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10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs for Your Next Gaycation Getaway

Discover the 10 best gay bars in Palm Springs for an unforgettable gaycation getaway. From chill vibes to dance floors, explore the top gay-friendly spots in the Arenas district and beyond. Your ultimate guide to Palm Springs gay nightlife!

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Palm Springs is a destination-state-of-mind for gay men looking to let their guard down and embrace their inner selves. With our stunning desert landscapes, year-round sunshine, and thriving LGBTQ+ scene, there’s nowhere quite like Palm Springs for a fun-filled gaycation getaway. 

So let’s talk about the gay bars! Our city is sprinkled with fun and flirtatious nightlife gems, from cozy neighborhood watering holes to dance clubs. While there is much more to the magic of Palm Springs than simply getting our drink on, I always like to remember that our gay history is rooted in bar culture. Undercover gay bars run by the brave few were where we first found our community in stealth – and it wasn’t that long ago when it was extremely dangerous to do so. In many other parts of the world, it’s still dangerous just to be gay – let alone the kind of out-and-proud we get to be here in Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley. So, the next time you’re here in Palm Springs, raise a glass to our community and how far we’ve come!

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!

In the meantime, here are our votes on the 10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs! 🥂🌴 

The 10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs:

1. Blackbook Bar & Kitchen

Winner of Desert Sun's Best Restaurant in 2020, Blackbook is the real "chill bar" in the Arenas district. Its sleek, industrial style creates the perfect atmosphere for relaxing with friends or making new ones. Plus, they boast some of the best bar food in Palm Springs! Whether you’re looking to meet new friends at their welcoming bar and communal tables or just want a laid-back spot to unwind, Blackbook has you covered. Visit Website

2. Chill Bar

The coolest gay bar and dance club (pun fully intended) in Palm Springs as far as we’re concerned. Chill Bar is a beloved staple in the Arenas district, offering drag bingo, go-go boys, and those iconic disco-ball male statues that make for perfect Instagram moments. It’s where you go when you want to let loose and get your dance on (on the weekends), or just be unapologetically you any night of the week. Their Monday night happy hours are some of the best (and cheapest) in town too ;) Visit Website

3. Dicks

Dicks is all about cruising, drinking, and having a blast. It’s cruising culture at its most traditional, and that’s why we love it. This Arenas district gem is gay-owned, operated, and dedicated to serving the gay community. The drinks are strong and so are the bartenders. Their Friday happy hour is even more affordable (but the drinks are just as strong). With an unapologetically bold vibe, Dicks wants you to come, have fun, and keep cumming (or coming) back for more. Visit Website

4. Hunters

Hunters has been the go-to gay bar and dance club in Palm Springs for over 20 years. With the longest (Friday) happy hour in the Valley, this Arenas district hotspot serves up drag shows, karaoke, and DJs that keep the dance floor packed all night long. It’s loud, proud, and always entertaining. It’s also an in-season destination hot spot for bachelorette parties these days. We realize our gay community has mixed feelings about that, so consider yourself warned. Visit Website

5. One Eleven Bar

Formerly known as Studio One 11, One Eleven Bar has everything you need for a memorable night out. With weekly drag shows, karaoke, and live local entertainment (they’ve even got a grand piano they magically roll off and on stage!), it’s a versatile spot where old friends meet new ones. One Eleven is also home to Vanity’s Dollhaus, and lots of Ru Girls (Ru Paul’s Drag Race) Queen make cameo appearances there as well. Free entry and good vibes make this the top pick in Cathedral City. Visit Website

6. Quadz

Quadz is our kind of video "sports bar" — but swap the sports for showtunes, popular, classic, and gay-iconic film & TV moments that gay men LOVE to sing and monologue along to! The also host ongoing karaoke and weekly events. The Arenas district wouldn’t be the same without this TV bar, where everyone gets to revel in gay culture and music nostalgia. Visit Instagram

7. Roost Lounge

This neighborhood bar in Cathedral City offers a welcoming atmosphere where all are free to "roost." With ongoing weekly entertainment and karaoke, Roost Lounge is perfect for a laid-back evening out in Cat City. It’s a bit of an older crowd of regulars, but entertainment always brings a mixed crowd to the nest. Visit Website

8. Streetbar

Open since 1991, Streetbar is a Palm Springs institution! Mostly known as drawing an older crowd, this neighborhood bar is a favorite among locals and tourists alike. Known for their strong, cash-only drinks, they also serve up cabaret and karaoke to keep the party going. Visit Website

9. Tool Shed

The last remaining leather bar in Palm Springs (RIP, Barracks!), Tool Shed is all about that warm sands cruising scene. With daily happy hours and themed nights like Thursday's "Underwear Nights," it's the place to be for a more fetish-forward adventure. It also happens to be right across the street from Club 541 – our newest (and only) sex club. Just saying ;) Visit Website

10. Toucans Tiki Lounge

Dance your heart out at this no-attitude bar, known for its friendly patrons, great music, and packed dance floor. With regular drag shows, live performances, and Sunday tea dances, Toucans Tiki Lounge is the ultimate spot to let your inner diva shine. Visit Website

Comparisons:

  • Hunters vs. Chill Bar: Both offer lively dance floors, but Hunters is known for its lengthy happy hour, while Chill Bar shines with its variety of drag events and go-go boys.

  • Blackbook Bar & Kitchen vs. One Eleven Bar: Blackbook is all about a sleek, modern vibe with its industrial style and whiskey selection, while One Eleven Bar gives off a more classic, piano-bar ambiance with a mix of karaoke and live entertainment.

  • Tool Shed vs. Dicks: Tool Shed caters to the leather and cruising scene with themed nights, while Dicks offers a more laid-back cruising experience with more of a dive bar feel.

Palm Springs: Your Next Gaycation

Palm Springs is the place to be for a fun, flirty, and fabulous gaycation getaway. Whether you’re dancing the night away at Chill Bar or enjoying a chill evening at Blackbook, there’s a spot here for every mood. Plus, with an inviting community, making new friends, having new experiences, and creating lasting connections is practically a given. It's easy to see why this desert oasis has become a haven for gay men. So pack your harness, put on your best swimwear, and come experience the magic of Gay Palm Springs for yourself!


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The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler

Discover the ultimate gay solo traveler's guide to Palm Springs, CA. From luxurious resorts to delicious dining and vibrant nightlife, find out why this desert oasis is the perfect place for living your best gay life.

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Ah, Palm Springs! A Mid-century modern mecca nestled in the Coachella Valley under the Californian sun, serving up a slice of paradise with a side of fabulous for the gay male solo traveler. This is where the vibe is as warm as the desert heat, where you can let it ALL hang out without a care in the world, and where every moment is a chance to celebrate who YOU are in this world. Welcome to Palm Springs, the ultimate destination for gay men seeking a solo (or boys weekend) adventure, relaxation, and everything in between.

Why Palm Springs?

Palm Springs is more of a lifestyle for gay men than it is a destination. It’s a safe haven where the LGBTQ+ community isn't just welcomed; it's celebrated. Our little desert oasis offers year-round sunshine, stunning architecture, and a vibe so inclusive you'll feel like you've finally come home – especially if you're flying solo. It's all about living your best life here, and often in ways guys have never truly experienced (or even imagined) until they get here.

Stay in Style

Santiago Resort: Luxe Lounging

At the Santiago Resort, luxury meets liberation in a clothing-optional paradise. Dive into their saline pool, indulge in complimentary poolside lunch, and make new friends under the Palm Springs sun. If it's all booked, their equally chic siblings, Descanso and Twin Palms, are just around the corner.

INNdulge Palm Springs: Economical Elegance

For a blend of affordability and allure, INNdulge is your haven in the Warm Sands district. With a 24-hour heated salt water pool, a 12-man jacuzzi, and decades of experience, it's the perfect pick for those new to the clothing-optional scene.

CCBC Men’s Resort Hotel: Playful Retreat

Seeking fun in a sex-positive space? CCBC Resort in Cathedral City (aka Cat City) offers a vast playground for your desires with special events – CUMUNION sex parties and male bonding pop-up events – day and night passes, and endless opportunities for adventure.

Dine Like You Mean It

Breakfast

Koffi: Kickstart your day with their robust oat milk iced lattes and satisfying egg sandwiches, available at various chic locations across Palm Springs.

Townie Bagels: For freshly boiled bagels and scrumptious baked goods, this spot in the Antique Shopping District is a must-visit.

FARM: A Provencal-style gem serving traditional French dishes with a twist of local flavors. Be early to beat the brunch rush!

Lunch

Clandestino: Dive into Latin American delights with a side of artistic flair, brought to you by the creators of FARM and Tac/Quila.

Santorini Gyro Restaurant: Authentic Greek cuisine that's as delicious as it is affordable. Don't miss their outdoor seating in Palm Springs for prime people-watching.

Chicken Ranch: Committing to freshness, enjoy farm-to-table salads, rotisserie chicken, and seasonal ingredients for a rejuvenating lunch.

Dinner

French Miso Cafe: Where Japanese meets French cuisine in a cozy setting. Quality dining awaits, but keep an eye on their hours.

Blackbook Bar & Kitchen: Located in the bustling Arenas district, known for the best bar food in town and a lively happy hour scene.

Workshop Kitchen & Bar: A farm-to-table experience with a James Beard-award winning design. It's a culinary journey not to be missed.

Bar Cecil: For a bistro experience that celebrates individuality and creativity, both in its aesthetics and its cuisine. Book ahead, it's a hot ticket!

Nightlife

Cheers, Queers!

The Arenas district is the gayborhood epicenter of all things Gay Palm Springs. Start at Blackbook where it’s easy to meet new friends sitting right at the bar. Then hop around to (it’s a short block) to check out other gay watering holes like Dick’s, Streetbar, Chill Bar, Hunters, Quadz, or the (semi-hidden) speakeasy-style Evening Citizen for more boozing and cruising. While you’re at it, check out retail stores like GayMart, Rough Trade Gear, Division Menswear, or Ball Beachwear for all of your poolside (and bedside) needs.

Truss & Twine: Specializing in era-themed classic cocktails, Truss & Twin is Workshop Kitchen’s chic cocktail bar, alongside a desert-inspired menu using ingredients from the Coachella Valley.

Canopy Wine Lounge: A swanky newcomer offering a world-class wine selection in a sophisticated setting. With a focus on providing a memorable experience, Canopy has already gained popularity for its swanky atmosphere and has become a stunning addition to Palm Springs' bar scene.

Tailor Shop: A "purveyor of fine spirits and bespoke traditions". They are Uptown Palm Springs' newest cocktail bar with a distinct speakeasy-style ambiance. Picture a dark, moody interior with velvet banquettes, leather chairs, and a wrap-around marble bar. It's the perfect cooldown for those hot desert evenings.

PS Air Bar: A fun Airline-themed speakeasy inside the Bouschet wine store, featuring cocktails, dinner, naughty flight attendants, and live entertainment on the weekends. There's no place else quite like this, and every seat is first class (literally). You know we love a good theme bar!

Purple Room: Honoring the Rat Pack era and the quintessential "Old Hollywood" Palm Springs experience – Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show! – a parody of the great icons of the 60s. Grab a cocktail during happy hour and enjoy some (free) local music during the week.

Experiences to Remember

Entertainment Extravaganza

Drag Shows Galore: From the playful Mile High Boozy Brunch at PS Air Bar to Vanity's Doll Haus at One Eleven Bar in Cat City, Palm Springs offers an array of drag performances that promise fabulous fun. Here’s a complete list of drag shows from Gay Desert Guide for more drag show events. Shantay, you stay!

Sunday Funday: Embrace the local tradition with drag brunches, Palm Springs pool parties, and the legendary tea dance at Oscar's. After you’ve had enough disco, strap on some leather gear head on over to the Barracks for their popular Beer Bust.

Cultural Cachet

Mid-Century Modern Tours: Dive deep into the architectural wonders that define Palm Springs, with guided or self-led tours. Consider Palm Springs Mod Squad Tours or Mid-Century Modern Tours. If a self-guided tour is more your jam, you can caravan around some iconic Mid-century modern neighborhoods with The Palm Springs Guys MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour Guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)! And the open houses here in Palm Springs on the weekends will have you feeling like you’re at Modernism Week!

Palm Springs Aerial Tramway: Escape the heat and explore the breathtaking views and cooler climates. The Tram climbs up two-and-a-half-miles of Chino Canyon cliffs to the top of Mt. San Jacinto State Park – an elevation of 8,516 feet and temperature drop of nearly 20 degrees. It’s ​​the “world’s largest rotating tram car” and it features spectacular views of the panoramic valleys below. Enjoy a moderate hike through its 50+ miles of hiking trails and butterscotch-scented Jeffrey pines. Then grab a cocktail at the lodge and retire to the observation decks for happy hour before a nice dinner at Mountain Station’s Peaks Restaurant.

Palm Springs Art Museum: Get inspired by the Palm Springs Art Museum’s incredible 12,000 works collection of modern and contemporary art, architecture, and design. Just look for the 26-foot sculpture of Marilyn Monroe located directly in front of the Museum! Locals get in for free on Thursday evenings, so be sure to make a new local friend beforehand ;)

CLUB541: Yes, your sexual exploration also counts as cultural cachet! CLUB541 is Palm Springs newest sex club exclusively for men who want to explore the depths of their fantasies. It’s also walkable from the Tool Shed (Palm Springs exclusive leather bar) and several men-only hotels like Santiago.

Your Oasis Awaits

Palm Springs can be a life-changer when it comes to your happiness and well-being. Palm Springs' welcoming LGBTQ+ community, vibrant culture, and endless opportunities for leisure and exploration make it an unparalleled choice for those looking to live their best gay lives. Whether you're seeking a much-needed getaway, a second haven, or a new permanent place to call home, Palm Springs promises a lifestyle filled with joy, freedom, and fabulousness. In a world where you can be anything, Palm Springs invites you to be unabashedly you. So pack your bags (or don't, we won't judge), and dive into whatever adventure awaits you here.

More Gay-Friendly Resources

What You Need To Know About The Palm Springs LGBTQ+ Community [VIDEO]

Gay Desert Guide Directory

"The Gay Agenda" at VisitPalmSprings.com

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White Party Palm Springs 2023: The Ultimate Dance Music Gaycation

Discover White Party Palm Springs 2023, the ultimate dance music gaycation destination for gay men looking for a sizzling, fun-filled getaway. Immerse yourself in a weekend of non-stop parties, glamor, and entertainment in Palm Springs California!

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If you're seeking the ultimate dance music gaycation experience, look no further than White Party Palm Springs 2023! This iconic event is the top shelf of gay parties – and there's nowhere else quite like Palm Springs for gay men looking to have a fantastic vacation getaway.

This year's White Party Palm Springs promises a weekend full of sizzling events, and you won't want to miss a (dance) beat. Here's a rundown of White Party Palm Springs 2023 events (and keep scrolling the schedule-at-a-glance breakdown below)...

White Party Global’s got a star-studded lineup of dance music legends set to grace the stage at this year's event, turning the weekend into the ultimate dance music oasis this year.

From May 12-14, the desert will come alive with the electrifying vocals of powerhouse performers Robin S, CeCe Peniston, Inaya Day, and Crystal Waters, all taking the stage at the world-famous White Party T-Dance on May 14th. As Chris Diamond, Executive Producer of White Party Global, puts it, "This year, we are honored to have four legendary house divas grace our stage and create an unforgettable experience for our attendees.”

With iconic hits like Robin S's "Show Me Love," CeCe Peniston's "Finally," Inaya Day's "Nasty Girl," and Crystal Waters' "Gypsy Woman (She's Homeless)," this lineup is a dream come true for house music lovers. As the divas themselves have expressed, the resurgence of house music and its influence on today's artists is a testament to the genre's enduring appeal and ability to bring people together on the dance floor.

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On Friday night, the stage will be set on fire by singer-songwriter and queer performer VINCINT, who will bring his powerhouse voice and infectious energy to the FLUIDITY event. He'll be joined by the legendary Kevin Aviance and the opulent, Broadway-style production of CircuitMOM.

Prepare to get SOAKED with pool parties throughout the weekend at the Hilton Hotel, featuring an array of talented DJs, including Jeremy Dava, Marti Frieson, Liza Rodriguez, Jace M, and CircuitMOM herself on Sunday for a special CircuitMOTHER's Day extravaganza.

And let's not forget the main events: Saturday night's WHITEOUT at the PS Convention Center, with DJs Shane Marcus, Mor Avrahami, and GSP; Sunday's ORBIT T-Dance at the White Party Park, featuring DJs Dawna Montell, Manny Lehman, and Tony Moran; and finally, the ESCAPE Closing Party with DJs Phil Romano and Micky Friedmann.

Now, here’s a handy schedule-at-a-glance breakdown for your dance-fueled weekend:


"SOAKED! Pool Party"

Date: Friday, May 12, 2023

Time: 12pm – 6pm

Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area

Featuring: DJ Jeremy Dava and DJ Marti Frieson

"FLUIDITY"

Date: Friday, May 12, 2023

Time: 9pm – 4am

Location: Palm Springs Convention Center

Featuring: VINCINT, DJ Dan Slater, and DJ Tom Stephan

"SOAKED! Pool Party" (Day Two)

Date: Saturday, May 13, 2023

Time: 11am -7pm

Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area

Featuring: DJ Liza Rodriguez and DJ Jace M

"WHITEOUT"

Date: Saturday, May 13, 2023

Time: 9pm – 4am

Location: PS Convention Center

Featuring: DJ Shane Marcus, DJ Mor Avrahami, and DJ GSP

CircuitMOTHER’s Day "SOAKED! Pool Party"

Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023

Time: 11am – 4pm

Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area

Featuring: CircuitMOM and DJ Nick Stracener

"ORBIT - T-Dance"

Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023

Time: 3pm – 10pm

Location: White Party Park (1077 East Amado Road, across from PS Convention Center)

Featuring: DJ Dawna Montell, DJ Manny Lehman, and DJ Tony Moran

"ESCAPE" Closing Party

Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023

Time: 10pm – 4am

Location: PS Convention Center

Featuring: DJ Phil Romano and DJ Micky Friedmann


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Now that you've got the schedule, it's time to start planning your outfits! Each event promises its own flavor of fabulous, and we can't wait to see what you'll bring to the party.

With such a stellar lineup, this year's White Party Palm Springs is shaping up to be an unforgettable weekend of music, celebration, and connection. For more information on event details, passes, and accommodations, visit www.whitepartyglobal.com and follow White Party Global on Instagram and Facebook.


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Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs

Here are our votes on the Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs!

It sure is hot here in the low desert! Fear not, fellow gaycationers and staycationers – there’s still plenty to do this summer here in Gay Palm Springs that will keep you busy and keep you cool (hopefully at the same time).

I’m not just talking about all-indoor activities either. There’s plenty of inspiration waiting for you all throughout the Coachella Valley.

Of course, there are plenty of other fabulous things to do and see this summer in greater Palm Springs, but these are our favorites so far. If you'd like to increase your search results, check out the Gay Desert Guide.

And if you have an activity you already love that didn't make the list, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it)!

In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs!

Drag Shows

Let’s start with the essentials. Naturally, sweetie, drag shows are all over Palm Springs. You can play Bingo with Miss Rusty Waters at Hunter's every Wednesday, make yo dollas holla at Vanity's Doll Haus every Friday at One Eleven Bar in Cat City, or bask in the nostalgia of The Judy Show! every Sunday at the Purple Room (just to name a few of course). Check out the Gay Desert Guide for a complete list of drag shows.

Dining

Grab some brunch at 1501 Uptown Gastropub, a light sushi lunch at Antigua Sushi Lovers, and then dinner at the NY-style Paul Bar/Food Gastropub. Or if you’re looking for a more unique experience, PS Underground is an ever evolving supper club (no two dinners are ever the same) featuring gourmet meals and world class entertainment. And if fresh local produce is your poison or pleasure, check out the Coachella Valley Certified Farmers' Markets.

For more of our dining favorites, look no further than our “Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs” post.

Hiking (in the morning)

If you want to beat the heat but still enjoy all the natural beauty the Coachella Valley has to offer, consider some morning (or evening) hikes like Tahquitz Canyon Waterfalls, Indian Canyon trail, or the many other trails in and around Palm Springs. There are also groups like Great Outdoors Palm Springs (GOPS) and various Facebook hiking (even naked hiking) groups you could join. 

Or consider taking the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway – the “World’s largest rotating tram car” – up two-and-a-half-miles of Chino Canyon cliffs that feature panoramic views of the spectacular valleys below. The journey ends at the top of Mt. San Jacinto State Park (an elevation of 8,516 feet) where you’ll find observation decks, restaurants (with a view), and over 50 miles of hiking trails. It’s typically 20 degrees cooler at the top. And be sure to check out the Jeffrey pine trees up there because they smell like butterscotch (for real)!

Joshua Tree

Plan a perfect trip to Joshua Tree with the help of J Harvey’s My Normal Gay Life travel blog. In addition to Joshua Tree National Park, the high desert is full of spectacular natural wonders and blended ecosystems of both the Mojave and Colorado deserts. While you’re there, grab a bite at the Joshua Tree Saloon. And don’t forget to check out the Outdoor Desert Art Museum’s sculptures and installations (for free) and the World Famous Crochet Museum.

Just Relax Poolside 

The pool might be the best place to wade out the Palm Springs summer heat. The pool at the Rowan Hotel is (freely) open to the public throughout the summer, so consider a poolside lunch and cocktails there. If men-only is more what you had in mind, there are day passes available at the Canyon Club in Palm Springs and at CCBC in Cathedral City (Cat City).

Movies

Catch a nice air-conditioned movie at the Palm Springs Cultural Center or the Mary Pickford Theater In Cathedral City (they even have recliners there)! You can also check out all the inspiring Palm Springs Film Festivals happening throughout the year. 

Museums

If you want to quench your thirst for culture, start at the Palm Springs Art Museum’s exquisite collection of over 12,000 works of modern and contemporary art, architecture, and design. Every Thursday night, locals can browse the museum for free (5-7PM)! Next check out the Moorten Botanical Gardens “living museum” to see over 3,000 varieties of desert plants, trees, and spiky cacti. 

If you’re curious about Palm Springs’ historic inhabitants, check out the Agua Caliente Cultural Museum’s five different exhibit areas dedicated to telling different chapters in the story of the Agua Caliente people.

And if you want to see the quirkiest museums of all, you’ll have to drive out of town to see the International Banana Museum in Mecca, CA (it’s exactly what it sounds like). And don’t forget to check out the World Famous Crochet Museum in Joshua Tree. 

Nightlife

Get your tea dance on at Oscar's, bring your pup to Boozehounds, or make new friends at "Underwear Night" at the Barracks in Cat City. Check out more of our “Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs” favorites on our blog!

Other Inspirations 

With six escape adventures to choose from, Escape Palm Springs has escape rooms that challenge you to pull off a bank heist, flee the doomed Titanic, save a wizarding school from an evil spell, or help Scotland Yard capture Jack the Ripper.

After you’ve escaped, go celebrate at Agua Caliente Resort Casinos in Palm Springs (or in Cat City) and see how far your luck will carry you!

Check out the Gay Desert Guide for more LGBTQ+ happenings in Palm Springs!

Outdoor Art

There’s no shortage of creative expression here in Coachella Valley. Start in Palm Springs with Marylin Monroe herself (the other lady liberty), conveniently located right in front of the Palm Springs Art Museum and next to the massive Palm Springs Babies Sculptures sandpit. Each baby is a whopping 11 feet long, 9 feet high, and weighs almost 300 pounds.

If stepping into a parallel dimension is more your vibe, check out RoboLights – an extraordinary four-acre light display created by artist Kenny Irwin boasting displays made from approximately 1000 tons of donated junk. It’s so strange, it’s even been featured on Conan O’Brian, The Learning Channel, and the BBC Travel Channel. Then go check out the Spider Volkswagen sculpture – a bizarre sculpture of a VW beetle-turned giant spider.

If dinosaurs are your jam, drive to Cathedral City and check out the new Jurassic Wonders in Cathedral City or the Cabazon Dinosaurs in Cabazon – a highly postcarded Palm Springs icon, boasting more than 50 life-size dinosaur statues. You may recognize it from its appearance in cult classic film Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure!

Just keep on driving and let Desert X be your tour guide to see all the incredible outdoor art spread all throughout the Coachella Valley.

Shopping

Grab some short-shorts at Division Palm Springs, some leather gear at Gear Leather & Fetish, and truly unique gifts from Just Fabulous Palm Springs. Check out more of our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs favorites on our blog!

Shows

Check out the The Judy Show at the Purple Room – a drag parody of the great icons of the 60s. Then enjoy AsiaSF Palm Springs iconic dinner show experience while the transgender Ladies of AsiaSF Palm Springs dazzle you (think “high drag,” but it’s not drag, honey). Or check out all the great drag shows happening almost daily here in and around Palm Springs.

If live music is your jam, check out the newly opened Alibi Palm Springs, Oscars, the McCallum Theatre, or the famous Pappy & Harriet’s saloon in Pioneertown. There’s always a ton of live events happening in this town, so check out the calendar listings for what’s coming up.

Summer Events

Palm Springs has quickly become an all-season place to be, so there’s always an event. Check out the Palm Springs Cultural Center or the Rock The Park summer music series. And if you’re still on Facebook (most folks still are in this town), consider joining the Gay Men of Palm Springs Facebook Group, or check out Palm Springs Bureau of Tourism for a calendar of events.

Tours

Whether it’s guided or self-guided tours you’re looking for, there’s a lot to see in our little town. Check out the Legends & Icons Tour or the Historical Society Walking Tours. If mid-century modern is what you crave, consider Mid-Century Modern Tours or Palm Springs Mod Squad tours. And for a fun self-guided tour of some fabulous Mid-century modern neighborhoods here in Palm Springs, check out our MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)!

For a unique, self-guided tour, get up close and take selfies with turbines on a Windmill Tour through the Coachella Valley and see some of the best-preserved windmills in all of California. 

They are MUCH bigger than most people realize! And be sure to check out the Windmill Market while you’re there for the best Date Shake in Coachella Valley (4 years standing)!

Wellness Day

Since you came all the way to Palm Springs to relax and get away from it all, why not have a wellness day? Get a massage at The Men’s Grooming Spot, a haircut at Daddy's Barbershop, or some cannabis at The Vault Dispensary and Lounge. Or have you ever wanted to meditate in a cave? Check out more of our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs wellness favorites on our blog!


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Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs

Here's a list of our favorite restaurants in Palm Springs – curated by us, with an emphasis on flavor, atmosphere, quality of ingredients, great tasting food, and gay-friendly (of course)…

Whether it's eye candy or after-dinner candy you're looking to accompany a great meal, there's something for everyone here in Gay Palm Springs!

Here's a list of our favorite restaurants in Palm Springs – curated by us, with an emphasis on flavor, atmosphere, quality of ingredients, great tasting food, and gay-friendly (of course).

We all have certain standards when we're dining out – different palettes, different allergies, and different tastes in hot waiters 😜 We know that not everyone's going to agree with our choices, but we hope that overall this list won't disappoint.

Of course, there are plenty of other great restaurants in greater Palm Springs (and in the surrounding Coachella Valley), but these are our favorites so far. If you'd like to increase your search results, check out https://visitpalmsprings.com/dining-in-palm-springs.

And if you have a place you already love that didn't make the list, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it)!

In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs (in alphabetical order by cuisine)!

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    American

    1501 Uptown Gastropub

    Willie Rhine of Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge and Chad Gardner of 533 Viet Fusion and Roly China Fusion bring their combined successful track records to offer a new seasonally fresh eatery. The food at 1501 Uptown Gastropub is great and there's lots of indoor and outdoor seating. We particularly love brunching outdoors because of it's beautiful view of the mountains!

    Boozehounds Palm Springs

    Boozehounds aims to provide a friendly environment for both canines and their humans. By day, they are a coffee, co-working, and lunch spot. By night, they are a perfect happy hour and dinner destination for the whole family.

    Chi Chi at The Avalon Hotel

    Chi Chi's is centered in the tradition of California wellness and set in the playful pool area of the Avalon Hotel. We love their specialized menus and innovative dishes.

    Chicken Ranch

    Chicken Ranch is committed to keep to keeping it fresh; bringing farm-fresh produce and free-range poultry from local farms to your plate. They are always serving up quality and fresh, from rotisserie chicken, delicious salads, and seasonal ingredients. This is one of our favorite lunch spots.

    Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge

    Located in the Uptown Design District of Palm Springs, EIGHT4NINE's eclectic and colorful menu selections feature a fusion of comfort food, ethnic influences, and bold originality. So original, they haven't changed the menu in years, but folks still love it. The real standout for us is the bright and modern décor!

    GiGi’s Restaurant & Lounge

    GiGi’s is a desert-inspired, Modern American restaurant, serving creative farm-to-table fare with a commitment to the freshest locally sourced ingredients. You may even be able to catch an occasional celebrity low-key dining here, but you didn't hear it from us😉

    John Henry’s

    John Henry’s Café has been a favorite of Palm Springs locals and in-the-know visitors for over thirty years. It's quite an experience that you can only understand when you experience it for yourself, so... Go experience for yourself 😉

    King's Highway at the Ace Hotel

    An old roadside diner reimagined, King's Highway reinterpreted American comfort food for the desert with a focus on fresh, organic, and local ingredients. It might be Palm Springs best-kept secret (especially if you're trying to snag a table somewhere in town on a busy weekend night)!

    La Copine

    La Copine is the only place we're listing that requires a day trip out of town to Yucca Valley. They are an incredible Californian restaurant serving fresh & inspired lunch in the Hi Desert from Thursday-Sundays only (11am-4pm). It's in the middle of nowhere but the food speaks for itself. If you don't believe us, just as The New York Times or VOGUE!

    Lulu California Bistro

    There is no place in Palm Springs more colorful than Lulu's. A must for every new Palm Springs tourist, Lulu's has become the restaurant all of Palm Springs loves to be (and be seen).

    Oscar’s

    Oscar's has everything from dancing to live dinner entertainment in the heart of downtown Palm Springs. From drag brunch, to celebrity evening-with shows, to Oscar's signature T-Dance on Sundays, there's something for every gay!

    Purple Room

    Honoring the Rat Pack era, Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show!, a parody of the great icons of the 60s.

    Sherman’s Deli & Bakery

    Sherman’s has become a landmark in the desert. A Kosher-style family restaurant, they offer an extensive menu for breakfast, brunch, lunch and dinner reminiscent of a New York style deli.

    The Pantry at Holiday House

    The Pantry's menu is an exceptional modern take on classic “Americana” cuisine, reinterpreting the traditional resort menu using a fusion of new techniques and influences. Their menu highlights fresh ingredients local to California and the Coachella Valley.

    Tyler’s Burgers

    In the center of the Plaza, Tyler’s offers one of the best burger experiences in the desert!

    Asian

    533 Viet Fusion

    This is a personal favorite of ours, and another Asian fusion eatery brought to you by the gay owners of Roly China Fusion. 533 Viet Fusion is a casual, hip setting for a mix of modern and traditional Vietnamese dishes and cocktails. We particularly love their spring roll menu, full of fresh selections like their lemongrass duroc organic pork roll and mushroom soba roll.

    Antigua Sushi Lovers

    Antigua Sushi Lovers just opened and we love the owners as much as we love the sushi! They're also currently one of only two sushi places open for lunch as well as dinner in Palm Springs.

    AsiaSF Palm Springs

    AsiaSF is a cabaret dinner show that has been wowing crowds for 23 years in San Francisco, and they've chosen Palm Springs as its first location outside the Bay Area. AsiaSF performers, who are all transgender women, bring their own personalities to lip-synced renditions of party playlist classics, creating a memorable dinner show for an iconic date night.

    Roly China Fusion

    From dim sum to drag brunch, Roly China Fusion is modern Chinese cuisine with an asian fusion twist. Inspired by Chad’s husband Roly, the restaurant brings a vibrant, whimsical and elevated dining experience to the Palm Springs area. They also own 533 Viet Fusion, which is a personal favorite of ours!

    Rooster and the Pig

    Rooster and the Pig is a Vietnamese-American restaurant that strives to serve food and drink with distinction. They also take allergies seriously, so we always appreciate that.

    Sandfish Sushi & Whiskey

    Sandfish serves up quality hand-crafted sushi and whiskey pairings in a beautiful Scandinavian designed interior.

    Taka Shin

    Taka Shin offers exquisite Japanese cuisine that delicately presents traditional Japanese food with a contemporary twist in a relaxed, no-frills environment.

    Thai Smile

    Thai Smile has been bringing the authentic tastes of true Thai cuisine to Palm Springs for 18 years. We love crossing the street after a Sunday evening tea dance at Oscars for a comforting (and affordable!) curry.

    Torakichi Ramen

    Torakichi Ramen is a relatively new restaurant specializing in ramen. It's an intimate setting, but where it lacks in ambience it well makes up for with flavor!

    Bar Food

    Blackbook Bar & Kitchen

    Winner of Desert Sun's Best Restaurant in 2020, Blackbook is the real "chill bar" in the Arenas district as far as we're concerned. Its sleek industrial style features the largest whiskey selection in Palm Springs and a lot of acclaim for being the "best bar food in Palm Springs" among the locals.

    Chill Bar

    The coolest (pun fully intended) gay bar and dance club here in Palm Springs, Chill Bar is another staple gay-borhood bar in our beloved Arenas district, featuring drag bingo, go-go boys, and our favorite disco-ball male statues (featured on The Palm Springs Guys website)! They have a fun bar menu, and the flatbreads are a particular stand-out for our pallets.

    Hunters

    Hunters is Palm Springs’ go-to gay bar and dance club fun for 20 years now. Featuring the longest happy hour in all the Valley, Hunters serves up drag shows, karaoke, and Djs that keep the dance floor pumping (loudly!) right in the Arenas district. But they also have a great bar menu (from fried pickles to "hey girl" hot wings).

    PaulBar

    PaulBar is bar/food. That's all they have to say about that on their website, but locals have a lot more to say about how much they love it. The location isn't ideal (you'll wonder if you're in the right place at first), but it's got a very cool vibe when you get inside which is why it's so popular.

    Roost Lounge

    With plenty of atmosphere for all patrons “to roost,” the Roost Lounge in Cat City is a another friendly neighborhood gay bar with ongoing entertainment and karaoke.

    BBQ

    Smoke Tree BBQ Bar & Grill

    As the name suggests, Smoke Tree is all about BBQ; Baby Back ribs, Beef Ribs, Brisket, Pulled Pork, Smoked Chicken, Tri Tip, Andouille Sausage, Smoked Turkey, and more. This is the best BBQ in Palm Springs, but their hours often change whenever they feel like it, just FYI.

    Cafe

    Koffi (Various Locations)

    Locally owned and operated, Koffi was established in 2002 and is now the largest independent specialty coffee retail and roasting operation in the Coachella Valley. Koffi has four (4) different café locations – three (3) of which are right in Palm Springs (Koffi North, Koffi Central, and Koffi South). Their oat milk iced lattes are strong & smooth, just the way we like them.

    Townie Bagels

    Right in the heart of the Antique Shopping District, the ever-popular Townie Bagel’s makes water boiled bagels fresh daily in Palm Springs. All their bagels, breads, muffins, and scones are made from scratch in their bakery. It's a local favorite, so get in line early!

    Continental

    Bar Cecil

    Bar Cecil is a nod to the great American and European bistro experiences. They celebrate those who follow the beat to their own drum with an aesthetic as creative and inspiring as their food and cocktails. This place it POPULAR, and reservations are limited, so try to go early or late on a whim sometime.

    Jake’s Palm Springs

    Jake’s is a casual/hip American bistro serving fresh, innovative, and comfort food favorites. Their lunch menu screams California fresh, and they even have a "Flight of Salads" if you can't decide which mouth-watering salad to toss... I mean, choose 😉

    Johannes Restaurant

    Johannes Restaurant is modern European cuisine from Austrian born Chef/Owner Johannes Bacher, with an Upscale Casual Ambiance and an entire schnitzel menu!

    Mid-Mod Café

    Mid-Mod Café is Uptown Palm Springs’ [new] organic alternative for healthy smoothies, as well as breakfast, lunch and dinner. Created by the gay owners of Palm Greens, Mod Cafe offers a healthy spin on American classics with vegan, organic, vegetarian and Gluten-free options.

    Truss & Twine

    Truss & Twine sits adjacent to the team’s first venture, Workshop Kitchen + Bar and is the epitome of Palm Springs’ sophisticated desert vibe. They specialize in classic cocktails broken down by era, alongside a desert-inspired menu using ingredients from the Coachella Valley.

    V Wine Lounge Palm Springs

    This mid-century lounge serves up boutique California wines, craft beers, and throwback cocktails. It's also a favorite destination for live music and drag performances, like Ross Mathew's "Dragtastic Bubbly Brunch".

    Workshop Kitchen & Bar

    From the same owners as Truss & Twine, Workshop Kitchen & Bar is farm to table seasonal through and through. From their James Beard-award winning interior design to their classic cocktail bar, it's our favorite spot in Palm Springs!

    French

    FARM

    FARM is a Provencal-style restaurant with a menu comprised of traditional French dishes, brimming with locally sourced produce, eggs, and artisanal meats. It's a very popular spot for lunch and brunch, so get there early!

    French Miso Cafe

    The name “French Miso Café” reflects the origin diversity of the owners Tomoko Jones and Eric Bovy. The result is an endearing setting where one can enjoy traditional Japanese and French cuisine at the same table. This place is as quality as it gets in Palm Springs – just be mindful of their limited hours.

    Indian

    Monsoon Indian Cuisine

    Monsoon serves up a medley of flavorful Indian dishes like Chicken Curry Prawn Vindaloo and Malai Tikka, as well as vegetarian entrees like Mushroom Masala and Aloo Gobi.

    Italian

    Al dente Trattoria Toscana

    Featuring the flavors of Northern Italy, Al dente Trattoria Toscana is a quaint cucina with a European atmosphere. We're still on the hunt for exceptional Italian food here in Palm Springs, but this one's our favorite so far.

    Bill’s Pizza

    Bill’s quest of making the best pizza possible led him to Italy and back exploring a wide range of pizza styles and techniques.

    Sammy's Place

    Sammy’s Place serves authentic Italian food in the Palm Springs area – the very best we've had in the valley so far! Their hours are limited to Thursdays - Sundays and they don't seem to have a website, but it's worth the trip.

    Trio Restaurant

    Right in the heart of Palm Springs’ Fashionable Uptown Design District, Trio Restaurant aims to bring people together with timeless Italian-American fusion dishes and colorful décor. They also love actively giving back to the community, so that's a win in our book!

    Mediterranean

    Santorini Gyro Restaurant

    With 2 locations in Palm Springs and one in Cathedral City, Santorini Gyro Restaurant serves up authentic Greek food as good as we always hope for.

    Mexican

    El Mirasol Cocina Mexicana

    El Mirasol has built a reputation for consistently serving piping hot plates of artfully prepared Mexican regional cuisine and tangy flavorful margaritas in Palm Springs, California. Chef Felipe Castaneda serves up authentic versions of Mexican standards such as chile verde, shrimp pipian, and polo en mole poblano. We love starting with drinks next door at Dead or Alive Bar, then popping over to El Mirasol for a delicious dinner.

    Tac/Quila

    The same owners as FARM, Tac/Quila is their made-up word for combining gourmet Jalisco style cuisine with specialty tequilas and mezcals. Mexico’s artistry extends to its flavorful, colorful, and specialized cuisine.


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