Why The Barracks Bar is Closing: The Facts and Speculations
The significance of The Barracks Bar in Cathedral City and its upcoming closure on August 4, 2024 – and why Palm Springs still remains the ultimate gay travel destination.
The vibrant LGBTQ+ community in Cathedral City, California (aka Cat City), is about to lose a beloved landmark. The Barracks Bar, a renowned gay leather bar, will shut its doors for the last time on Sunday, August 4, 2024. This closure marks the end of an era for many of us who have found camaraderie and acceptance within its walls.
Despite this loss, Palm Springs remains an unbeatable destination for gay travelers, offering vibrant nightlife, cultural events, welcoming atmosphere – and an unmatched escape for gay men seeking a fun, sex-positive getaway.
Naturally, there have been a whirlwind of rumors going around about the reasons behind the Barrack’s sudden farewell. After further investigating things ourselves, here are some facts and speculations that make up our take as to why the Barracks Bar is closing.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know.
A Leather & Kink Cornerstone
Founded in 1992 as WOLF's, The Barracks Bar quickly became a cornerstone for the leather and kink community here in the greater Palm Springs area. Renamed and rebranded over the years, The Barracks earned a reputation for hosting the world's most-attended Sunday Beer Bust and other enticing leather events. For 31 years, it served as a significant gathering spot, fostering a strong sense of community and providing a safe haven for its patrons.
Despite its popularity, The Barracks faced mounting challenges. For one, the City of Cathedral City significantly reduced the bar's occupancy, demanding over $100,000 in upgrades to the aging building. These requirements, coupled with ongoing disputes and speculations about lewd conduct, ultimately led to the decision to close.
In a heartfelt message, Scott Murchison, owner of Barrack’s Bar and Dick’s on Arenas, announced the closure and hinted at future plans for The Barracks brand. The bar's license to serve alcohol will expire on August 5, 2024, but the brand is set to continue its legacy in Phoenix, Arizona.
Unanswered Questions and Community Impact
The exact reasons behind the state of California's decision to “revoke” The Barracks' liquor license remain unclear. The California Department of Alcoholic Beverage Control has stated that no final disciplinary actions have been taken, leaving room for speculation and confusion. Here are some of the most discussed reasons behind the closure:
City Disputes and Building Upgrades
The City of Cathedral City reduced the bar's occupancy and demanded over $100,000 in upgrades to the old building. These requirements were significant and may have played a crucial role in the decision to close.
Lewd Conduct Allegations
There have been allegations that The Barracks hosted lewd conduct, leading to scrutiny from the state. However, the specifics and validity of these allegations still remain unclear.
State Liquor License Issues
Owner Scott Murchison announced that the state of California is set to “revoke” The Barracks' liquor license as of August 5, 2024. However, the Department of Alcoholic Beverage Control has stated that no final disciplinary actions have been taken yet, adding to the confusion surrounding the closure.
Speculations of Financial and Structural Issues
Some speculate that the building's age required substantial financial investment for necessary upgrades. There are also rumors that the owners wanted to move the business to a new location for personal reasons.
Community and Emotional Impact
The closing of The Barracks has left the local gay community heartbroken. Many of us view it as a significant loss of a cultural and social hub that has been a part of our lives for over three decades.
The End of an Era and a New Beginning
These reasons combined paint a complex picture of why The Barracks is closing. If you’d like to go even deeper down the rabbit hole of speculations, check out the GAY MEN OF PALM SPRINGS CA Facebook Group.
Regardless of the specifics, the bar's departure marks the end of an era for our gay leather and kink community. We remain hopeful that the owners of The Barracks recognize the profound impact the bar has had over the years – specifically in the greater Palm Springs area. Its contribution to fostering a sense of belonging and solidarity has been unparalleled in the area. As the owners move forward with their plans, we hope they understand the deep void their departure leaves and the significance of what they built for the community.
So what's next? The future of the site remains uncertain. Whether another gay leather and kink bar will emerge in Cathedral City or another part of the Coachella Valley is also unknown. However, there is a strong desire within the community for someone to step up and fill this void. The legacy of The Barracks demonstrates the need for such spaces – safe and welcoming spaces – and we can only hope a new establishment will rise to continue serving the community with the same spirit and dedication. Until then, the memories and connections forged at The Barracks will be cherished and missed deeply.
Why Gay Palm Springs is Still a Must-Visit
The spirit of Palm Springs' LGBTQ+ community still remains vibrant and strong. Palm Springs offers an unparalleled experience for gay men looking to explore their wild side. From the ever-popular gay bars in the Arenas District in downtown Palm Springs to the numerous LGBTQ+-owned businesses, and clothing-optional resorts for men-only, there are endless opportunities to connect, celebrate, and make lasting memories here.
If you’re curious to learn more about what a playground Palm Springs is for gay men, you can start by checking out our articles on The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs and Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs.
The Barracks Bar will close its doors on August 4, 2024, so go pay your respects and get your drink one last time before they do.
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A Gay Man's Guide to a Hot Summer in Palm Springs
Here’s our ultimate guide to hot summer fun for gay men in Palm Springs. From chic resorts and stylish grooming spots to lively bars, eateries, and thrilling adventures – here's what you need to know to have a sizzling summer getaway.
Warm summer nights in the low desert are when the boys come alive and the hot gay summer fun begins here in Palm Springs, California. With its vibrant LGBTQIA+ community, endless sunshine, and year-round array of activities, Palm Springs is the ultimate summer destination for gay men looking to have a fabulous getaway. Whether you're lounging by a clothing-optional pool, boozing & cruising, or just dancing the night away, there's no place quite like Palm Springs for a memorable and exciting summer escape.
What do you love about Palm Springs in the summer? Email us and let us know.
In the meantime, here’s our gay man's guide to a hot summer in Palm Springs!
Stay Gay
Palm Springs boasts an impressive selection of gay resorts, each offering unique amenities and a welcoming atmosphere. Whether you're planning a solo trip or a getaway with besties, these resorts are perfect for indulging in some poolside flirtation and restoration.
Start by checking out our favorite stylish trio of men-only resorts by the Resorts Palm Springs group: Twin Palms Resort, Santiago Resort, and Descanso Resort. The next-level experience at any of these three resorts will never disappoint. Be sure to check out each resort website for any summer deals that might be happening too.
For more enticing clothing-optional experiences, check out:
Triangle Inn: An architectural gem.
Canyon Club: Known for its frisky atmosphere.
El Mirasol: Offers understated grandeur with a clothing-optional pool.
Vista Grande: Waterfalls, lounge spots, and naked men (of course).
The Hacienda: A home away from home (and more of a swimsuit-optional respite).
All Worlds: Known for letting it all hang out.
Desert Paradise: A haven of seclusion.
INNdulge: Features comfortable cabanas with cooling fans.
Where To Get Your Hair Did
Feeling hot starts with looking hot. Head to Daddy’s for a makeover, or try Sunny Dunes Barber Shop for a trendy cut. The Men’s Grooming Spot offers waxing, massages, skincare, hair, and nail services in a cool spa setting in nearby Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Where To Get Your Drink On
The Arenas district is the gay epicenter (aka gayborhood) of Gay Palm Springs, featuring a variety of lively bars and clubs like:
Dick’s: Perfect for cruising.
Chill Bar: Perfect for mingling.
Quadz: The fun place for show tunes lovers.
Evening Citizen: A classy speakeasy-style lounge.
More of our favorites just outside the Arenas district:
Canopy Wine Lounge: Offers a sophisticated wine selection in downtown Palm Springs.
Tailor Shop: A cocktail bar in Uptown with a cool speakeasy vibe.
Tool Shed: The only leather and Levi bar, known for its happy hours and cruisy theme nights.
Barracks Bar: Famous for its Sunday Beer Bust, Wednesday Underwear Night, and other (very cruisy) leather events, located in Cathedral City.
For more nightlife options, check out our Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs.
Where To Eat
Stay hydrated (it’s the desert, guuurrrl!) and stay well-fed with some of our favorite Palm Springs' dining spots:
Koffi: Perfect for a morning kickstart.
Townie Bagels: Freshly boiled bagels and baked goods.
FARM: A Provencal-style gem.
Chicken Ranch: Farm-to-table salads and rotisserie chicken.
Santorini Gyro Restaurant: Affordable and delicious Greek cuisine.
Clandestino: Modern Mexican and Latin American delights.
Blackbook: Known for being the best bar food in town.
French Miso Cafe: A unique blend of Japanese and French cuisine.
Bar Cecil: A modern bistro experience celebrating individuality and creativity.
For more dining options, visit our The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler.
Where To Play
Palm Springs offers a range of enticing activities from mild to wild:
CCBC Resort: Known for its range of sex-positive special events.
CLUB541: Palm Springs’ newest (and hottest) sex club.
All Worlds Resort: Features a play area maze and offers day passes.
Canyon Club Hotel: Features a play area labyrinth and offers day passes.
Pool parties: There are always pool parties happening throughout the summer months. Check out Gay Desert Guide, or make fast friends while you're in town to find out where the fun private pool parties are ;)
If you’re planning to live your best gay life here in Palm Springs, stay safe and be sure to get tested at one of our amazing local clinics offering free STI and HIV testing. Check out our Get Tested, Stay Fabulous: Your Ultimate Guide to STI and HIV Testing in Palm Springs.
Where To Explore
If you want to venture out on some traditional tourist excursions in and around Palm Springs, explore:
Palm Springs Aerial Tramway: Offers breathtaking views, hiking, and cooler climates at the top of San Jacinto Mountain.
Joshua Tree National Park: Known for its natural wonders in the high desert.
Palm Springs Art Museum: Features an impressive collection of modern and contemporary art in a nice air-conditioned environment.
Mid-Century Modern Tours: Explore the architectural wonders that define Palm Springs, with guided or self-led tours. Consider Palm Springs Mod Squad Tours or Mid-Century Modern Tours. If a self-guided tour is more your jam, you can caravan around some iconic Mid-century modern neighborhoods with The Palm Springs Guys MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour Guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)! And the open houses here in Palm Springs on the weekends will have you feeling like you’re at Modernism Week.
Check out our Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs for more inspiration.
Where To Shop
Find all your gaycation fashion needs and unique home goods that will awe-inspire right here in Palm Springs:
Division Palm Springs: Our favorite variety of short shorts (the unofficial official shorts of Palm Springs).
GayMart USA: America's Favorite Gay Superstore.
Gear Leather & Fetish: High-quality fetish goods.
Just Fabulous Palm Springs: Modern lifestyle boutique.
PS Homeboys: Specializes in Mid-Century meets Modern home décor.
Revivals: It’s like a gay Good Will that supports comprehensive healthcare at DAP Health for the LGBTQ+ community.
For more shopping ideas, visit our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs.
Where To See a Show
From drag shows, karaoke and underwear nights to a thriving live local theater scene, we've got something for every taste here in Palm Springs. Here are a few of our favorites:
One Eleven Bar: Features drag shows, karaoke, and live entertainment, often featuring acclaimed Ru Girls (aka Ru Paul's Drag Race Queens).
Toucans Tiki Lounge: Primarily known for it’s fun local drag shows.
Drag Brunch: There are always fun drag brunch shows on the weekends here. Check out Gay Desert Guide’s Fun and Fabulous Drag Brunches in Greater Palm Springs for listings.
Oscar’s: Offers dancing, live dinner entertainment, drag brunches, and their signature T-Dance on Sundays.
Palm Springs Cultural Center: Hosts LGBT film festivals, live performances, and so much more.
Local theater: Check out our Palm Springs Performs: A Tour Of The Desert’s Finest Theaters.
For more ideas and inspiration, check out our Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs.
Palm Springs is a fabulous destination for gay men year-round, offering warm weather, vibrant culture, and a welcoming community. Whether you're making new friends or enjoying the array of activities, Palm Springs is the perfect place for hot summer fun and having experiences to remember.
Your Ultimate 2024 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (April-December)
Your ultimate gay getaway guide to 2024's top LGBT+ events in Palm Springs from April-December. From drag balls to art symposiums, discover why this desert oasis is the perfect playground for every gay man.
Welcome to Palm Springs! The LGBT+ scene is on fire in 2024, making it the ultimate playground for gay men once again. If you’re seeking the perfect blend of culture, party, and relaxation, Palm Springs is the place to be – where the events are as diverse as our fabulous community itself.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!
In the meantime, here’s your ultimate 2024 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (April-December)…
April 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Apr 11: Play Time: Private Jazz Concert at Eldorado / Artful Event – Jazz under the stars in one of Palm Springs' most enchanting locations? Yes, please! This event mixes art, music, and the magic of the desert for an unforgettable evening.
Apr 12-14 & Apr 19-21: Coachella Weekend 1 & 2 – Need we say more? The festival that everyone's Instagram feed dreams of, featuring an eclectic mix of music, art, and fashion. It's where the desert becomes a canvas for the arts.
Apr 13: World Art Day Festival – Celebrate art in all its forms, from painting and sculpture to digital and performance art, in a festival that spans the vibrant streets of Palm Springs.
Apr 13: Coming OUTdoors - Hike & Mixer in the High Desert – Combine the beauty of nature with the joy of meeting new people in this unique event that takes you on a scenic hike followed by a mixer.
Apr 14: Twice Blessed: An Afternoon Cabaret – A cabaret afternoon with a twist, showcasing talent from within our community in a cozy, intimate setting.
Apr 15: Idyllwild Art in Society's 7th Annual Symposium – Engage with art on a deeper level in the serene setting of Idyllwild, where thinkers, creators, and enthusiasts come together.
Apr 20-21: Modern Men Chorus: Greatest Hits – The local chorus group that has been touching hearts and eardrums alike brings you a compilation of their greatest hits.
Apr 21: Cocktail Party at Frank Sinatra's Twin Palms Estate – Sip cocktails at the legendary Twin Palms Estate, once home to Frank Sinatra, in a night that promises elegance, nostalgia, and perhaps a little crooning.
Apr 25: DAP Health, Dining Out for Life 2024 – Dine out, do good. Participating restaurants donate a portion of their proceeds to support DAP Health, so you can help the community simply by enjoying a delicious meal.
Apr 24-26: Stagecoach 2024 – The country music festival that's a little bit rock n' roll and a whole lot of fun. Dust off your cowboy boots and get ready to line dance under the desert sky.
Apr 25-28: Defying Gravity with Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus – A musical journey that promises to lift your spirits and perhaps even your feet off the ground.
Apr 26: Revivals After Dark / Back Alley Event – A night market like no other, blending art, fashion, and music in a setting that's as unexpected as it is thrilling.
Apr 27: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
April 28: International Jazz Day – Celebrate the universal language of jazz with performances that span the genre's rich history and its bright future.
May 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
May 1: Rock the Park - WANTED: A Tribute to Bon Jovi – Channel your inner rock star at this electrifying tribute concert. Sing your heart out to "Livin' on a Prayer" under the stars and feel the energy of live music bringing people together.
May 4: Beethoven & Friends / Desert Winds Freedom Band – An evening of classical music with a modern twist, showcasing the talents of the Desert Winds Freedom Band. It's a perfect blend of history and harmony.
May 3-5: Artworks: Theatre Fest 2024 / Desert Theatreworks – Dive into the world of theater with this festival showcasing local playwrights, directors, and actors. From comedy to drama, there's a story for everyone.
May 9: Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast 2024 – Start your day with inspiration at this breakfast honoring the legacy of Harvey Milk. It's an event that celebrates diversity, courage, and the ongoing fight for equality.
May 15: Momentum: a Concert by Modern Men's Chorus – Experience the power of voices united in song. The Modern Men's Chorus presents an evening of music that promises to inspire and move you.
May 17-18: Tag Team (Bears & Cumunion Collide): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
May 24-27: Desertopia Memorial Day Weekend 2024 – Kick off the summer with a bang at Desertopia, a weekend-long celebration of LGBTQIA+ pride, culture, and community. Expect parties, performances, and plenty of poolside fun.
May 31: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
June 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
June 1: Sarah McLachlan at Acrisure Arena – Fumbling Towards Ecstasy 30th Anniversary Tour, with special guest Feist.
June 4: Janet Jackson at Acrisure Arena – Together Again Tour, with special guest Nelly.
June 18-24: Palm Springs International ShortFest 2024 – Celebrate the art of short filmmaking at this renowned festival. With screenings, panels, and workshops, it's a cinephile's dream come true.
June 28: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
June 29: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
June 29: Equality Wine Fest – Sip, savor, and support equality at this exquisite wine festival. Featuring selections from LGBTQIA+-friendly wineries, it's a taste of the good life, all for a good cause.
July 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
July 4-6: Dadfest – Dadfest is a celebration of, you guessed it, daddies! Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
July 5: New Kids On The Block at Acrisure Arena – With special guests Paula Abdul and DJ Jazzy Jeff.
July 19: Jennifer Lopez at Acrisure Arena – This Is Me Tour.
July 19-21: Gay Wine Weekend 2024 – Continue your vinicultural voyage with a weekend dedicated to the finer things in life. Wine tastings, vineyard tours, and elegant dinners await in this oenophile's oasis.
June 20-22: Heatwave 2024 – Western Xposure is a sex-positive bear party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
July 21: Palm Springs Lip Sync Contest – Let your inner diva shine at this uproarious event. Whether you're channeling Cher or channeling your best Madonna, it's your time to lip-sync for your legacy.
July 26: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
July 27: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
August 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Aug 8: Alanis Morissette at Acrisure Arena – The Triple Moon Tour, with special guests Joan Jett and the Blackhearts and Morgan Wade.
Aug 8-11/16-18: Splash House 2024 – The ultimate summer pool party is back, blending the heat of the desert with cool beats and even cooler drinks. It's where music, swimming, and dancing create the perfect summer vibe.
Aug 16: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
Aug17: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
September 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Sept 6: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
Sept 7: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Sept 21: Art In the Park in the Dark – Experience art like never before in this unique nighttime event. As darkness falls, the park comes alive with illuminated installations, live performances, and an atmosphere of mystery and wonder.
October 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Oct 10-12: The Haunted Gay Resort – Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Oct 17-19: Raise Some Hell – Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
November 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Nov. 1-3: Palm Springs Pride 2024 – Cap off the year with Palm Springs Pride, the pinnacle of LGBTQIA+ celebrations. With parades, parties, and performances, it's a festival of love, acceptance, and fabulousness that draws together the community from far and wide.
Nov 8: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
Nov 9: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
December 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Dec 6: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
Dec 7: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Why Palm Springs?
Aside from the year-round sunshine and the backdrop that looks like a constant Instagram filter, Palm Springs is a place where you can truly be yourself. It's a community that welcomes everyone with open arms and a cold cocktail. Making friends is as easy as stepping out your door, and forming lasting connections happens as quickly and naturally as the desert blooms after a rain. Whether you're here for the art, the parties, or the peace of mind, you'll find your tribe in Palm Springs.
So, pack your bags, bring your short-shorts, and prepare for a vacation that's anything but ordinary. Palm Springs is where every gay man's travel dreams are set to come true. See you soon in the desert!
The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler
Discover the ultimate gay solo traveler's guide to Palm Springs, CA. From luxurious resorts to delicious dining and vibrant nightlife, find out why this desert oasis is the perfect place for living your best gay life.
Ah, Palm Springs! A Mid-century modern mecca nestled in the Coachella Valley under the Californian sun, serving up a slice of paradise with a side of fabulous for the gay male solo traveler. This is where the vibe is as warm as the desert heat, where you can let it ALL hang out without a care in the world, and where every moment is a chance to celebrate who YOU are in this world. Welcome to Palm Springs, the ultimate destination for gay men seeking a solo (or boys weekend) adventure, relaxation, and everything in between.
Why Palm Springs?
Palm Springs is more of a lifestyle for gay men than it is a destination. It’s a safe haven where the LGBTQ+ community isn't just welcomed; it's celebrated. Our little desert oasis offers year-round sunshine, stunning architecture, and a vibe so inclusive you'll feel like you've finally come home – especially if you're flying solo. It's all about living your best life here, and often in ways guys have never truly experienced (or even imagined) until they get here.
Stay in Style
Santiago Resort: Luxe Lounging
At the Santiago Resort, luxury meets liberation in a clothing-optional paradise. Dive into their saline pool, indulge in complimentary poolside lunch, and make new friends under the Palm Springs sun. If it's all booked, their equally chic siblings, Descanso and Twin Palms, are just around the corner.
INNdulge Palm Springs: Economical Elegance
For a blend of affordability and allure, INNdulge is your haven in the Warm Sands district. With a 24-hour heated salt water pool, a 12-man jacuzzi, and decades of experience, it's the perfect pick for those new to the clothing-optional scene.
CCBC Men’s Resort Hotel: Playful Retreat
Seeking fun in a sex-positive space? CCBC Resort in Cathedral City (aka Cat City) offers a vast playground for your desires with special events – CUMUNION sex parties and male bonding pop-up events – day and night passes, and endless opportunities for adventure.
Dine Like You Mean It
Breakfast
Koffi: Kickstart your day with their robust oat milk iced lattes and satisfying egg sandwiches, available at various chic locations across Palm Springs.
Townie Bagels: For freshly boiled bagels and scrumptious baked goods, this spot in the Antique Shopping District is a must-visit.
FARM: A Provencal-style gem serving traditional French dishes with a twist of local flavors. Be early to beat the brunch rush!
Lunch
Clandestino: Dive into Latin American delights with a side of artistic flair, brought to you by the creators of FARM and Tac/Quila.
Santorini Gyro Restaurant: Authentic Greek cuisine that's as delicious as it is affordable. Don't miss their outdoor seating in Palm Springs for prime people-watching.
Chicken Ranch: Committing to freshness, enjoy farm-to-table salads, rotisserie chicken, and seasonal ingredients for a rejuvenating lunch.
Dinner
French Miso Cafe: Where Japanese meets French cuisine in a cozy setting. Quality dining awaits, but keep an eye on their hours.
Blackbook Bar & Kitchen: Located in the bustling Arenas district, known for the best bar food in town and a lively happy hour scene.
Workshop Kitchen & Bar: A farm-to-table experience with a James Beard-award winning design. It's a culinary journey not to be missed.
Bar Cecil: For a bistro experience that celebrates individuality and creativity, both in its aesthetics and its cuisine. Book ahead, it's a hot ticket!
Nightlife
Cheers, Queers!
The Arenas district is the gayborhood epicenter of all things Gay Palm Springs. Start at Blackbook where it’s easy to meet new friends sitting right at the bar. Then hop around to (it’s a short block) to check out other gay watering holes like Dick’s, Streetbar, Chill Bar, Hunters, Quadz, or the (semi-hidden) speakeasy-style Evening Citizen for more boozing and cruising. While you’re at it, check out retail stores like GayMart, Rough Trade Gear, Division Menswear, or Ball Beachwear for all of your poolside (and bedside) needs.
Truss & Twine: Specializing in era-themed classic cocktails, Truss & Twin is Workshop Kitchen’s chic cocktail bar, alongside a desert-inspired menu using ingredients from the Coachella Valley.
Canopy Wine Lounge: A swanky newcomer offering a world-class wine selection in a sophisticated setting. With a focus on providing a memorable experience, Canopy has already gained popularity for its swanky atmosphere and has become a stunning addition to Palm Springs' bar scene.
Tailor Shop: A "purveyor of fine spirits and bespoke traditions". They are Uptown Palm Springs' newest cocktail bar with a distinct speakeasy-style ambiance. Picture a dark, moody interior with velvet banquettes, leather chairs, and a wrap-around marble bar. It's the perfect cooldown for those hot desert evenings.
PS Air Bar: A fun Airline-themed speakeasy inside the Bouschet wine store, featuring cocktails, dinner, naughty flight attendants, and live entertainment on the weekends. There's no place else quite like this, and every seat is first class (literally). You know we love a good theme bar!
Purple Room: Honoring the Rat Pack era and the quintessential "Old Hollywood" Palm Springs experience – Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show! – a parody of the great icons of the 60s. Grab a cocktail during happy hour and enjoy some (free) local music during the week.
Experiences to Remember
Entertainment Extravaganza
Drag Shows Galore: From the playful Mile High Boozy Brunch at PS Air Bar to Vanity's Doll Haus at One Eleven Bar in Cat City, Palm Springs offers an array of drag performances that promise fabulous fun. Here’s a complete list of drag shows from Gay Desert Guide for more drag show events. Shantay, you stay!
Sunday Funday: Embrace the local tradition with drag brunches, Palm Springs pool parties, and the legendary tea dance at Oscar's. After you’ve had enough disco, strap on some leather gear head on over to the Barracks for their popular Beer Bust.
Cultural Cachet
Mid-Century Modern Tours: Dive deep into the architectural wonders that define Palm Springs, with guided or self-led tours. Consider Palm Springs Mod Squad Tours or Mid-Century Modern Tours. If a self-guided tour is more your jam, you can caravan around some iconic Mid-century modern neighborhoods with The Palm Springs Guys MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour Guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)! And the open houses here in Palm Springs on the weekends will have you feeling like you’re at Modernism Week!
Palm Springs Aerial Tramway: Escape the heat and explore the breathtaking views and cooler climates. The Tram climbs up two-and-a-half-miles of Chino Canyon cliffs to the top of Mt. San Jacinto State Park – an elevation of 8,516 feet and temperature drop of nearly 20 degrees. It’s the “world’s largest rotating tram car” and it features spectacular views of the panoramic valleys below. Enjoy a moderate hike through its 50+ miles of hiking trails and butterscotch-scented Jeffrey pines. Then grab a cocktail at the lodge and retire to the observation decks for happy hour before a nice dinner at Mountain Station’s Peaks Restaurant.
Palm Springs Art Museum: Get inspired by the Palm Springs Art Museum’s incredible 12,000 works collection of modern and contemporary art, architecture, and design. Just look for the 26-foot sculpture of Marilyn Monroe located directly in front of the Museum! Locals get in for free on Thursday evenings, so be sure to make a new local friend beforehand ;)
CLUB541: Yes, your sexual exploration also counts as cultural cachet! CLUB541 is Palm Springs newest sex club exclusively for men who want to explore the depths of their fantasies. It’s also walkable from the Tool Shed (Palm Springs exclusive leather bar) and several men-only hotels like Santiago.
Your Oasis Awaits
Palm Springs can be a life-changer when it comes to your happiness and well-being. Palm Springs' welcoming LGBTQ+ community, vibrant culture, and endless opportunities for leisure and exploration make it an unparalleled choice for those looking to live their best gay lives. Whether you're seeking a much-needed getaway, a second haven, or a new permanent place to call home, Palm Springs promises a lifestyle filled with joy, freedom, and fabulousness. In a world where you can be anything, Palm Springs invites you to be unabashedly you. So pack your bags (or don't, we won't judge), and dive into whatever adventure awaits you here.
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Your Ultimate 2024 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (So Far)…
Experience a diverse array of LGBTQIA+ events in Palm Springs 2024! From film fests to fashion weeks, this is your go-to guide for the ultimate gay getaway – and why Palm Springs is the quintessential paradise for fun-loving gay men.
Palm Springs isn’t just a fabulous gay destination; it's a lifestyle, especially for the gay man who's ready to live his best life in 2024. Beyond the pool parties and the perpetual summer vibe, we are an epicenter for some of the most vibrant LGBTQIA+ events in the country. So, grab your sunglasses and your short-shorts, because we're spotlighting some of the top events that make Gay Palm Springs the place to be this year!
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you’re excited about it too)!
In the meantime, here’s your ultimate 2024 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (so far)…
January 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Palm Springs International Film Fest (Jan 5-14): There’s still time to celebrate today’s diverse voices in cinema with a cocktail in hand.
CAKE at The Barracks (Jan 13): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night.
The American Express Golf Tournament (Jan 15-21): Tee off in style and maybe rub shoulders with a few celebrities at this renowned annual golf event.
Firebirds Pride Night (Jan 19): Come see some of our favorite local Drag Queens take the stage ahead of the Coachella Valley Firebirds Pride Night at Acrisure Arena.
PIG DADDY at The Barracks (Jan 20): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night.
CumUnion (Jan 20): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
INFO-A-GO-GO at Margaritaville Resort (Jan 25): An event that features all the great groups, clubs, organizations, and things that the Coachella Valley has to offer in one spot.
Palm Springs Speaks presents an evening with Fran Drescher (Jan 25): The lovable “Fran Fine" from CBS’s hit series The Nanny comes to Palm Spring’s Richards Center for the Arts (at the Palm Springs High School Auditorium) for an inspiring talk and Q&A!
Desert Open Studios (Jan 26-28): Immerse yourself in the local art scene, where creativity meets community throughout the Coachella Valley.
Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo (Jan 27): Get those endorphins flowing with a fun run followed by a fitness expo.
Palm Springs Art Museum's Art Party (Jan 27): Art, design, cocktails, dinner, and dancing. The Art Party benefits the Palm Springs Art Museum and will be honoring the life and work of renowned architect Albert Frey (1903-1998).
February 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Rock the Park - Tribute to David Bowie (Feb 7): Ziggy Stardust comes to life in this electrifying tribute concert under the stars.
Tour de Palm Springs (Feb 9-10): The Tour de Palm Springs is one of the largest cycling charity events of its kind. Since 1998, and with the help of 2,000 volunteers, the Tour de Palm Springs has distributed nearly $4,000,000.00 to over 150 local nonprofit organizations.
National Gay Pilots Association's Palm Springs Winter Warm-Up (Feb 15-18): The Winter Warm-Up presented by American Airlines is the NGPA’s flagship West Coast event. This extremely popular winter fly-in event has steadily grown over the years, so hop on your Grindr that weekend if you’re still looking for those buddy passes (wink wink).
Modernism Week (Feb 15-25): A celebration of mid-century modern design, architecture, and culture. It's a modernist feast for the eyes!
CumUnion (Feb 17): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
IBC / International Bear Convergence (Feb 22-26): The bear community takes over in this festive gathering of fun, fur, and friendship.
O'so SUCIA at The Barracks (Feb 22): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night, celebrating IBC weekend.
SHINY DISCO BALLS at The Barracks (Feb 23): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night, celebrating IBC weekend.
FURBAL at The Barracks (Feb 24): Ongoing dance events for the sexually liberated at Cathedral City’s (aka Cat City’s) cruisiest leather & gear gay bar. Free clothes check all night, celebrating IBC weekend.
March 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
CumUnion (Mar 3): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Rock the Park - ABBAFab Palm Springs (Mar 6): A night of ABBA classics to sing and dance to? Yes, please!
Cathedral City LGBT Days (March 8-10): Palm Springs neighboring city (aka Cat City) joins in the fun with its own unique LGBT celebration.
Fashion Week El Paseo (Mar 15-21): The runway sizzles with the latest trends in this high-profile fashion extravaganza in Palm Desert’s El Paseo district.
Madonna - The Celebration Tour at Acrisure Arena (Mar 13): The Queen of Pop graces the Coachella Valley. Need we say more?
Red Dress / Dress Red Party (Mar 16): A night of fabulous fashion and fundraising, brought to you by The LGBTQ Community Center of the Desert (aka The Center). Dress red! Tickets go on sale Valentine’s Day.
Palm Springs International Pride Hockey Tournament (Mar 20-24): Sports and LGBTQIA+ camaraderie collide in this exciting hockey event.
Palm Desert Food & Wine Festival (Mar 21-24): Indulge in culinary delights under the Palm Desert sun.
White Party Palm Springs (Mar 29-31): The legendary dance party returns bigger and better!
BRÜT Party, Palm Springs White Party Weekend at The Barracks (Mar 29): Featuring DJ duo Dan Darlington and Deanne, BRÜT Party will transform Cat City’s The Barracks into a rhythmic fusion of power and raw sex appeal.
DAP Health’s “The Chase” Gala (Mar 30): Barry Manilow will headline this glittery gala is a gold standard of the desert’s social calendar. Host Kevin Bass promises an evening of inspiration for guests to think more boldly about the future of wellness throughout the Coachella Valley.
April 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Rock the Park - Garth Brooks Tribute Show (Apr 3): A country twist to the Rock the Park series. Save a horse, ride a cowboy (or at least enjoy the music of one)!
Healthy Friction at Vista Grande Resort (April 11-15): Healthy Friction is a Reunion and Social Brotherhood Weekend for the sex-positive-minded gay man.
Coming Outdoors hike in Joshua Tree National Park (April 13): Come out for an easy, friendly, and educational hike in Joshua Tree National Park, followed by a fun LGBTQ+ mixer at Desert Institute’s Yucca Valley park store.
Coachella Weekend 1 & 2 (Apr 12-14/19-21): The ultimate music festival experience. Say it with us now… CHELLA!!
DAP Health’s “Dining Out for Life” (Apr 25): Dine out and make a difference in helping to end HIV for good!
Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus "Defying Gravity" (Apr 25-28): Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus presents a concert that celebrates the human spirit and inspires us all to break the bounds of gravity and soar beyond the limitations put on us. Annenberg Theater at the Palm Springs Art Museum.
Stagecoach (Apr 26-28): The country music festival that's a must-attend for country music-lovers… Giddy up on that wait list because it’s already sold out!
CumUnion (Apr 27): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
May 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Rock the Park - The Ultimate Tribute to Bon Jovi (May 1): Don’t give love a bad name. Instead, why not close the season with the rock anthems of an icon!
CumUnion (May 18): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
June 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
CumUnion (June 1): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Palm Springs International ShortFest (June 18-24): A cinematic celebration that promises to inspire you as you wrap up the first half of 2024!
See You Soon In Gay Palm Springs
In Palm Springs, the stage is always set just right for making new friends and forging lasting connections. It's a place gay culture, fun, and ideal weather blend seamlessly, offering a year-round haven for gay men who want to embrace the extraordinary. From the pulsating beats of the White Party to the artistic inspiration of the Desert Open Studios, there's an event for every taste.
Whether you're here to bask in the warm desert sun, mingle with other guys, or simply let loose among the night life, Palm Springs is the ultimate playground for the gay men who want to experience it all. So, pack your bags and let Palm Springs work its magic on you!
CLUB541: Discover Palm Springs' Newest Sex Club
Cum check out Palm Springs' latest gem, CLUB541 – the ultimate playground for gay men seeking a thrilling, sex-positive adventure in the heart of the desert.
Welcome to Gay Palm Springs, where the days are hot, and the nights are even hotter – especially now with the opening of CLUB541, Palm Springs newest sex club (or “gay men’s private social club” if you like).
This desert oasis, long celebrated as a safe-haven for men who love men, just leveled up its game. While Palm Springs always promises a complete liberation of your senses, CLUB541 takes it even further for you as Palm Springs' newest nocturnal playground, exclusively for men who want to explore the depths of their fantasies.
CLUB541: A New Wave of Sex-Positivity in Palm Springs
Palm Springs is a unique gem indeed, and it’s mostly known for its clothing-optional resorts offering a spectrum of different vibes, from mild to wild. Some have more of a "bathhouse" feel with play areas, such as The Canyon Club, All Worlds Resort, and CCBC in Cathedral City, while others have a more laid-back vibe, like Twin Palms and Descanso.
Gay men can usually expect to find more traditional bathhouses and sex clubs for men-only when they’re traveling in bigger cities. That hasn't been the case here in Palm Springs. Of course, there’s always fun to be had around every corner, but CLUB541, situated at 541 E Industrial Pl, Palm Springs, CA 92264, has carved out its unique niche as the first real "sex club" in the greater Palm Springs area and the only one dedicated exclusively to men in the Coachella Valley. It’s also walkable from the Tool Shed and several men-only hotels like Santiago.
Safety First
Brought to us by the guys behind The Slammer in Los Angeles, CLUB541 is also about creating a safe space where men can meet, unwind, and indulge in their fantasies with freedom and respect. They want you to have fun, but they highly value the health, privacy and safety of their clientele, respecting all local laws and their neighbors. When visiting CLUB541 they expect that you will too. And if you have any doubts after any sexual encounters visiting CLUB541, please check out our Get Tested, Stay Fabulous: Your Ultimate Guide to STI and HIV Testing in Palm Springs article!
CLUB541’s Enticing Offer
Open from Thursday & Friday: 7pm-4am, and Saturday & Sunday: 4pm-4am, CLUB541 invites you in with an enticing grand opening rate of just $15. There's currently no membership required, and you'll get in-and-out privileges all evening with paid entrance.
Add $2 to the fee if you'd like a clothing check, but most guys seem to like to keep their clothes on from what I've seen so far. That said, be sure to wear something sexy and bold – from leather gear to minimalistic layers, or whatever you might wear to local hotspots like the Tool Shed or the Barracks in Cathedral City.
A Peek Inside CLUB541
Much like its brother (The Slammer in LA), CLUB541 is where men can play hard and raunchy in a hyper-masculine environment. CLUB541 is a zone of hot sexual energy, where every turn offers a new possibility. While the club itself is more intimate than some other sex clubs and bathhouses I've been to, CLUB541 has a little of everything – private rooms with glory holes, a sling room, a dark room, and even a "suckatorium" that you can cruise your way along through (or situate yourself within). The club's ambiance is a blend of dark, minimal aesthetics with red-light district vibes, complemented by Tom of Finland's iconic imagery throughout.
Cum check them out
Palm Springs isn't just a place to visit; it's a lifestyle for gay men. Its year-round sun, LGBTQ+ cultural vibrancy, and welcoming atmosphere make it a magnet for gay men looking to forge new connections and create unforgettable memories. In Palm Springs, every moment is an opportunity to meet someone new, to experience something different. CLUB541 is a new chapter in the ongoing story of Gay Palm Springs – a story of freedom, fun, and the unapologetic celebration of who we are.
White Party Palm Springs 2023: The Ultimate Dance Music Gaycation
Discover White Party Palm Springs 2023, the ultimate dance music gaycation destination for gay men looking for a sizzling, fun-filled getaway. Immerse yourself in a weekend of non-stop parties, glamor, and entertainment in Palm Springs California!
White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global
If you're seeking the ultimate dance music gaycation experience, look no further than White Party Palm Springs 2023! This iconic event is the top shelf of gay parties – and there's nowhere else quite like Palm Springs for gay men looking to have a fantastic vacation getaway.
This year's White Party Palm Springs promises a weekend full of sizzling events, and you won't want to miss a (dance) beat. Here's a rundown of White Party Palm Springs 2023 events (and keep scrolling the schedule-at-a-glance breakdown below)...
White Party Global’s got a star-studded lineup of dance music legends set to grace the stage at this year's event, turning the weekend into the ultimate dance music oasis this year.
From May 12-14, the desert will come alive with the electrifying vocals of powerhouse performers Robin S, CeCe Peniston, Inaya Day, and Crystal Waters, all taking the stage at the world-famous White Party T-Dance on May 14th. As Chris Diamond, Executive Producer of White Party Global, puts it, "This year, we are honored to have four legendary house divas grace our stage and create an unforgettable experience for our attendees.”
With iconic hits like Robin S's "Show Me Love," CeCe Peniston's "Finally," Inaya Day's "Nasty Girl," and Crystal Waters' "Gypsy Woman (She's Homeless)," this lineup is a dream come true for house music lovers. As the divas themselves have expressed, the resurgence of house music and its influence on today's artists is a testament to the genre's enduring appeal and ability to bring people together on the dance floor.
Paula Abdul - White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global
On Friday night, the stage will be set on fire by singer-songwriter and queer performer VINCINT, who will bring his powerhouse voice and infectious energy to the FLUIDITY event. He'll be joined by the legendary Kevin Aviance and the opulent, Broadway-style production of CircuitMOM.
Prepare to get SOAKED with pool parties throughout the weekend at the Hilton Hotel, featuring an array of talented DJs, including Jeremy Dava, Marti Frieson, Liza Rodriguez, Jace M, and CircuitMOM herself on Sunday for a special CircuitMOTHER's Day extravaganza.
And let's not forget the main events: Saturday night's WHITEOUT at the PS Convention Center, with DJs Shane Marcus, Mor Avrahami, and GSP; Sunday's ORBIT T-Dance at the White Party Park, featuring DJs Dawna Montell, Manny Lehman, and Tony Moran; and finally, the ESCAPE Closing Party with DJs Phil Romano and Micky Friedmann.
Now, here’s a handy schedule-at-a-glance breakdown for your dance-fueled weekend:
"SOAKED! Pool Party"
Date: Friday, May 12, 2023
Time: 12pm – 6pm
Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area
Featuring: DJ Jeremy Dava and DJ Marti Frieson
"FLUIDITY"
Date: Friday, May 12, 2023
Time: 9pm – 4am
Location: Palm Springs Convention Center
Featuring: VINCINT, DJ Dan Slater, and DJ Tom Stephan
"SOAKED! Pool Party" (Day Two)
Date: Saturday, May 13, 2023
Time: 11am -7pm
Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area
Featuring: DJ Liza Rodriguez and DJ Jace M
"WHITEOUT"
Date: Saturday, May 13, 2023
Time: 9pm – 4am
Location: PS Convention Center
Featuring: DJ Shane Marcus, DJ Mor Avrahami, and DJ GSP
CircuitMOTHER’s Day "SOAKED! Pool Party"
Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023
Time: 11am – 4pm
Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area
Featuring: CircuitMOM and DJ Nick Stracener
"ORBIT - T-Dance"
Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023
Time: 3pm – 10pm
Location: White Party Park (1077 East Amado Road, across from PS Convention Center)
Featuring: DJ Dawna Montell, DJ Manny Lehman, and DJ Tony Moran
"ESCAPE" Closing Party
Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023
Time: 10pm – 4am
Location: PS Convention Center
Featuring: DJ Phil Romano and DJ Micky Friedmann
White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global
Now that you've got the schedule, it's time to start planning your outfits! Each event promises its own flavor of fabulous, and we can't wait to see what you'll bring to the party.
With such a stellar lineup, this year's White Party Palm Springs is shaping up to be an unforgettable weekend of music, celebration, and connection. For more information on event details, passes, and accommodations, visit www.whitepartyglobal.com and follow White Party Global on Instagram and Facebook.
April 2023: Top 5 Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley
Gay Palm Springs is where the LGBTQIA+ community knows how to party! Check out our April 2023: Top 5 Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley that are sure to make your experience in the low desert unforgettable!
If you're looking for a destination where LGBTQIA+ community knows how to have a good time, Palm Springs should definitely be at the top of your list. This desert oasis is a mecca for our vibrant gay community, with its warm climate, stunning scenery, and energetic nightlife. Whether you're looking for pool parties, music festivals, or just a good old-fashioned dance party, Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley have it all, honey.
Here are our votes for April 2023: Top 5 Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley that will surely have you spilling some tea with your squirrel friends afterward…
1. Faux Fur Ball
Date: April 1, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Air Museum
The Faux Fur Ball is an annual fundraising event benefiting the Palm Springs Animal Shelter. The event features a silent auction, raffle, live entertainment, and a fashion show featuring faux fur designs from top fashion designers. The event is a great way for our LGBTQIA+ community to help raise awareness about local animal welfare. Attendees are encouraged to wear their most fabulous faux fur outfit and enjoy a night of fun and philanthropy.
2. Sand, Stars & Guitars featuring Levi Kreis
Date: April 5, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Cultural Center
The Sand, Stars & Guitars series will feature a live performance by Grammy-winning singer and actor Levi Kreis. Levi is a Tony Award-winning actor, singer, and songwriter known for his undeniable charisma and vocal prowess. Born and raised in Oliver Springs, TN, Kreis began touring as a classical composer and songwriter by age 12. After being outed and losing opportunities with major record labels, Kreis discovered a passion for acting and landed his breakthrough role as Roger in the Broadway national tour of Rent. He went on to originate the role of Jerry Lee Lewis in Million Dollar Quartet, winning the 2010 Tony Award for Best Featured Actor in a Musical. As a singer-songwriter, Kreis has released ten albums and his music has been featured in film and television.
3. Palm Springs 85
Date: April 8, 2023
Location: Downtown Palm Springs, California
Palm Springs 85 is celebrating the 85th anniversary of Palm Springs being Incorporated April 20, 1938. Entertainment begins at noon with DJ’s and live entertainment, ending with an Elton John tribute band in the downtown park beginning at 7pm. You can even dress your pet like your favorite Hollywood celebrity for the dog costume contest. Attendees will also have the opportunity to participate in art exhibits and experience the city's unique architecture and design. We think this event will also be a great way to celebrate the LGBTQIA+ community and its rich history in Palm Springs. Don't miss out on this chance to party like it's 1938!
4. Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival
Date: April 14-16, 2023 and April 21-23, 2023
Location: Empire Polo Club, Indio
No list of events in Palm Springs would be complete without mentioning the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival. While not exclusively an LGBTQIA+ event, the festival has always been a favorite among queer music fans. With headliners like Lizzo, Harry Styles, and Billie Eilish, this year's festival promises to be one for the books. The festival takes place over two weekends at the Empire Polo Club in Indio, just a short drive from Palm Springs.
5. Stagecoach Music Festival
Date: April 28-30, 2023
Location: Empire Polo Club, Indio
If you love country music, the Stagecoach Music Festival is the perfect event for you. This three-day extravaganza, held at the same venue as Coachella, features some of the biggest names in country music, as well as up-and-coming artists. In addition to music, there are also food and drink vendors, a BBQ competition, and line dancing lessons. With an atmosphere that's both laid-back and lively, the Stagecoach Music Festival is a must-attend event for anyone who wants to experience the best in country music and festival fun.
Did we miss anything? If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you think it’s a top April 2023 event)!
For a deeper dive, check out our 2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley for the entire year (yaass, Queen)!
2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley
From the Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival to Palm Springs Pride, check out our 2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley that you won’t want to miss!
Who wants to have a gay old time this year? The Coachella Valley is the perfect destination for all of us to live it up in 2023. Palm Springs, California is known for its warm climate, pool parties, and diverse array of events that cater to the LGBTQIA+ community. Whether you're a local or just browsing, you can always find something fun and exciting to do in our little desert paradise.
Let's dive in and explore the 2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley!
Palm Springs International Film Festival
Date: January 15-16
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Experience the art of cinema at the Palm Springs International Film Festival, featuring new and celebrated international features and documentaries. With over 135,000 attendees from around the world, it's an event you don't want to miss.
The 2nd Annual Palm Springs Pinot Noir Festival
Date: January 27-28
Location: Palm Springs, CA
If you're a fan of Pinot Noir, the Palm Springs Pinot Noir Festival is the perfect event for you. This two-day festival features tastings, seminars, and more, dedicated to the celebrated wine grape.
Oasis Music Festival
Date: January 26-29
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Get ready to dance the night away at the Oasis Music Festival, a four-day music festival featuring live performances by world-renowned DJs and musicians.
Southwest Arts Festival
Date: January 26-29
Location: Indio, CA
Immerse yourself in the arts at the Southwest Arts Festival, a three-day celebration featuring over 250 acclaimed artists and their unique creations.
The Center's Info-A-Go-Go
Date: January 25
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Come out and explore a range of free services at The Center's Info-A-Go-Go, a community resource fair that includes health screenings, career assistance, and more.
Art Party, Palm Springs Art Museum
Date: January 28
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Sip on cocktails, groove to live music, and view incredible artwork at the Art Party in support of the Palm Springs Art Museum.
Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo
Date: January 28
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Get fit and support a great cause at the Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo, which includes a 10K, 5K, and 1K run/walk event and a fitness expo featuring a range of health and wellness vendors.
Tour de Palm Springs
Date: February 11
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Join the fun at the Tour de Palm Springs, a bike ride and fundraising event that benefits local charities.
Modernism Week 2023
Date: February 16-26
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Discover the beauty of mid-century modern design, architecture, and culture at Modernism Week, a celebration featuring tours, lectures, films, and more.
Palm Springs Air Museum Gala
Date: February 18
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Don your black-tie attire and head to the Palm Springs Air Museum Gala, a sophisticated event featuring a cocktail reception, dinner, and live entertainment in support of the museum.
International Bear Convergence IBC 2023
Date: February 23-27
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Meet fellow members of the bear community and enjoy pool parties, dance events, and more at the International Bear Convergence.
McCormick's Palm Springs Exotic Car Auction
Date: February 24-26
Location: Palm Springs, CA
If you're a car enthusiast, don't miss McCormick's Palm Springs Exotic Car Auction, a three-day event featuring rare and exotic automobiles from around the world.
"Isn't It Romantic" Jazz Band Concert & Gala Fundraiser
Date: Feb 27
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Description: Enjoy an unforgettable evening of jazz music, delicious dinner, and a silent auction while supporting the talented Palm Springs High School Jazz Band. This event is a must-attend for anyone who loves music and wants to contribute to a great cause.
La Quinta Arts Celebration
Date: March 2–5
Location: La Quinta Civic Center Campus
The La Quinta Arts Celebration is a four-day festival showcasing the works of over 200 artists from various mediums, including painting, sculpture, ceramics, and photography. It's a great opportunity for art lovers to admire and purchase unique pieces.
Cathedral City First Friday Art Walk
Date: March 3
Location: Art and Design District
The Cathedral City First Friday Art Walk is a monthly event that highlights local artists in the Art and Design District. The event features live music, food, and drinks, making it a great way to experience the local art scene.
Cathedral City LGBT Days
Date: March 3–5
Location: Downtown Cathedral City
The Cathedral City LGBT Days is a celebration of the LGBTQIA+ community featuring live entertainment, food vendors, and a parade. This annual event brings together people of all backgrounds to celebrate diversity and inclusivity.
World Pride Mardi Gras Fashion Show PS Art Museum
Date: March 4
Location: Palm Springs Art Museum
The World Pride Mardi Gras Fashion Show is a high-fashion event that showcases outrageous costumes and designs. After the show, there will be an exciting party where you can mingle with fellow fashion enthusiasts.
Desert X
Date: March 4–May 7
Location: Multiple Locations
Desert X is a biennial art exhibition that takes place in the Coachella Valley. It features installations from artists all over the world, giving visitors a chance to explore the desert landscape and see some incredible art.
BNP Paribas Open
Date: March 6–19
Location: Indian Wells Tennis Garden
The BNP Paribas Open is the largest two-week combined ATP and WTA Tour tennis tournament in the world. This event is a must-attend for tennis enthusiasts and sports lovers.
Hollywood's Biggest Night at Trio
Date: March 12
Location: Trio Restaurant
Hollywood's Biggest Night at Trio is a night of glitz and glamor, where you can watch the Oscars live while enjoying cocktails and delicious food.
CV Rep Fundraiser - Puttin' On the Glitz
Date: March 13
Location: CV Rep
Puttin' On the Glitz is a fundraiser for the CV Repertory Theatre. The event features live entertainment, cocktails, and a silent auction. It's a great way to support the arts and have a good time.
Glow in the Park
Date: March 15–April 30
Location: Indian Wells Tennis Garden
Glow in the Park is an interactive art installation featuring illuminated sculptures. This event is a fun way to explore the Indian Wells Tennis Garden and experience some incredible art.
Fashion Week El Paseo
Date: March 17–23
Location: The Gardens on El Paseo
Fashion Week El Paseo is the ultimate fashion event in Palm Springs. The event features fashion shows from top designers, live entertainment, and a variety of vendors. This is a must-attend event for fashion enthusiasts.
Red Dress Dress Red Party
Date: March 18, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Air Museum
Get ready to paint the town red at the annual Red Dress Dress Red Party. Dress up in your most fabulous red frock and dance the night away in a sea of crimson at the Palm Springs Air Museum.
2023 Desert Open Studios Tour
Date: March 18-19 & March 25-26, 2023
Location: Various locations in the Coachella Valley
Get a behind-the-scenes look at the thriving art scene in the Coachella Valley. Visit local artist studios and see their creative process firsthand during the Desert Open Studios Tour.
Rainbow Challenge Golf Tournament
Date: March 19, 2023
Location: Escena Golf Club
Tee off for a good cause at the Rainbow Challenge Golf Tournament. Play a round of golf and support the LGBTQIA+ community in Palm Springs.
Variations of Three Pianos, Six Hands
Date: March 20, 2023
Location: McCallum Theatre
Get ready for an unforgettable evening of classical music with Variations of Three Pianos, Six Hands. Three of the world's top pianists will take to the stage for a magical performance you won't want to miss.
Palm Springs Int'l Gay Hockey Tournament
Date: March 23-26, 2023
Location: Desert Ice Castle
Lace up your skates and hit the ice for the Palm Springs International Gay Hockey Tournament. Whether you're a seasoned pro or a first-time player, this tournament is a must-attend event for hockey fans in the LGBTQIA+ community.
Palm Desert Food & Wine 2023
Date: March 24-26, 2023
Location: The Gardens on El Paseo
Treat your taste buds to a weekend of culinary delights at the Palm Desert Food & Wine 2023. Sample dishes from top local chefs and sip on the finest wines from around the world.
The Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards DAP Health
Date: March 25, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Convention Center
Honor the memory of renowned interior designer Steve Chase and support DAP Health at the Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards. Enjoy an evening of dinner, drinks, and live entertainment as we celebrate those who have made a difference in the lives of those living with HIV/AIDS.
One PS Community Picnic & Community Expo
Date: March 25, 2023
Location: Ruth Hardy Park
Bring your friends, family, and furry companions to the One PS Community Picnic & Community Expo. Enjoy a day of fun in the sun with local vendors, food trucks, and live entertainment.
Trans Pride 2023 - Empower and Employ
Date: March 26–29
Location: Palm Springs Art Museum
Trans Pride 2023 is a four-day event that is dedicated to celebrating the transgender and gender non-conforming community. This year's event features a job fair, a talent showcase, and a rally. The event aims to empower and employ transgender and gender non-conforming people, while also raising awareness about the challenges and issues that they face.
Palm Springs Jewish Film Festival
Date: March 31
Location: Camelot Theatres
The Palm Springs Jewish Film Festival is an annual event that showcases the best in Jewish cinema. The festival features films from around the world that explore Jewish culture, history, and identity. This year's festival includes screenings of short and feature-length films, as well as discussions with filmmakers and special guests.
Palm Springs Speaks present Al Franken
Date: April 1
Location: Richards Center for the Arts
Palm Springs Speaks is a speaker series that brings some of the most prominent figures in politics, entertainment, and culture to Palm Springs. This year, the series presents Al Franken, the former United States Senator, and comedian. Franken will discuss his career in comedy, his time in the Senate, and his thoughts on the current political landscape.
Palm Springs Animal Shelter's Faux Fur Ball
Date: April 1
Location: Palm Springs Air Museum
The Faux Fur Ball is an annual fundraiser for the Palm Springs Animal Shelter. The event features a runway show where adoptable pets are escorted down the catwalk by local celebrities. There are also auctions, a gourmet dinner, and dancing. All proceeds from the event go to support the shelter's efforts to rescue and care for animals in need.
Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival Weekend 1 & 2
Date: April 14-16 & April 21–23
Location: Empire Polo Club
The Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival is one of the most famous music festivals in the world. The event features some of the biggest names in music, as well as art installations and other attractions. This year's lineup includes Billie Eilish, Harry Styles, and Lizzo.
Dining Out for Life
Date: April 27
Location: Various locations
Dining Out for Life is an annual fundraiser for local HIV/AIDS service organizations. Participating restaurants donate a portion of their proceeds from the day to support these organizations. In Palm Springs, over 60 restaurants are participating in the event, making it a great way to try out new restaurants while also supporting a good cause.
Stagecoach
Date: April 28–30
Location: Empire Polo Club
Stagecoach is a country music festival that takes place at the same location as Coachella. The event features some of the biggest names in country music, as well as line dancing, barbecue, and other country-themed activities.
Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus Presents Notorious
Date: April 28–30
Location: Annenberg Theater
The Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus is a beloved institution in the Palm Springs community. This year, they present Notorious, a musical tribute to some of the most notorious people in history, including Al Capone, Bonnie and Clyde, and Marilyn Monroe.
Palm Springs Hot Rodeo
Date: May 4–7
Location: Multiple locations
The Palm Springs Hot Rodeo is a three-day event that celebrates the LGBTQ+ rodeo community. The event features bull riding, steer wrestling, and other rodeo competitions, as well as line dancing and other western-themed activities.
Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast
Date: May 11, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Convention Center
The Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast is an annual event that celebrates the legacy of Harvey Milk, an American politician and gay rights activist. The event includes a keynote speaker, awards ceremony, and a delicious breakfast. The goal of the event is to promote diversity, equality, and inclusion in the community.
White Party Global
Date: May 12-14, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
White Party Global is a legendary dance music festival that attracts thousands of attendees from all over the world. This three-day event includes some of the biggest names in music, as well as pool parties, fashion shows, and other exciting events. The dress code is all white, which creates a stunning visual effect.
Joshua Tree Music Festival
Date: May 18 - 21
Location: Joshua Tree, CA
Description: Immerse yourself in the magic of the Joshua Tree desert with this four-day festival that celebrates music, art, and culture. With an exciting lineup of musicians, artists, and performers, you'll be sure to have a great time while experiencing the beauty of the desert.
Lizzo The Special 2our
Date: June 2, 2023
Location: Acrisure Arena
Lizzo, the Grammy award-winning singer, songwriter, and flutist, will be performing her hits at the Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa. The event promises to be an unforgettable experience with Lizzo's signature blend of funk, soul, and hip hop.
Splash House June Weekend
Date: June 9-11, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
Splash House June Weekend is a music festival that takes place across multiple venues in Palm Springs. The event features some of the hottest names in electronic dance music, as well as pool parties, after-parties, and other exciting events.
Out in the Vineyard Gay Wine Weekend
Date: July 14-16, 2023
Location: Various wineries in Sonoma Valley
Out in the Vineyard Gay Wine Weekend is a three-day event that celebrates the LGBT community's love of wine. The event includes wine tastings, gourmet meals, and other activities at some of the most beautiful wineries in Sonoma Valley. The event also raises funds for LGBT charities.
Splash House August Weekend 1 & 2
Date: Aug 11-13 & Aug 18-20, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
Splash House August Weekend 1 & 2 is another music festival that takes place across multiple venues in Palm Springs. The event features more than 30 acts, pool parties, and after-parties. It's a perfect way to enjoy the last days of summer.
Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend
Date: Sept 20–24, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend is the largest lesbian event in the world, attracting thousands of women from around the globe. The event includes pool parties, comedy shows, concerts, and other activities at various locations throughout Palm Springs.
Mini-Modernism Week 2023
Date: Oct 19-22
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Description: Don't miss out on the opportunity to explore Palm Springs' mid-century modern scene during Mini-Modernism Week 2023. This smaller version of the popular Modernism Week event features tours, lectures, films, and more, perfect for those who want to experience the best of mid-century modern design and architecture in a shorter timeframe.
Palm Springs Leather Pride
Date: Oct 26–29, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
Palm Springs Leather Pride is a four-day event that celebrates the leather and fetish community. The event includes parties, workshops, and contests, as well as a parade down Palm Canyon Drive.
Palm Springs Pride
Date: Nov 3–5, 2023
Location: Downtown Palm Springs
Palm Springs Pride is an annual event that celebrates the LGBT community's diversity, culture, and achievements. The event includes a parade, a festival, and live entertainment from some of the biggest names in music. The event promotes equality, acceptance, and love for all.
Well, honey, there you have it – a roundup of some of the hottest events coming up in Palm Springs and throughout the Coachella Valley. From film festivals to rodeos, nightly drag shows to hot springs, what more could we ask for?
Don't miss out on all the excitement. Mark your calendars, book your flights, and get ready for some serious fun in Palm Springs this year!
Best 2022 Holiday Events in Gay Palm Springs
If you're wondering how you can make the yuletide gay this year in Palm Springs, here's our pick of the Best 2022 Holiday Events in Gay Palm Springs coming up throughout December!
If you're wondering how you can make the yuletide gay this year in Palm Springs, here's our pick of the Best 2022 Holiday Events in Gay Palm Springs coming up throughout December. Happy Holidays, guys!
Palm Springs Holiday Events To Make The Yuletide Gay
Dec. 2 | Official city holiday tree lighting | Frances Stevens Park
Dec. 2-18 (Weekends) | “Palm Springs Getaway” | Palm Canyon Theatre
Dec. 2 (Multiple Days) | “Sounds of the Holidays” | Palm Springs Aerial Tramway
Dec. 3 | Festival of Lights Parade | Downtown Palm Springs
Dec. 4 | 13th Annual Men of the Desert Fashion Show and Luncheon | Palm Springs Air Museum
Dec. 4 | The Roost's Wreath Decoration Contest and Auction on December 4th
Dec. 4, 11 & 18 | The Dirty Show Holiday X-Travaganza! With Deven Green and Handsome Ned | Dietlart
Dec. 16-18 | Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus “Naughty or Nice?” | Annenberg Theater at Palm Springs Art Museum
Dec. 23 | Western X-Mas: Holiday Bear Retreat | CCBC
Barracks
Dec. 3 | Snuggie & Union Suit Party
Dec. 10 | PigDaddy (Not exactly holiday-themed, but why not mix things up?)
Dec. 31 | Barrack's Ball Drop
Oscar's
Dec. 17 | Jackie Beat’s “War on Christmas”
Dec. 24 | Bitchiest Brunch Christmas Eve Edition
Dec. 25 | Oscar's FREE Christmas Breakfast
Dec. 31 | Drag Me Into 2023 | Two Dinners and Shows
Palm Springs Cultural Center
Dec. 10 & 11 | ‘Stars: A Galaxy of Song’ | Modern Men: Coachella Valley Men's Chorus
Dec. 17 | Pied Piper: A Twisted Holiday Tale | Palm Springs Dance Project
Dec. 20 | Deserted Films: Holiday Oddities
Runway @ CCBC
Dec. 9 | Vixen's Ho Ho Ho Show
Dec. 17 | Unwrapped Packages
The Purple Room
Dec. 18 | Judy's Old Fashioned Christmas
Dec. 23 | Blue Suede Christmas! Elvis: The Early Years
The Essential Pride Events Guide for Palm Springs Pride 2022
It's Pride weekend once again here in Palm Springs, and this year’s theme is SAY GAY! Here's our Essential Pride Events Guide for Palm Springs Pride 2022 🏳️🌈
Cheers, Queers! It's Pride weekend once again here in Palm Springs, and this year’s theme is SAY GAY!
You know they’ll be plenty of boys, booze, and blasphemy to remind you of how proud you are to be gay – and how lucky we all are to be able to live out loud here in Gay Palm Springs!
Between official Pride events, unofficial pool parties, and everything in between – there's an appalling amount of events happening all weekend long here in our quaint little desert town. Scroll to the bottom of this post for every option under the sun, or simply jump into this curated list of events we're most excited about…
Here's our Essential Pride Events Guide for Palm Springs Pride 2022 🏳️🌈
Friday, November 4th
3pm - 11:30pm - KGAY 106.5 Arenas District Pride Kick Off Block Party with music & dancing in the streets!
Saturday, November 5th
10am - Hotel Zoso Pride Drag Brunch (singing drag queens from P-town)!
11am-5pm - Palm Springs Pride Festival Day 1 + Marketplace (Click here for a downloadable festival map)
11am-5pm - CCBC Rainbow Splash Pool Party
1pm - Ongina's Palm Springs PRIDE Drag Brunch
5:30pm - UNBOUND: a live immersive kink chamber opera experience!
6pm - Boylesque! : A Night of Drinks, Drag & Delirium at Boozehounds
8pm - Todrick Hall on main stage
9pm - Bob the Drag Queen at Hotel Zoso (admission includes Zoso to SAY GAY! Underwear Party after)
9pm - ROUGH SEX at The Barracks (Free clothes check available, $20 cash at the door, no tickets are sold online for this event)
9pm - CCBC CumUnion (passes can be purchased in advance at the door)
Sunday, November 6th
10am - 12pm Palm Springs Pride Parade 2022
10am - 2pm - Pride Parade Party & Drag Brunch at Roly China Fusion with Rosemary Galore
11am - 6pm - Palm Springs Pride Festival Day 2 + Marketplace (Click here for a downloadable festival map)
4pm - The Robyn Party at the Arenas (nothing but Robyn songs)!
6pm - An Evening With Latrice Royale (includes a 3-course meal)
Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs
Here are our votes on the Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs!
It sure is hot here in the low desert! Fear not, fellow gaycationers and staycationers – there’s still plenty to do this summer here in Gay Palm Springs that will keep you busy and keep you cool (hopefully at the same time).
I’m not just talking about all-indoor activities either. There’s plenty of inspiration waiting for you all throughout the Coachella Valley.
Of course, there are plenty of other fabulous things to do and see this summer in greater Palm Springs, but these are our favorites so far. If you'd like to increase your search results, check out the Gay Desert Guide.
And if you have an activity you already love that didn't make the list, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it)!
In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs!
Drag Shows
Let’s start with the essentials. Naturally, sweetie, drag shows are all over Palm Springs. You can play Bingo with Miss Rusty Waters at Hunter's every Wednesday, make yo dollas holla at Vanity's Doll Haus every Friday at One Eleven Bar in Cat City, or bask in the nostalgia of The Judy Show! every Sunday at the Purple Room (just to name a few of course). Check out the Gay Desert Guide for a complete list of drag shows.
Dining
Grab some brunch at 1501 Uptown Gastropub, a light sushi lunch at Antigua Sushi Lovers, and then dinner at the NY-style Paul Bar/Food Gastropub. Or if you’re looking for a more unique experience, PS Underground is an ever evolving supper club (no two dinners are ever the same) featuring gourmet meals and world class entertainment. And if fresh local produce is your poison or pleasure, check out the Coachella Valley Certified Farmers' Markets.
For more of our dining favorites, look no further than our “Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs” post.
Hiking (in the morning)
If you want to beat the heat but still enjoy all the natural beauty the Coachella Valley has to offer, consider some morning (or evening) hikes like Tahquitz Canyon Waterfalls, Indian Canyon trail, or the many other trails in and around Palm Springs. There are also groups like Great Outdoors Palm Springs (GOPS) and various Facebook hiking (even naked hiking) groups you could join.
Or consider taking the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway – the “World’s largest rotating tram car” – up two-and-a-half-miles of Chino Canyon cliffs that feature panoramic views of the spectacular valleys below. The journey ends at the top of Mt. San Jacinto State Park (an elevation of 8,516 feet) where you’ll find observation decks, restaurants (with a view), and over 50 miles of hiking trails. It’s typically 20 degrees cooler at the top. And be sure to check out the Jeffrey pine trees up there because they smell like butterscotch (for real)!
Joshua Tree
Plan a perfect trip to Joshua Tree with the help of J Harvey’s My Normal Gay Life travel blog. In addition to Joshua Tree National Park, the high desert is full of spectacular natural wonders and blended ecosystems of both the Mojave and Colorado deserts. While you’re there, grab a bite at the Joshua Tree Saloon. And don’t forget to check out the Outdoor Desert Art Museum’s sculptures and installations (for free) and the World Famous Crochet Museum.
Just Relax Poolside
The pool might be the best place to wade out the Palm Springs summer heat. The pool at the Rowan Hotel is (freely) open to the public throughout the summer, so consider a poolside lunch and cocktails there. If men-only is more what you had in mind, there are day passes available at the Canyon Club in Palm Springs and at CCBC in Cathedral City (Cat City).
Movies
Catch a nice air-conditioned movie at the Palm Springs Cultural Center or the Mary Pickford Theater In Cathedral City (they even have recliners there)! You can also check out all the inspiring Palm Springs Film Festivals happening throughout the year.
Museums
If you want to quench your thirst for culture, start at the Palm Springs Art Museum’s exquisite collection of over 12,000 works of modern and contemporary art, architecture, and design. Every Thursday night, locals can browse the museum for free (5-7PM)! Next check out the Moorten Botanical Gardens “living museum” to see over 3,000 varieties of desert plants, trees, and spiky cacti.
If you’re curious about Palm Springs’ historic inhabitants, check out the Agua Caliente Cultural Museum’s five different exhibit areas dedicated to telling different chapters in the story of the Agua Caliente people.
And if you want to see the quirkiest museums of all, you’ll have to drive out of town to see the International Banana Museum in Mecca, CA (it’s exactly what it sounds like). And don’t forget to check out the World Famous Crochet Museum in Joshua Tree.
Nightlife
Get your tea dance on at Oscar's, bring your pup to Boozehounds, or make new friends at "Underwear Night" at the Barracks in Cat City. Check out more of our “Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs” favorites on our blog!
Other Inspirations
With six escape adventures to choose from, Escape Palm Springs has escape rooms that challenge you to pull off a bank heist, flee the doomed Titanic, save a wizarding school from an evil spell, or help Scotland Yard capture Jack the Ripper.
After you’ve escaped, go celebrate at Agua Caliente Resort Casinos in Palm Springs (or in Cat City) and see how far your luck will carry you!
Check out the Gay Desert Guide for more LGBTQ+ happenings in Palm Springs!
Outdoor Art
There’s no shortage of creative expression here in Coachella Valley. Start in Palm Springs with Marylin Monroe herself (the other lady liberty), conveniently located right in front of the Palm Springs Art Museum and next to the massive Palm Springs Babies Sculptures sandpit. Each baby is a whopping 11 feet long, 9 feet high, and weighs almost 300 pounds.
If stepping into a parallel dimension is more your vibe, check out RoboLights – an extraordinary four-acre light display created by artist Kenny Irwin boasting displays made from approximately 1000 tons of donated junk. It’s so strange, it’s even been featured on Conan O’Brian, The Learning Channel, and the BBC Travel Channel. Then go check out the Spider Volkswagen sculpture – a bizarre sculpture of a VW beetle-turned giant spider.
If dinosaurs are your jam, drive to Cathedral City and check out the new Jurassic Wonders in Cathedral City or the Cabazon Dinosaurs in Cabazon – a highly postcarded Palm Springs icon, boasting more than 50 life-size dinosaur statues. You may recognize it from its appearance in cult classic film Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure!
Just keep on driving and let Desert X be your tour guide to see all the incredible outdoor art spread all throughout the Coachella Valley.
Shopping
Grab some short-shorts at Division Palm Springs, some leather gear at Gear Leather & Fetish, and truly unique gifts from Just Fabulous Palm Springs. Check out more of our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs favorites on our blog!
Shows
Check out the The Judy Show at the Purple Room – a drag parody of the great icons of the 60s. Then enjoy AsiaSF Palm Springs iconic dinner show experience while the transgender Ladies of AsiaSF Palm Springs dazzle you (think “high drag,” but it’s not drag, honey). Or check out all the great drag shows happening almost daily here in and around Palm Springs.
If live music is your jam, check out the newly opened Alibi Palm Springs, Oscars, the McCallum Theatre, or the famous Pappy & Harriet’s saloon in Pioneertown. There’s always a ton of live events happening in this town, so check out the calendar listings for what’s coming up.
Summer Events
Palm Springs has quickly become an all-season place to be, so there’s always an event. Check out the Palm Springs Cultural Center or the Rock The Park summer music series. And if you’re still on Facebook (most folks still are in this town), consider joining the Gay Men of Palm Springs Facebook Group, or check out Palm Springs Bureau of Tourism for a calendar of events.
Tours
Whether it’s guided or self-guided tours you’re looking for, there’s a lot to see in our little town. Check out the Legends & Icons Tour or the Historical Society Walking Tours. If mid-century modern is what you crave, consider Mid-Century Modern Tours or Palm Springs Mod Squad tours. And for a fun self-guided tour of some fabulous Mid-century modern neighborhoods here in Palm Springs, check out our MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)!
For a unique, self-guided tour, get up close and take selfies with turbines on a Windmill Tour through the Coachella Valley and see some of the best-preserved windmills in all of California.
They are MUCH bigger than most people realize! And be sure to check out the Windmill Market while you’re there for the best Date Shake in Coachella Valley (4 years standing)!
Wellness Day
Since you came all the way to Palm Springs to relax and get away from it all, why not have a wellness day? Get a massage at The Men’s Grooming Spot, a haircut at Daddy's Barbershop, or some cannabis at The Vault Dispensary and Lounge. Or have you ever wanted to meditate in a cave? Check out more of our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs wellness favorites on our blog!
Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs
Here's a list of our favorite restaurants in Palm Springs – curated by us, with an emphasis on flavor, atmosphere, quality of ingredients, great tasting food, and gay-friendly (of course)…
Whether it's eye candy or after-dinner candy you're looking to accompany a great meal, there's something for everyone here in Gay Palm Springs!
Here's a list of our favorite restaurants in Palm Springs – curated by us, with an emphasis on flavor, atmosphere, quality of ingredients, great tasting food, and gay-friendly (of course).
We all have certain standards when we're dining out – different palettes, different allergies, and different tastes in hot waiters 😜 We know that not everyone's going to agree with our choices, but we hope that overall this list won't disappoint.
Of course, there are plenty of other great restaurants in greater Palm Springs (and in the surrounding Coachella Valley), but these are our favorites so far. If you'd like to increase your search results, check out https://visitpalmsprings.com/dining-in-palm-springs.
And if you have a place you already love that didn't make the list, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it)!
In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs (in alphabetical order by cuisine)!
*Or opt-in below for a downloadable cheat sheet version…
American
Willie Rhine of Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge and Chad Gardner of 533 Viet Fusion and Roly China Fusion bring their combined successful track records to offer a new seasonally fresh eatery. The food at 1501 Uptown Gastropub is great and there's lots of indoor and outdoor seating. We particularly love brunching outdoors because of it's beautiful view of the mountains!
Boozehounds aims to provide a friendly environment for both canines and their humans. By day, they are a coffee, co-working, and lunch spot. By night, they are a perfect happy hour and dinner destination for the whole family.
Chi Chi's is centered in the tradition of California wellness and set in the playful pool area of the Avalon Hotel. We love their specialized menus and innovative dishes.
Chicken Ranch is committed to keep to keeping it fresh; bringing farm-fresh produce and free-range poultry from local farms to your plate. They are always serving up quality and fresh, from rotisserie chicken, delicious salads, and seasonal ingredients. This is one of our favorite lunch spots.
Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge
Located in the Uptown Design District of Palm Springs, EIGHT4NINE's eclectic and colorful menu selections feature a fusion of comfort food, ethnic influences, and bold originality. So original, they haven't changed the menu in years, but folks still love it. The real standout for us is the bright and modern décor!
GiGi’s is a desert-inspired, Modern American restaurant, serving creative farm-to-table fare with a commitment to the freshest locally sourced ingredients. You may even be able to catch an occasional celebrity low-key dining here, but you didn't hear it from us😉
John Henry’s Café has been a favorite of Palm Springs locals and in-the-know visitors for over thirty years. It's quite an experience that you can only understand when you experience it for yourself, so... Go experience for yourself 😉
King's Highway at the Ace Hotel
An old roadside diner reimagined, King's Highway reinterpreted American comfort food for the desert with a focus on fresh, organic, and local ingredients. It might be Palm Springs best-kept secret (especially if you're trying to snag a table somewhere in town on a busy weekend night)!
La Copine is the only place we're listing that requires a day trip out of town to Yucca Valley. They are an incredible Californian restaurant serving fresh & inspired lunch in the Hi Desert from Thursday-Sundays only (11am-4pm). It's in the middle of nowhere but the food speaks for itself. If you don't believe us, just as The New York Times or VOGUE!
There is no place in Palm Springs more colorful than Lulu's. A must for every new Palm Springs tourist, Lulu's has become the restaurant all of Palm Springs loves to be (and be seen).
Oscar's has everything from dancing to live dinner entertainment in the heart of downtown Palm Springs. From drag brunch, to celebrity evening-with shows, to Oscar's signature T-Dance on Sundays, there's something for every gay!
Honoring the Rat Pack era, Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show!, a parody of the great icons of the 60s.
Sherman’s has become a landmark in the desert. A Kosher-style family restaurant, they offer an extensive menu for breakfast, brunch, lunch and dinner reminiscent of a New York style deli.
The Pantry's menu is an exceptional modern take on classic “Americana” cuisine, reinterpreting the traditional resort menu using a fusion of new techniques and influences. Their menu highlights fresh ingredients local to California and the Coachella Valley.
In the center of the Plaza, Tyler’s offers one of the best burger experiences in the desert!
Asian
This is a personal favorite of ours, and another Asian fusion eatery brought to you by the gay owners of Roly China Fusion. 533 Viet Fusion is a casual, hip setting for a mix of modern and traditional Vietnamese dishes and cocktails. We particularly love their spring roll menu, full of fresh selections like their lemongrass duroc organic pork roll and mushroom soba roll.
Antigua Sushi Lovers just opened and we love the owners as much as we love the sushi! They're also currently one of only two sushi places open for lunch as well as dinner in Palm Springs.
AsiaSF is a cabaret dinner show that has been wowing crowds for 23 years in San Francisco, and they've chosen Palm Springs as its first location outside the Bay Area. AsiaSF performers, who are all transgender women, bring their own personalities to lip-synced renditions of party playlist classics, creating a memorable dinner show for an iconic date night.
From dim sum to drag brunch, Roly China Fusion is modern Chinese cuisine with an asian fusion twist. Inspired by Chad’s husband Roly, the restaurant brings a vibrant, whimsical and elevated dining experience to the Palm Springs area. They also own 533 Viet Fusion, which is a personal favorite of ours!
Rooster and the Pig is a Vietnamese-American restaurant that strives to serve food and drink with distinction. They also take allergies seriously, so we always appreciate that.
Sandfish serves up quality hand-crafted sushi and whiskey pairings in a beautiful Scandinavian designed interior.
Taka Shin offers exquisite Japanese cuisine that delicately presents traditional Japanese food with a contemporary twist in a relaxed, no-frills environment.
Thai Smile has been bringing the authentic tastes of true Thai cuisine to Palm Springs for 18 years. We love crossing the street after a Sunday evening tea dance at Oscars for a comforting (and affordable!) curry.
Torakichi Ramen is a relatively new restaurant specializing in ramen. It's an intimate setting, but where it lacks in ambience it well makes up for with flavor!
Bar Food
Winner of Desert Sun's Best Restaurant in 2020, Blackbook is the real "chill bar" in the Arenas district as far as we're concerned. Its sleek industrial style features the largest whiskey selection in Palm Springs and a lot of acclaim for being the "best bar food in Palm Springs" among the locals.
The coolest (pun fully intended) gay bar and dance club here in Palm Springs, Chill Bar is another staple gay-borhood bar in our beloved Arenas district, featuring drag bingo, go-go boys, and our favorite disco-ball male statues (featured on The Palm Springs Guys website)! They have a fun bar menu, and the flatbreads are a particular stand-out for our pallets.
Hunters is Palm Springs’ go-to gay bar and dance club fun for 20 years now. Featuring the longest happy hour in all the Valley, Hunters serves up drag shows, karaoke, and Djs that keep the dance floor pumping (loudly!) right in the Arenas district. But they also have a great bar menu (from fried pickles to "hey girl" hot wings).
PaulBar is bar/food. That's all they have to say about that on their website, but locals have a lot more to say about how much they love it. The location isn't ideal (you'll wonder if you're in the right place at first), but it's got a very cool vibe when you get inside which is why it's so popular.
With plenty of atmosphere for all patrons “to roost,” the Roost Lounge in Cat City is a another friendly neighborhood gay bar with ongoing entertainment and karaoke.
BBQ
As the name suggests, Smoke Tree is all about BBQ; Baby Back ribs, Beef Ribs, Brisket, Pulled Pork, Smoked Chicken, Tri Tip, Andouille Sausage, Smoked Turkey, and more. This is the best BBQ in Palm Springs, but their hours often change whenever they feel like it, just FYI.
Cafe
Koffi (Various Locations)
Locally owned and operated, Koffi was established in 2002 and is now the largest independent specialty coffee retail and roasting operation in the Coachella Valley. Koffi has four (4) different café locations – three (3) of which are right in Palm Springs (Koffi North, Koffi Central, and Koffi South). Their oat milk iced lattes are strong & smooth, just the way we like them.
Right in the heart of the Antique Shopping District, the ever-popular Townie Bagel’s makes water boiled bagels fresh daily in Palm Springs. All their bagels, breads, muffins, and scones are made from scratch in their bakery. It's a local favorite, so get in line early!
Continental
Bar Cecil is a nod to the great American and European bistro experiences. They celebrate those who follow the beat to their own drum with an aesthetic as creative and inspiring as their food and cocktails. This place it POPULAR, and reservations are limited, so try to go early or late on a whim sometime.
Jake’s is a casual/hip American bistro serving fresh, innovative, and comfort food favorites. Their lunch menu screams California fresh, and they even have a "Flight of Salads" if you can't decide which mouth-watering salad to toss... I mean, choose 😉
Johannes Restaurant is modern European cuisine from Austrian born Chef/Owner Johannes Bacher, with an Upscale Casual Ambiance and an entire schnitzel menu!
Mid-Mod Café is Uptown Palm Springs’ [new] organic alternative for healthy smoothies, as well as breakfast, lunch and dinner. Created by the gay owners of Palm Greens, Mod Cafe offers a healthy spin on American classics with vegan, organic, vegetarian and Gluten-free options.
Truss & Twine sits adjacent to the team’s first venture, Workshop Kitchen + Bar and is the epitome of Palm Springs’ sophisticated desert vibe. They specialize in classic cocktails broken down by era, alongside a desert-inspired menu using ingredients from the Coachella Valley.
This mid-century lounge serves up boutique California wines, craft beers, and throwback cocktails. It's also a favorite destination for live music and drag performances, like Ross Mathew's "Dragtastic Bubbly Brunch".
From the same owners as Truss & Twine, Workshop Kitchen & Bar is farm to table seasonal through and through. From their James Beard-award winning interior design to their classic cocktail bar, it's our favorite spot in Palm Springs!
French
FARM is a Provencal-style restaurant with a menu comprised of traditional French dishes, brimming with locally sourced produce, eggs, and artisanal meats. It's a very popular spot for lunch and brunch, so get there early!
The name “French Miso Café” reflects the origin diversity of the owners Tomoko Jones and Eric Bovy. The result is an endearing setting where one can enjoy traditional Japanese and French cuisine at the same table. This place is as quality as it gets in Palm Springs – just be mindful of their limited hours.
Indian
Monsoon serves up a medley of flavorful Indian dishes like Chicken Curry Prawn Vindaloo and Malai Tikka, as well as vegetarian entrees like Mushroom Masala and Aloo Gobi.
Italian
Featuring the flavors of Northern Italy, Al dente Trattoria Toscana is a quaint cucina with a European atmosphere. We're still on the hunt for exceptional Italian food here in Palm Springs, but this one's our favorite so far.
Bill’s quest of making the best pizza possible led him to Italy and back exploring a wide range of pizza styles and techniques.
Sammy’s Place serves authentic Italian food in the Palm Springs area – the very best we've had in the valley so far! Their hours are limited to Thursdays - Sundays and they don't seem to have a website, but it's worth the trip.
Right in the heart of Palm Springs’ Fashionable Uptown Design District, Trio Restaurant aims to bring people together with timeless Italian-American fusion dishes and colorful décor. They also love actively giving back to the community, so that's a win in our book!
Mediterranean
With 2 locations in Palm Springs and one in Cathedral City, Santorini Gyro Restaurant serves up authentic Greek food as good as we always hope for.
Mexican
El Mirasol has built a reputation for consistently serving piping hot plates of artfully prepared Mexican regional cuisine and tangy flavorful margaritas in Palm Springs, California. Chef Felipe Castaneda serves up authentic versions of Mexican standards such as chile verde, shrimp pipian, and polo en mole poblano. We love starting with drinks next door at Dead or Alive Bar, then popping over to El Mirasol for a delicious dinner.
The same owners as FARM, Tac/Quila is their made-up word for combining gourmet Jalisco style cuisine with specialty tequilas and mezcals. Mexico’s artistry extends to its flavorful, colorful, and specialized cuisine.
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Best Clothing-Optional (Men-Only) Resorts in Gay Palm Springs
Staying "Gay" (at a gay resort) is optional in Palm Springs – and so is staying in your clothes. So why not experience the freedom of a clothing-optional gaycation in the most liberated, body-positive place on earth for men who love men?
*Updated: November 11, 2022
Staying "Gay" (at a gay resort) is optional in Palm Springs – and so is staying in your clothes. So why not experience the freedom of a clothing-optional gaycation in the most liberated, body-positive place on earth for men who love men?
Never stayed at a clothing optional gay resort before? Are you horrified at the very thought of a clothing-optional experience? I'm guessing the voyeur in you is at least curious about it or you wouldn't be here right now 😉
My advice to you is to just jump right in and stay clothing-optional so you can see for yourself how exhilarating it can be. Keep those boy shorts on for now if you must, but at least check out Inndulge's illuminating video collection of enticing tutorials to help you with your first clothing-optional experience.
Don't worry, I'll wait...
Ok, now that you're SOLD, here the Best Clothing-Optional (Men-Only) Resorts in Gay Palm Springs in our opinion (in alphabetical order)...
Home of "The Maze," All Worlds is more LA bath house than San Francisco sex club, but it straddles the two in true Palm Springs Warm Sands neighborhood fashion. They're always open and offer day passes if you want to join in on the fun.
The Canyon Club Hotel is the only gay men's resort in Downtown Palm Springs and it's a good choice if you're looking for more affordable rates too. They've got a saltwater pool, 16-man spa, and a garden oasis hedge maze for more secluded fun.
CCBC (Cathedral City Boys’ Club) Resort is the largest clothing optional Gay men’s resort in the Coachella Valley, located in the heart of Cat City. They are open 24/7 with a regular variety of special events, like CUMUNION sex parties and male bonding pop-up events, and even offer day (and night) passes for those who just wanna have a little fun.
Introducing Descanso – the first men’s resort to open in Palm Springs in over ten years. From the the guys who brought us Santiago Resort, it’s a newly reimagined blend of luxurious Hollywood Moderne meets California garden greenery.
In the center of Warm Sands, the Desert Paradise Resort hosts a large saltwater pool, newly expanded jacuzzi spa, steam and sauna rooms, romantic fire pit, and outdoor garden shower. Consider it your paradise in the desert.
Since 1975, El Mirasol Villas has been a destination resort for Gay Men in Palm Springs. Located in the Warm Sands neighborhood, its only blocks away from downtown.
The Hacienda is a popular and stylishly spacious gay resort in the heart of Warm Sands, Palm Springs’ gay Mecca.
25 years strong, Inndulge is a popular clothing-optional resort in Palm Springs, featuring a 12-man 24-hr jacuzzi and a 24-hour heated salt water pool. They've also got an enticing video collection on their website to help you with your first clothing-optional experience.
Santiago Resort is an intimate luxury getaway where gay men can rediscover the bliss of completely giving into the moment. This popular clothing-optional resort has a salt water pool – and for those who have yet to experience a salt water (saline) pool, you're in for real treat.
One of the top Gay Resorts in Palm Springs, the Triangle Inn offers sun-drenched tropical gardens and breathtaking mountain views for any experience – romantic and relaxing to fun and frisky.
From the same guys who brought us Santiago Resort, and the freshly minted Descanso Resort, Twin Palms Resort is the newest kid on the block. It’s a mid-century-made-modern experience draped in luxury and timeless style. And if it's anything like its brothers, it's sure to be a new favorite men’s resort in town.
Vista Grande Resort is a premium clothing optional gay men’s resort in Palm Springs, featuring 2 swimming pools, a hot tub, dry sauna, spacious steam room, and breathtaking waterfalls.
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Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs
Every bar in Palm Springs is a gay bar as far as we're concerned. That's the beauty of a town that caters to the gay experience, so no matter where we go here in Palm Springs, we're free to be who we are without question…
Every bar in Palm Springs is a gay bar as far as we're concerned. That's the beauty of a town that caters to the gay experience, so no matter where we go here in Palm Springs, we're free to be who we are without question.
The Arenas district is the gayborhood epicenter of all things Gay Palm Springs. And while there's plenty of fun to be had in the Arenas, there's even more fun to be had all over Palm Springs and Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
That said, even Stefan from SNL is excited about Palm Springs hottest night clubs, so here is the Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs in our opinion (in alphabetical order)...
AMP Sports Lounge's comfy Pink velvet benches sports a casual and festive atmosphere (see what I did there?). From sports wear to drag wear, everyone is welcome at AMP in Cat City.
Hosting the world’s most-attended Sunday Beer Bust and popular leather/kink events, Cat City's Barracks wildly popular leather & gear bar is as cruisy and boozy as they come.
Bar Cecil celebrate those who follow the beat to their own drum with an asthetic as creative and inspiring as their food and cocktails.
Winner of Desert Sun's Best Restaurant in 2020, Blackbook is a the real "chill bar" in the Arenas district as far as we're concerned. It's sleek industrial style also features the largest whiskey selection in Palm Springs.
Located in the same space as the original Don the Beachcomber restaurant that opened in 1953, Bootlegger Tiki serves up delicious tiki cocktails in an intimate speakeasy-style setting.
Boozehounds aims to provide a friendly environment for both canines and their humans. By day, they are a coffee, co-working, and lunch spot. By night, they are a perfect happy hour and dinner destination for the whole family.
The coolest (pun fully intended) gay bar and dance club here in Palm Springs, Chill Bar is another staple gay-borhood bar in our beloved Arenas district, featuring drag bingo, go-go boys, and our favotie disco-ball male statues (featured on The Palm Springs Guys website)!
Dead or Alive is an independent local beer and wine bar with an interior space that will have you wondering... "Am I dead or am I alive?" Go see for yourself, and you'll see why the owner Christine is as bad-ass as her wine selections.
The Eagle Bar wants you to cruise heavy, drink up, have a blast, get horny, find a ride, and come back for more. It's right in the Arenas district too.
Hunters is Palm Springs’ go-to gay bar and dance club fun for 20 years now. Featuring the longest happy hour in all the Valley, Hunters serves up drag shows, karaoke, and Djs that keep the dance floor pumping (loudly!) right in the Arenas district.
Formerly Studio One 11, One Eleven Bar has everything you need to enjoy a cocktail with old friends and then a second with new ones. They've got weekly drag shows, karaoke, and live local entertainment (they've even got a grand piano they wheel onto the stage). Always free and always a good time, One Eleven is our favorite bar in Cat City!
Oscar's has everything from dancing to live dinner entertainment in the heart of downtown Palm Springs. From drag brunch, to celebrity evening-with shows, to Oscar's signature T-Dance on Sundays, there's something for every gay!
PS Air Bar is a fun Airline-themed speakeasy inside the Bouschet wine store, featuring cocktails, dinner, naught flight attendants, and live entertainment on the weekends. You know we love a good theme bar!
Honoring the Rat Pack era, Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show!, a parody of the great icons of the 60s.
This is our kind of "sports bar" because Quadz is a TV bar showing popular, classic & obscure music video clips that gay men just LOVE to sing along to in the Arenas district!
With plenty of atmosphere for all patrons “to roost,” the Roost Lounge in Cat City is a another friendly neighborhood gay bar with ongoing entertainment and karaoke.
Open since 1991, Streetbar is a neighborhood bar attracting locals and tourists. They specialize in Cabaret, Karaoke, and the strongest (cash-only) drinks on the block (but you didn't hear it from us)!
The only leather and Levi bar in Palm Springs, the Tool Shed serves up daily happy hours, heavy cruising, and fun theme nights like their signature Thursday night "Underwear Nights" in the Warm Sands district.
Formerly DIGS, Trunks has everything from country dancing to drag shows, Trunks Bar is where the spirits are high and the prices are low.
This mid-century lounge serves up boutique California wines, craft beers, and throwback cocktails. It's also a favorite destination for live music and drag performances, like Ross Mathew's "Dragtastic Bubbly Brunch".
Is Palm Springs Flirty or Dirty?
Is Palm Springs Flirty or Dirty? The short answer is both (and everything else you can and can't even imagine in between)! Everyone is here in Palm Springs for a good reason. Whether you've decided to retire here, vacation here, live here part-time or full-time, Palm Springs is a treasured destination for so many people. Everyone is here because they want to be – and that's a recipe for people who are a lot more pleasant to be around than the average community. Since gay men are practically the majority here at this point, there's a lot of fun to be had in the modern gay desert…
Is Palm Springs Flirty or Dirty? The short answer is both (and everything else you can and can't even imagine in between)! Read on, boys...
Everyone is here in Palm Springs for a good reason. Whether you've decided to retire here, vacation here, live here part-time or full-time, Palm Springs is a treasured destination for so many people. Everyone is here because they want to be – and that's a recipe for people who are a lot more pleasant to be around than the average community. Since gay men are practically the majority here at this point, there's a lot of fun to be had in the modern gay desert.
When a gay friend comes to Palm Springs for the first time, wondering what to do first, I like to ask, "Do you want something flirty or dirty?" In my experience, there is no third option. Everyone is excited to be here and eager to engage with what makes Palm Springs so special and unique. This inherent openness creates an ever-flirtatious dynamic all around – especially between gay men – that is as harmless as it is enticing.
Everyone flirts in Palm Springs. Drag queens flirt with you during at Ross Mathews Dragtastic Bubbly Brunch at V Wine Lounge. Store clerks flirt with you at GayMart USA as they help you pick out your new swimwear. You can flirt with the other boys in the pool at your clothing-optional resort. You can flirt with your waiter while you're having dinner at Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge. You can flirt with your bartenders at Hunters Palm Springs and all the boys along the way when you're barhopping throughout the Arenas District after dinner. And you can even flirt with the baristas at Koffi the next morning.
I've also quickly learned never to assume anything in this town. For instance, it seems to me that if you're a gay couple in Palm Springs, you are in some sort of open relationship unless proven otherwise (at least for the long weekend). That's the line where flirty meets dirty in my book because depending on the "vibe" of things, the new friends you just met 5 minutes ago sitting at the bar at Blackbook (my personal favorite social bar) might just invite you over to their place later that night to enjoy some more cocktails and naked pool time in their salt water saline pool. Did somebody say cock(tails)?
It's just as easy for flirty to go dirty should you choose. Palm Springs has over twenty (20) LGBTQIA+ resorts and guest houses, and at least 14 of them are gay clothing-optional resorts. Some of these clothing-optional resorts also offer day passes for men only, like All Worlds Resort in Palm Springs and CCBC Resort Hotel in Cathedral City (aka "Cat City" as the locals refer to it). Day passes (also available at night) at clothing-optional resorts for men only are the greater Palm Springs version of a gay bathhouse experience.
Of course, there's also some dirty fun to be had on the side here and there, like at the Barracks in Cat City or the Tool Shed in Palm Springs. They both host a variety of themed nights, like "Underwear Night" (Wednesday's at the Barracks and Thursdays at the Tool Shed), where anything goes after enough drinking, flirting, and jock-strap eye-candy everywhere.
So the next time you're here in Palm Springs, do you want it flirty or dirty? I suggest you start with flirty and then see where things go from there. Either way, just get into it. Embrace it. Openness and sex-positivity is the heartbeat of connecting with new people out here. And in a town this vibrant with affluent professionals, creative influencers, and fellow gays from all walks of life, you never know who you're going to meet next and how they might shape your life for the better.
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