila.

Santorini Gyro Restaurant: Authentic Greek cuisine that's as delicious as it is affordable. Don't miss their outdoor seating in Palm Springs for prime people-watching.

Chicken Ranch: Committing to freshness, enjoy farm-to-table salads, rotisserie chicken, and seasonal ingredients for a rejuvenating lunch.

Dinner

French Miso Cafe: Where Japanese meets French cuisine in a cozy setting. Quality dining awaits, but keep an eye on their hours.

Blackbook Bar & Kitchen: Located in the bustling Arenas district, known for the best bar food in town and a lively happy hour scene.

Workshop Kitchen & Bar: A farm-to-table experience with a James Beard-award winning design. It's a culinary journey not to be missed.

Bar Cecil: For a bistro experience that celebrates individuality and creativity, both in its aesthetics and its cuisine. Book ahead, it's a hot ticket!

Nightlife

Cheers, Queers!

The Arenas district is the gayborhood epicenter of all things Gay Palm Springs. Start at Blackbook where it’s easy to meet new friends sitting right at the bar. Then hop around to (it’s a short block) to check out other gay watering holes like Dick’s, Streetbar, Chill Bar, Hunters, Quadz, or the (semi-hidden) speakeasy-style Evening Citizen for more boozing and cruising. While you’re at it, check out retail stores like GayMart, Rough Trade Gear, Division Menswear, or Ball Beachwear for all of your poolside (and bedside) needs.

Truss & Twine: Specializing in era-themed classic cocktails, Truss & Twin is Workshop Kitchen’s chic cocktail bar, alongside a desert-inspired menu using ingredients from the Coachella Valley.

Canopy Wine Lounge: A swanky newcomer offering a world-class wine selection in a sophisticated setting. With a focus on providing a memorable experience, Canopy has already gained popularity for its swanky atmosphere and has become a stunning addition to Palm Springs' bar scene.

Tailor Shop: A "purveyor of fine spirits and bespoke traditions". They are Uptown Palm Springs' newest cocktail bar with a distinct speakeasy-style ambiance. Picture a dark, moody interior with velvet banquettes, leather chairs, and a wrap-around marble bar. It's the perfect cooldown for those hot desert evenings.

PS Air Bar: A fun Airline-themed speakeasy inside the Bouschet wine store, featuring cocktails, dinner, naughty flight attendants, and live entertainment on the weekends. There's no place else quite like this, and every seat is first class (literally). You know we love a good theme bar!

Purple Room: Honoring the Rat Pack era and the quintessential "Old Hollywood" Palm Springs experience – Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show! – a parody of the great icons of the 60s. Grab a cocktail during happy hour and enjoy some (free) local music during the week.

Experiences to Remember

Entertainment Extravaganza

Drag Shows Galore: From the playful Mile High Boozy Brunch at PS Air Bar to Vanity's Doll Haus at One Eleven Bar in Cat City, Palm Springs offers an array of drag performances that promise fabulous fun. Here’s a complete list of drag shows from Gay Desert Guide for more drag show events. Shantay, you stay!

Sunday Funday: Embrace the local tradition with drag brunches, Palm Springs pool parties, and the legendary tea dance at Oscar's. After you’ve had enough disco, strap on some leather gear head on over to the Barracks for their popular Beer Bust.

Cultural Cachet

Mid-Century Modern Tours: Dive deep into the architectural wonders that define Palm Springs, with guided or self-led tours. Consider Palm Springs Mod Squad Tours or Mid-Century Modern Tours. If a self-guided tour is more your jam, you can caravan around some iconic Mid-century modern neighborhoods with The Palm Springs Guys MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour Guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)! And the open houses here in Palm Springs on the weekends will have you feeling like you’re at Modernism Week!

Palm Springs Aerial Tramway: Escape the heat and explore the breathtaking views and cooler climates. The Tram climbs up two-and-a-half-miles of Chino Canyon cliffs to the top of Mt. San Jacinto State Park – an elevation of 8,516 feet and temperature drop of nearly 20 degrees. It’s ​​the “world’s largest rotating tram car” and it features spectacular views of the panoramic valleys below. Enjoy a moderate hike through its 50+ miles of hiking trails and butterscotch-scented Jeffrey pines. Then grab a cocktail at the lodge and retire to the observation decks for happy hour before a nice dinner at Mountain Station’s Peaks Restaurant.

Palm Springs Art Museum: Get inspired by the Palm Springs Art Museum’s incredible 12,000 works collection of modern and contemporary art, architecture, and design. Just look for the 26-foot sculpture of Marilyn Monroe located directly in front of the Museum! Locals get in for free on Thursday evenings, so be sure to make a new local friend beforehand ;)

CLUB541: Yes, your sexual exploration also counts as cultural cachet! CLUB541 is Palm Springs newest sex club exclusively for men who want to explore the depths of their fantasies. It’s also walkable from the Tool Shed (Palm Springs exclusive leather bar) and several men-only hotels like Santiago.

Your Oasis Awaits

Palm Springs can be a life-changer when it comes to your happiness and well-being. Palm Springs' welcoming LGBTQ+ community, vibrant culture, and endless opportunities for leisure and exploration make it an unparalleled choice for those looking to live their best gay lives. Whether you're seeking a much-needed getaway, a second haven, or a new permanent place to call home, Palm Springs promises a lifestyle filled with joy, freedom, and fabulousness. In a world where you can be anything, Palm Springs invites you to be unabashedly you. So pack your bags (or don't, we won't judge), and dive into whatever adventure awaits you here.

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Your Ultimate 2024 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (So Far)…

Palm Springs isn’t just a fabulous gay destination; it's a lifestyle, especially for the gay man who's ready to live his best life in 2024. Beyond the pool parties and the perpetual summer vibe, we are an epicenter for some of the most vibrant LGBTQIA+ events in the country. So, grab your sunglasses and your short-shorts, because we're spotlighting some of the top events that make Gay Palm Springs the place to be this year!

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you’re excited about it too)!

In the meantime, here’s your ultimate 2024 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (so far)… 

January 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Palm Springs International Film Fest (Jan 5-14): There’s still time to celebrate today’s diverse voices in cinema with a cocktail in hand.

CAKE at The Barracks (Jan 13): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night.

The American Express Golf Tournament (Jan 15-21): Tee off in style and maybe rub shoulders with a few celebrities at this renowned annual golf event.

Firebirds Pride Night (Jan 19): Come see some of our favorite local Drag Queens take the stage ahead of the Coachella Valley Firebirds Pride Night at Acrisure Arena.

PIG DADDY at The Barracks (Jan 20): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night.

CumUnion (Jan 20): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

INFO-A-GO-GO at Margaritaville Resort (Jan 25): An event that features all the great groups, clubs, organizations, and things that the Coachella Valley has to offer in one spot.

Palm Springs Speaks presents an evening with Fran Drescher (Jan 25): The lovable “Fran Fine" from CBS’s hit series The Nanny comes to Palm Spring’s Richards Center for the Arts (at the Palm Springs High School Auditorium) for an inspiring talk and Q&A!

Desert Open Studios (Jan 26-28): Immerse yourself in the local art scene, where creativity meets community throughout the Coachella Valley.

Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo (Jan 27): Get those endorphins flowing with a fun run followed by a fitness expo.

Palm Springs Art Museum's Art Party (Jan 27): Art, design, cocktails, dinner, and dancing. The Art Party benefits the Palm Springs Art Museum and will be honoring the life and work of renowned architect Albert Frey (1903-1998).

February 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Rock the Park - Tribute to David Bowie (Feb 7): Ziggy Stardust comes to life in this electrifying tribute concert under the stars.

Tour de Palm Springs (Feb 9-10): The Tour de Palm Springs is one of the largest cycling charity events of its kind. Since 1998, and with the help of 2,000 volunteers, the Tour de Palm Springs has distributed nearly $4,000,000.00 to over 150 local nonprofit organizations.

National Gay Pilots Association's Palm Springs Winter Warm-Up (Feb 15-18): The Winter Warm-Up presented by American Airlines is the NGPA’s flagship West Coast event. This extremely popular winter fly-in event has steadily grown over the years, so hop on your Grindr that weekend if you’re still looking for those buddy passes (wink wink).

Modernism Week (Feb 15-25): A celebration of mid-century modern design, architecture, and culture. It's a modernist feast for the eyes!

CumUnion (Feb 17): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

IBC / International Bear Convergence (Feb 22-26): The bear community takes over in this festive gathering of fun, fur, and friendship.

O'so SUCIA at The Barracks (Feb 22): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night, celebrating IBC weekend.

SHINY DISCO BALLS at The Barracks (Feb 23): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night, celebrating IBC weekend.

FURBAL at The Barracks (Feb 24): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night, celebrating IBC weekend.

March 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

CumUnion (Mar 3): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Rock the Park - ABBAFab Palm Springs (Mar 6): A night of ABBA classics to sing and dance to? Yes, please!

Cathedral City LGBT Days (March 8-10): Palm Springs neighboring city (aka Cat City) joins in the fun with its own unique LGBT celebration.

Fashion Week El Paseo (Mar 15-21): The runway sizzles with the latest trends in this high-profile fashion extravaganza in Palm Desert’s El Paseo district.

Madonna - The Celebration Tour at Acrisure Arena (Mar 13): The Queen of Pop graces the Coachella Valley. Need we say more?

Red Dress / Dress Red Party (Mar 16): A night of fabulous fashion and fundraising, brought to you by The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert (aka The Center). Dress red! Tickets go on sale Valentine’s Day.

Palm Springs International Pride Hockey Tournament (Mar 20-24): Sports and LGBTQIA+ camaraderie collide in this exciting hockey event.

Palm Desert Food & Wine Festival (Mar 21-24): Indulge in culinary delights under the Palm Desert sun.

White Party Palm Springs (Mar 29-31): The legendary dance party returns bigger and better!

BRÜT Party, Palm Springs White Party Weekend at The Barracks (Mar 29): Featuring DJ duo Dan Darlington and Deanne, BRÜT Party will transform Cat City’s The Barracks into a rhythmic fusion of power and raw sex appeal.

DAP Health’s “The Chase” Gala (Mar 30): Barry Manilow will headline this glittery gala is a gold standard of the desert’s social calendar. Host Kevin Bass promises an evening of inspiration for guests to think more boldly about the future of wellness throughout the Coachella Valley.

April 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Rock the Park - Garth Brooks Tribute Show (Apr 3): A country twist to the Rock the Park series. Save a horse, ride a cowboy (or at least enjoy the music of one)!

Healthy Friction at Vista Grande Resort (April 11-15): Healthy Friction is a Reunion and Social Brotherhood Weekend for the sex-positive-minded gay man.

Coming Outdoors hike in Joshua Tree National Park (April 13): Come out for an easy, friendly, and educational hike in Joshua Tree National Park, followed by a fun LGBTQ+ mixer at Desert Institute’s Yucca Valley park store.

Coachella Weekend 1 & 2 (Apr 12-14/19-21): The ultimate music festival experience. Say it with us now… CHELLA!!

DAP Health’s “Dining Out for Life” (Apr 25): Dine out and make a difference in helping to end HIV for good!

Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus "Defying Gravity" (Apr 25-28): Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus presents a concert that celebrates the human spirit and inspires us all to break the bounds of gravity and soar beyond the limitations put on us. Annenberg Theater at the Palm Springs Art Museum.

Stagecoach (Apr 26-28): The country music festival that's a must-attend for country music-lovers… Giddy up on that wait list because it’s already sold out!

CumUnion (Apr 27): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

May 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Rock the Park - The Ultimate Tribute to Bon Jovi (May 1): Don’t give love a bad name. Instead, why not close the season with the rock anthems of an icon!

CumUnion (May 18): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

June 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

CumUnion (June 1): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Palm Springs International ShortFest (June 18-24): A cinematic celebration that promises to inspire you as you wrap up the first half of 2024!

See You Soon In Gay Palm Springs

In Palm Springs, the stage is always set just right for making new friends and forging lasting connections. It's a place gay culture, fun, and ideal weather blend seamlessly, offering a year-round haven for gay men who want to embrace the extraordinary. From the pulsating beats of the White Party to the artistic inspiration of the Desert Open Studios, there's an event for every taste.

Whether you're here to bask in the warm desert sun, mingle with other guys, or simply let loose among the night life, Palm Springs is the ultimate playground for the gay men who want to experience it all. So, pack your bags and let Palm Springs work its magic on you!

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CLUB541: Discover Palm Springs' Newest Sex Club

Welcome to Gay Palm Springs, where the days are hot, and the nights are even hotter – especially now with the opening of CLUB541, Palm Springs newest sex club (or “gay men’s private social club” if you like). 

This desert oasis, long celebrated as a safe-haven for men who love men, just leveled up its game. While Palm Springs always promises a complete liberation of your senses, CLUB541 takes it even further for you as Palm Springs' newest nocturnal playground, exclusively for men who want to explore the depths of their fantasies.

CLUB541: A New Wave of Sex-Positivity in Palm Springs

Palm Springs is a unique gem indeed, and it’s mostly known for its clothing-optional resorts offering a spectrum of different vibes, from mild to wild. Some have more of a "bathhouse" feel with play areas, such as The Canyon Club, All Worlds Resort, and CCBC in Cathedral City, while others have a more laid-back vibe, like Twin Palms and Descanso.

Gay men can usually expect to find more traditional bathhouses and sex clubs for men-only when they’re traveling in bigger cities. That hasn't been the case here in Palm Springs. Of course, there’s always fun to be had around every corner, but CLUB541, situated at 541 E Industrial Pl, Palm Springs, CA 92264, has carved out its unique niche as the first real "sex club" in the greater Palm Springs area and the only one dedicated exclusively to men in the Coachella Valley. It’s also walkable from the Tool Shed and several men-only hotels like Santiago. 

Safety First

Brought to us by the guys behind The Slammer in Los Angeles, CLUB541 is also about creating a safe space where men can meet, unwind, and indulge in their fantasies with freedom and respect. They want you to have fun, but they highly value the health, privacy and safety of their clientele, respecting all local laws and their neighbors. When visiting CLUB541 they expect that you will too. And if you have any doubts after any sexual encounters visiting CLUB541, please check out our Get Tested, Stay Fabulous: Your Ultimate Guide to STI and HIV Testing in Palm Springs article!

CLUB541’s Enticing Offer

Open from Thursday & Friday: 7pm-4am, and Saturday & Sunday: 4pm-4am, CLUB541 invites you in with an enticing grand opening rate of just $15. There's currently no membership required, and you'll get in-and-out privileges all evening with paid entrance.

Add $2 to the fee if you'd like a clothing check, but most guys seem to like to keep their clothes on from what I've seen so far. That said, be sure to wear something sexy and bold – from leather gear to minimalistic layers, or whatever you might wear to local hotspots like the Tool Shed or the Barracks in Cathedral City.

A Peek Inside CLUB541

Much like its brother (The Slammer in LA), CLUB541 is where men can play hard and raunchy in a hyper-masculine environment. CLUB541 is a zone of hot sexual energy, where every turn offers a new possibility. While the club itself is more intimate than some other sex clubs and bathhouses I've been to, CLUB541 has a little of everything – private rooms with glory holes, a sling room, a dark room, and even a "suckatorium" that you can cruise your way along through (or situate yourself within). The club's ambiance is a blend of dark, minimal aesthetics with red-light district vibes, complemented by Tom of Finland's iconic imagery throughout.

Cum check them out

Palm Springs isn't just a place to visit; it's a lifestyle for gay men. Its year-round sun, LGBTQ+ cultural vibrancy, and welcoming atmosphere make it a magnet for gay men looking to forge new connections and create unforgettable memories. In Palm Springs, every moment is an opportunity to meet someone new, to experience something different. CLUB541 is a new chapter in the ongoing story of Gay Palm Springs – a story of freedom, fun, and the unapologetic celebration of who we are.

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Ultimate Guide To A Modernist Getaway in Gay Palm Springs

Picture this: Endless sun, iconic architecture, and a cocktail in your perfectly manicured hand as you revel in the mid-century modern oasis that is Palm Springs. Modernism isn't just a design movement; it's a lifestyle, a mindset, a fabulous backdrop to our equally fabulous lives. From the groundbreaking architects who carved this desert dreamland to the proud LGBTQ+ community who call it home, there's truly no place quite like Gay Palm Springs.

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A Dash of History and a Splash of Style

Palm Springs' tryst with Modernism began in the 1920s, where the movement's characteristic clean lines and integration with nature became the canvas for celebrities and sun-seekers alike. Soon, world-renowned architects like Richard Neutra, John Lautner, and Albert Frey were busy crafting the city's iconic aesthetic. For the gay man with a penchant for architectural brilliance, Palm Springs beckons like a siren in the desert.

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Your Ultimate Modernism Itinerary in Gay Palm Springs:

Take An Official Modernism Tour

If you have an insatiable craving for mid-century modern, quench your thirst with Mid-Century Modern Tours or Palm Springs Mod Squad tours. Check out Mid-Century Modern Tours and Palm Springs Mod Squad tours. Let the professionals guide you! 

Go To Open Houses 

Swing by open houses, especially on the weekends. Experience exterior and interior modernism firsthand. Check out Modern Living Palm Springs for open house listings. Think of it as a private modernism tour, sans the price tag!

Drive The Neighborhoods 

Let your inner diva explore at her own pace with our own MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour guide. It's Google Maps GPS-ready!

Go Shopping

For the modernism maven in all of us, here’s what Palm Springs boasts:

• Destination PSP

  Adore their MCM t-shirts and quirky tissue box covers!

• Just Fabulous Palm Springs

  A haven for modern lifestyle goodies.

• The SHAG Store

  Dive into the world of SHAG. Get that signed print, you deserve it!

• H3K Home

  Swoon over their sun-kissed Palm Strings Collection.

• PS Homeboys

  A marriage of Mid-Century and Modern in the heart of the Arenas District.

• Antique Galleries of Palm Springs

  Dive into a treasure trove of vintage.

• Palm Springs Vintage Market

  A mid-century & vintage enthusiast's dream!

Dive into Modernism Week 

At Modernism Week's official website, you can find the skinny on Mini-Modernism Week in October, and the full-blown fabulousness of Modernism Week 2024 in February. Block your calendars, queens!

Gay Palm Springs isn't just a place—it's a vibe. Aside from its architectural allure, it boasts year-round sunshine, world-class events, and a cultural vibrancy that simply can't be beat. Whether you're soaking up rays by the pool or hitting the town, you'll find an eager community waiting with open arms. New friends? Check. Lasting memories and connections? Double check. Palm Springs is more than a vacation—it's an experience that keeps you coming back for more.

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The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs

Welcome to Palm Springs, an LGBTQ+ oasis nestled in the heart of California's Coachella Valley – or Gay Palm Springs as we like to call it! There’s no place quite like it because it offers so many exhilarating experiences for gay men seeking an unforgettable getaway. Beyond its stunning landscapes, luxury resorts (for men-only), and thriving LGBTQ+ scene, Palm Springs boasts an array of exciting sex shops and adult play gear destinations. Get ready to unlock your inner explorer as we embark on a journey through Palm Springs' most enticing possibilities, tailored specifically for gay men who want to live their best lives.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!

In the meantime, here are our votes on the best sex shops and adult play gear for gay men in Palm Springs!

Bear Wear: Where Style Meets Adventure

If you're searching for statement apparel and accessories, Bear Wear is your go-to destination. Located in the vibrant LGBTQ+ Arenas district, this boutique offers a curated selection of men's fashion, jewelry, and gifts. Whether you're a big man, small man, or somewhere in between, the friendly team at Bear Wear, led by Philip 'n Bruce, will ensure you find the perfect attire for your Palm Springs adventure. While primarily focused on clothing, Bear Wear also features a modest yet exciting range of gear, especially during major events. It's the ideal spot to gear up for memorable occasions like the White Party, where you can find everything from stylish underwear to provocative harnesses.

GayMart USA: The Ultimate Superstore

Specializing in a vast assortment of swimsuits and underwear, this haven of delights also offers an array of fun cards, gifts, and adult novelty items. Located in the heart of the Arenas district, GayMart USA caters to your desires, including a wide variety of "shoe polish" (aka poppers) that add a touch of extra excitement to your experiences.

Gear Leather & Fetish: Unleash Your Wild Side

For those who crave the exhilarating world of fetish gear, Gear Leather & Fetish is your ultimate destination. Situated on East Sunny Dunes Road, this boutique offers an exceptional collection of fetish goods from the world's top makers. Before diving into their array of delights, grab a drink at the neighboring Tool Shed for some inspiration to elevate your Palm Springs escapades.

Love Stuff: Exploring Intimacy and Beyond

Love Stuff is an inclusive establishment that caters to all genders and desires. With their knowledgeable staff, you can confidently explore a wide range of products. If you're in the mood for a "Fifty Shades" experience, the team at Love Stuff will gladly guide you through the intricacies of kink and sensuality. Don't hesitate to seek their expertise and embark on an exciting journey of self-discovery.

Not So Innocent: Where Pleasure Takes Center Stage

Located behind Toucan's Bar, Not So Innocent offers a wealth of products and a staff that knows their stuff. From alluring sexy underwear and jocks to lubricants and C-rings, their top-notch customer service ensures you'll find exactly what you desire. While the surroundings may attract more bachelorette parties, remember that pleasure knows no bounds – and that even straight girls have needs.

Perez Images Video: A Treasure Trove of Novelties

Venture to Cathedral City (aka Cat City) and discover Perez Images Video, a hidden realm of novelty items and male pleasures. The staff at Perez Images Video are known for their hands-off approach, allowing customers to have their own private experiences. Explore their diverse variety of products at affordable prices. You may even be curious to check out their active video arcade, where adventurous possibilities are always waiting.

Rough Trade Gear Palm Springs: Unleash Your Inner Maverick

Located in the Arenas District, Rough Trade Gear Palm Springs is a haven for those seeking the hottest men's street, fetish, sport, and play gear. Prepare to be captivated by their unparalleled selection of quality items. From leather to rubber, harnesses to toys, Rough Trade Gear Palm Springs has everything you need to unleash your inner kink. 

The Barracks Bar: A Hub of Leather and Kink

Why include a gay bar on this list? Well, The Barracks Bar in Cat City is not your ordinary watering hole. It’s a gay leather porn video bar that hosts popular leather and kink events like it’s ever-popular Sunday Beer Bust, weekly Wednesday Underwear Nights. Explore your desires in this cruisy and boozy atmosphere while indulging in the company of like-minded guys. And during popular events like these, keep an eye out for the Rough Trade Gear Palm Springs pop-up shop, offering a fantastic opportunity to enhance your collection of play gear.

Resorts with a Twist

If you happen to be staying at resorts like Vista Grande Resort or CCBC Men's Resort Hotel, you're in for a treat. These exclusive establishments go beyond the ordinary by offering a limited but exciting supply of adult toys at their front desk. Perfect for those spontaneous moments when you want to add an extra layer of pleasure to your stay. Embrace the convenience and elevate your vacation experiences.

It's clear that Palm Springs and Cat City both hold a world of excitement for gay men. Beyond the allure of the low desert’s exquisite weather and stunning natural landscapes, Palm Springs embraces its LGBTQ+ community with open arms, fostering an atmosphere of acceptance and celebration. Whether you're seeking adventure, connection, or a chance to express your authentic self, Palm Springs offers an unrivaled destination for gay men. Unleash your desires, create unforgettable memories, and embark on a journey to live your best gay life in Palm Springs.

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The Top Five 2023 Summer Pool Parties in Gay Palm Springs

Welcome to the desert oasis that is Gay Palm Springs – where the sun shines bright, the mountains tower in the distance, and the pool parties are legendary. For gay men seeking an unforgettable summer vacation, Palm Springs is the ultimate destination. With its vibrant LGBTQ+ community, breathtaking landscapes, and an exciting lineup of pool parties this summer, this desert paradise offers an escape like no other. 

Get your sunglasses ready and let's dive into the Top Five 2023 Summer Pool Parties in Gay Palm Springs!

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BOYZ NIGHT OUT

Date: Starting Friday, May 26, 2023 (and then every Friday night thereafter)

Time: 4:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Location: Hotel Zoso, 150 S Indian Canyon Dr. Palm Springs, CA 92262

Host: Zoso Fun

Website: https://www.facebook.com/zosofun 

Price: Free event (no cover)

About: Every Friday night starting May 26, 2023, the iconic Hotel Zoso becomes the playground for BOYZ NIGHT OUT, hosted by the fabulous Snatch. This legendary pool party and happy hour extravaganza features Go-Go boys, pop-up drag events, and K-Gay's own DJ Galaxy spinning infectious beats. Immerse yourself in the vibrant atmosphere, sip on delightful cocktails, and enjoy awesome drink specials. Join the fun from 4 to 8 pm!

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Sun Vibes

Date: Saturday, May 27, 2023

Time: 11:00 am - 6:00 pm

Location: Margaritaville Resort, 1600 N Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262

Host: Le Parties

Website: https://leparties.com/event/sunvibes-pool-party-palm-springs 

Price: $20

About: On Saturday, May 27, 2023, prepare to be swept away by Sun Vibes at the Margaritaville Resort. This pool party, hosted by Le Parties, takes place from 11 am to 6 pm and promises a day of non-stop dancing and sun-kissed bliss. With colorful decorations, luxurious cabanas, and premium daybeds, the pool area transforms into a paradise. Cool off with refreshing drinks and let the rhythm move you as you revel in the beauty of Palm Springs.

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PLUNGE 2

Date: Saturday, Jun 10, 2023

Time: 12:00 PM - 5:00 PM

Location: CCBC, 68300 Gay Resort Drive, Cathedral City, CA 92234

Host: Palm Springs Leather Order of The Desert

Website: https://www.pslod.org/plunge 

Price: Starts at $45

About: The Palm Springs Leather Order of The Desert invites you to experience "A (Really) Different Kind of Pool Party" at PLUNGE 2. Taking place on Saturday, June 10, 2023, at CCBC, this event is not to be missed. Dance to the beats of Palm Springs' top DJ Peter Barona and explore the completely refurbished play space, featuring new slings and benches by JimSupport. Start your summer with a bang and indulge in all the fun and frolic you can handle!

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FOAM PARTY: Poolside Pleasures

Date: August 25 - August 27, 2023

Time: August 25 · 10am - August 27 · 7pm

Location: CCBC, 68300 Gay Resort Drive, Cathedral City, CA 92234

Host: Xposure Events

Website: https://www.westernxposure.net/foamparty  

Price: Starts at $60.00

About: From August 25 to August 27, 2023, CCBC Resort heats up with the Bear Naked Weekend's FOAM PARTY. Get ready for day and night pool parties, DJ Marcos Moreno spinning tunes, and, of course, foam parties all day on Saturday. This clothing-optional weekend hosted by Xposure Events promises a wet and wild time. Dive into the refreshing pools, mingle with fellow partygoers, and let loose with Big Dipper & Meatball!

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Splash House

Dates: June 9 - 11, August 11 - 13, August 18 - 20

Times: TBD

Locations: MARGARITAVILLE, RENAISSANCE, SAGUARO & AIR MUSEUM

Host: Splash House

Website: https://splashhouse.com  

Price: Starting at $34

About: Get ready for the ultimate summer festival experience at Splash House, taking place on June 9-11, August 11-13, and August 18-20. This multi-weekend extravaganza happens across three hotel resorts: Margaritaville, Renaissance, Saguaro & Air Museum. Each resort boasts a poolside stage, rooms, and balconies that become part of the fun. And as the desert day fades into night, the After Hours series kicks in, offering unforgettable dance parties under the stars at the Palm Springs Air Museum.

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Palm Springs invites you to escape the ordinary and embrace the extraordinary. With its vibrant LGBTQ+ community, stunning landscapes, and an array of unforgettable pool parties, this desert oasis is the perfect destination for gay men seeking a sizzling summer getaway.

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White Party Palm Springs 2023: The Ultimate Dance Music Gaycation

White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global

If you're seeking the ultimate dance music gaycation experience, look no further than White Party Palm Springs 2023! This iconic event is the top shelf of gay parties – and there's nowhere else quite like Palm Springs for gay men looking to have a fantastic vacation getaway.

This year's White Party Palm Springs promises a weekend full of sizzling events, and you won't want to miss a (dance) beat. Here's a rundown of White Party Palm Springs 2023 events (and keep scrolling the schedule-at-a-glance breakdown below)...

White Party Global’s got a star-studded lineup of dance music legends set to grace the stage at this year's event, turning the weekend into the ultimate dance music oasis this year.

From May 12-14, the desert will come alive with the electrifying vocals of powerhouse performers Robin S, CeCe Peniston, Inaya Day, and Crystal Waters, all taking the stage at the world-famous White Party T-Dance on May 14th. As Chris Diamond, Executive Producer of White Party Global, puts it, "This year, we are honored to have four legendary house divas grace our stage and create an unforgettable experience for our attendees.”

With iconic hits like Robin S's "Show Me Love," CeCe Peniston's "Finally," Inaya Day's "Nasty Girl," and Crystal Waters' "Gypsy Woman (She's Homeless)," this lineup is a dream come true for house music lovers. As the divas themselves have expressed, the resurgence of house music and its influence on today's artists is a testament to the genre's enduring appeal and ability to bring people together on the dance floor.

Paula Abdul - White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global

On Friday night, the stage will be set on fire by singer-songwriter and queer performer VINCINT, who will bring his powerhouse voice and infectious energy to the FLUIDITY event. He'll be joined by the legendary Kevin Aviance and the opulent, Broadway-style production of CircuitMOM.

Prepare to get SOAKED with pool parties throughout the weekend at the Hilton Hotel, featuring an array of talented DJs, including Jeremy Dava, Marti Frieson, Liza Rodriguez, Jace M, and CircuitMOM herself on Sunday for a special CircuitMOTHER's Day extravaganza.

And let's not forget the main events: Saturday night's WHITEOUT at the PS Convention Center, with DJs Shane Marcus, Mor Avrahami, and GSP; Sunday's ORBIT T-Dance at the White Party Park, featuring DJs Dawna Montell, Manny Lehman, and Tony Moran; and finally, the ESCAPE Closing Party with DJs Phil Romano and Micky Friedmann.

Now, here’s a handy schedule-at-a-glance breakdown for your dance-fueled weekend:

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"SOAKED! Pool Party"

Date: Friday, May 12, 2023

Time: 12pm – 6pm

Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area

Featuring: DJ Jeremy Dava and DJ Marti Frieson

"FLUIDITY"

Date: Friday, May 12, 2023

Time: 9pm – 4am

Location: Palm Springs Convention Center

Featuring: VINCINT, DJ Dan Slater, and DJ Tom Stephan

"SOAKED! Pool Party" (Day Two)

Date: Saturday, May 13, 2023

Time: 11am -7pm

Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area

Featuring: DJ Liza Rodriguez and DJ Jace M

"WHITEOUT"

Date: Saturday, May 13, 2023

Time: 9pm – 4am

Location: PS Convention Center

Featuring: DJ Shane Marcus, DJ Mor Avrahami, and DJ GSP

CircuitMOTHER’s Day "SOAKED! Pool Party"

Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023

Time: 11am – 4pm

Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area

Featuring: CircuitMOM and DJ Nick Stracener

"ORBIT - T-Dance"

Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023

Time: 3pm – 10pm

Location: White Party Park (1077 East Amado Road, across from PS Convention Center)

Featuring: DJ Dawna Montell, DJ Manny Lehman, and DJ Tony Moran

"ESCAPE" Closing Party

Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023

Time: 10pm – 4am

Location: PS Convention Center

Featuring: DJ Phil Romano and DJ Micky Friedmann

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White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global

Now that you've got the schedule, it's time to start planning your outfits! Each event promises its own flavor of fabulous, and we can't wait to see what you'll bring to the party.

With such a stellar lineup, this year's White Party Palm Springs is shaping up to be an unforgettable weekend of music, celebration, and connection. For more information on event details, passes, and accommodations, visit www.whitepartyglobal.com and follow White Party Global on Instagram and Facebook.

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Get Tested, Stay Fabulous: Your Ultimate Guide to STI and HIV Testing in Palm Springs

Welcome to Palm Springs, handsome! It’s a sun-drenched playground for gay men from all over the world. With its iconic mid-century modern architecture, stunning desert landscapes, and thriving LGBTQ+ scene, there's nowhere else quite like it. 

As we let our hair down and indulge in the fun there is to be had here, it's crucial to be responsible and stay on top of our sexual health. After all, nothing ruins a fabulous vacation like worrying about STIs or HIV, right? So let's dive into the easiest local clinics in Palm Springs for STI and HIV testing.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you think it’s important to include)!

In the meantime, here are two of the top clinics to keep you feeling clear and worry-free during your Palm Springs getaway:

1. Palm Springs TEST

• Offers free, confidential, and rapid testing for HIV, Hepatitis C, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia

• Walk-ins welcome; no appointment necessary

• Hours: Monday-Friday, 8:30 am-4:30 pm

• Location: 140 N. Luring Drive. Suite D, Palm Springs, CA 92262

• Phone: (760) 299-6487

2. DAP Health

• Provides testing and treatment for HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia

• Offers same-day appointments and accepts most insurance plans

• Hours: Monday-Friday, 8:00 am-5:00 pm

• Location: 1695 N. Sunrise Way, Palm Springs, CA 92262

• Phone: (760) 992-0492

Now let's compare these fabulous clinics:

• Palm Springs TEST was founded as the first FREE clinic in Riverside County to test and treat sexually transmitted infections, and they are free of charge for everyone. 

• Palm Springs TEST offers free testing, while DAP Health accepts most insurance plans.

• DAP Health offers a wider range of testing options, including Gonorrhea and Chlamydia testing, in addition to HIV, Syphilis, and Hepatitis C testing available at Palm Springs TEST.

• Palm Springs TEST tests and treats Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia. They do rapid testing (but do not treat) HIV, Hep C. They do not provide PEP.

• While all tests are handled at the facility, Palm Springs TEST requires outside lab work in order to test for Syphilis. There are several LabCorp locations in the area available for walk-ins and Palm Springs TEST covers the entire cost.

• DAP Health takes a holistic approach to sexual health, offering not just testing and treatment, but also comprehensive care, support, and prevention services tailored to the individual's needs.

• For those who may need financial assistance, DAP Health provides a sliding scale payment system, ensuring that everyone has access to the essential testing and treatment services they need.

Looking for even more options? Check out these online resources for additional clinics and testing opportunities:

GetTested 

A comprehensive database of HIV, STI, and viral hepatitis testing services and support centers.

AIDS Healthcare Foundation

Offers free HIV testing and low-cost STI testing at numerous locations.

Planned Parenthood

Provides a range of sexual health services, including STI and HIV testing and treatment.

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Palm Springs is truly the ultimate destination for gay men seeking an unforgettable vacation. With year-round sunshine, captivating cultural events, and a friendly, inclusive atmosphere, it's no wonder this desert oasis has become a mecca for LGBTQ+ travelers. And with such accessible and easy-to-navigate STI and HIV testing options, you can focus on making lasting connections with new friends, soaking up the sun, and living your best life in fabulous "Gay Palm Springs." Remember, darling, stay safe, stay healthy, and above all – stay fabulous!

April 2023: Top 5 Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley

If you're looking for a destination where LGBTQIA+ community knows how to have a good time, Palm Springs should definitely be at the top of your list. This desert oasis is a mecca for our vibrant gay community, with its warm climate, stunning scenery, and energetic nightlife. Whether you're looking for pool parties, music festivals, or just a good old-fashioned dance party, Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley have it all, honey. 

Here are our votes for April 2023: Top 5 Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley that will surely have you spilling some tea with your squirrel friends afterward… 

1. Faux Fur Ball

Date: April 1, 2023

Location: Palm Springs Air Museum

The Faux Fur Ball is an annual fundraising event benefiting the Palm Springs Animal Shelter. The event features a silent auction, raffle, live entertainment, and a fashion show featuring faux fur designs from top fashion designers. The event is a great way for our LGBTQIA+ community to help raise awareness about local animal welfare. Attendees are encouraged to wear their most fabulous faux fur outfit and enjoy a night of fun and philanthropy.

2. Sand, Stars & Guitars featuring Levi Kreis

Date: April 5, 2023

Location: Palm Springs Cultural Center

The Sand, Stars & Guitars series will feature a live performance by Grammy-winning singer and actor Levi Kreis. Levi is a Tony Award-winning actor, singer, and songwriter known for his undeniable charisma and vocal prowess. Born and raised in Oliver Springs, TN, Kreis began touring as a classical composer and songwriter by age 12. After being outed and losing opportunities with major record labels, Kreis discovered a passion for acting and landed his breakthrough role as Roger in the Broadway national tour of Rent. He went on to originate the role of Jerry Lee Lewis in Million Dollar Quartet, winning the 2010 Tony Award for Best Featured Actor in a Musical. As a singer-songwriter, Kreis has released ten albums and his music has been featured in film and television.

3. Palm Springs 85

Date: April 8, 2023

Location: Downtown Palm Springs, California

Palm Springs 85 is celebrating the 85th anniversary of Palm Springs being Incorporated April 20, 1938. Entertainment begins at noon with DJ’s and live entertainment, ending with an Elton John tribute band in the downtown park beginning at 7pm. You can even dress your pet like your favorite Hollywood celebrity for the dog costume contest. Attendees will also have the opportunity to participate in art exhibits and experience the city's unique architecture and design. We think this event will also be a great way to celebrate the LGBTQIA+ community and its rich history in Palm Springs. Don't miss out on this chance to party like it's 1938!

4. Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival

Date: April 14-16, 2023 and April 21-23, 2023

Location: Empire Polo Club, Indio

No list of events in Palm Springs would be complete without mentioning the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival. While not exclusively an LGBTQIA+ event, the festival has always been a favorite among queer music fans. With headliners like Lizzo, Harry Styles, and Billie Eilish, this year's festival promises to be one for the books. The festival takes place over two weekends at the Empire Polo Club in Indio, just a short drive from Palm Springs.

5. Stagecoach Music Festival

Date: April 28-30, 2023

Location: Empire Polo Club, Indio

If you love country music, the Stagecoach Music Festival is the perfect event for you. This three-day extravaganza, held at the same venue as Coachella, features some of the biggest names in country music, as well as up-and-coming artists. In addition to music, there are also food and drink vendors, a BBQ competition, and line dancing lessons. With an atmosphere that's both laid-back and lively, the Stagecoach Music Festival is a must-attend event for anyone who wants to experience the best in country music and festival fun.

Did we miss anything? If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you think it’s a top April 2023 event)!

For a deeper dive, check out our 2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley for the entire year (yaass, Queen)!

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