Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs
Indulge in ultimate relaxation at the top gay men's spas in Palm Springs. Rejuvenate with luxurious treatments, stunning settings, and the best places to unwind in desert paradise. We are a gay man’s guide to living your best gay life in Palm Springs.
Palm Springs is the ultimate desert oasis for gay men seeking fun, relaxation, and fun. Whether you're planning a weekend getaway or a longer retreat, there are so many gay men's spas and resorts to help you unwind that our fabulous city has to offer. Palm Springs is known for its warm weather, endless sunshine, stunning landscapes, and welcoming atmosphere. We’ve got a variety of luxurious spa and massage experiences for everyone under the sun – and lucky for us, many of them cater specifically to gay men.
What are your favorite spas and resorts for gay men here in Palm Springs?
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In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Gay Men's Spas in Palm Springs!
But first… Spa and Massage Etiquette
It’s important you understand the spectrum of experiences here in Gay Palm Springs when you’re getting pampered. Some say that anything goes here, but don’t just assume that because your massage therapist (for example) is super hot and his touch is even hotter that your massage will result in a happy ending. Just as is the case in cruising culture, you must always carry a mutual respect with everyone you come into contact with. Massage services are professional services. Of course, every “professional” has rules of their own, but always assume you are in good professional hands and be careful not to cross any lines. Now, just take a deep breath in… And relax ;)
Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Men's Wellness Retreat
Palm Springs Men's Wellness Retreat is an exclusive massage spa designed by men for men located in downtown Palm Springs. It offers peaceful private treatment rooms as well as an upscale wet room with a table shower. Luxury products including coconut oil, wine scrubs, milk scrubs, and professional large size massage tables for additional comfort are part of their services. They also offer their services at the most competitive rates in downtown Palm Springs.
Men's Grooming Spot
The only complete men’s spa in the Coachella Valley, Men's Grooming Spot is the destination for men to relax, recoup, renew, and just be. Their spa services are specialized to provide men with a well-rounded experience, ensuring that every visit is a pampering one.
Palm Springs Gay Massage
Pamper yourself with a soothing and rejuvenating massage at Palm Springs Gay Massage. Services include massage therapy, Swedish massage, deep tissue massage, and sensual massage to soothe tight muscles and relieve stress. They also offer same-day appointments and gay massage services seven days a week.
Gay Wellness
Gay Wellness is an online platform that connects clients with quality gay massage therapists and wellness practitioners. More than just a directory, Gay Wellness is a hub for connection and wellness in a friendly, safe, and inclusive environment.
Top Gay Saunas and Bathhouses in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Palm Springs is a unique destination when it comes to its sex-positive offerings. You won’t find traditional gay bathhouses or gay saunas here (yet) like you might find in bigger cities. Instead, these types of amenities and play areas are infused into our many fabulous boutique resorts for men-only – all of which are clothing-optional (aka swimsuit-optional), and some of which even offer day passes and night passes for those who are more interested to play vs. stay (keep reading)…
That said, it’s worth a pit-stop at CLUB541 – Palm Springs’ newest (and hottest) sex club. It’s the ultimate playground for gay men seeking a thrilling, sex-positive adventure when the sun goes down. Check out our CLUB541: Discover Palm Springs' Newest Sex Club article to learn more about it.
Top Spa Resorts in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Santiago Resort
Located in the heart of Palm Springs, Santiago Resort is an exclusive boutique hotel for gay men. Staying at Santiago feels like a never ending spa day. The resort's serene atmosphere and top-notch service make it a must-visit for those looking to unwind in luxury. Check out their brother properties Twin Palms Resort and Descanso Resort for an equally pampered and luxurious stay.
The Hacienda at Warm Sands
This dreamy gay resort is landscaped with palms and backed by the stunning San Jacinto Mountains. The Hacienda offers a tranquil spa experience designed to help you unwind and relax. It's the perfect spot for those seeking a peaceful retreat.
Desert Paradise Gay Men’s Resort
Desert Paradise is aptly named, offering a wonderful escape with excellent spa-like amenities. Guests rave about the superb staff and the relaxing pool area, making it a perfect destination for those looking to unwind in comfort and style.
CCBC Resort Hotel
CCBC Resort Hotel is more than just a place to stay and play – it's an experience. This all-men’s resort features spa-like amenities and play areas. The resort's cruisy social scene and relaxing atmosphere make it a must-visit for any curious gay traveler. They even offer day passes.
All Worlds Resort
Known for its cruisy vibe and welcoming community, All Worlds Resort also offers spa-like amenities and both indoor and outdoor maze play areas. They offer day passes as well, so be sure to check things out at your leisure.
Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Everyone
The Spa at Séc-he
Recognized as the top spa in the U.S. for 2023, The Spa at Séc-he is a premier spa complex spanning over 73,000 square feet, renowned for its state-of-the-art treatments and therapies in a tranquil environment. It features 15 treatment rooms offering massages, facials, and body treatments, ensuring a holistic spa experience. Located at the Agua Caliente Cultural Plaza in the heart of Palm Springs, the spa blends rich heritage with healing treatments and luxurious amenities, including men's and women's bathhouses, a salon, fitness room, and outdoor mineral pools.
The Spa at Colony Palms
If you love a good White Lotus aesthetic as much as we do, The Spa at Colony Palms is a delightful sanctuary that will make you feel like you’re on set with Jennifer Cooliage. They offer luxurious treatments to relax your muscles, purify your body, and rejuvenate your spirit. Their spa menu includes a wide range of restorative massages, invigorating body wraps, and refreshing facials. Utilizing contemporary therapies, their holistic treatments are crafted to provide a tranquil experience and invigorate the senses. They carefully select natural, organic tools and products to ensure an exceptional experience.
Azure Palm Hot Springs Resort & Day Spa
Located just outside of town, Azure is a newer place to experience the desert’s legendary restorative hot springs. The star of this modern adults-only facility is the oversized outdoor pool filled with warm, soft, and odorless mineral water, plus two indoor and two outdoor spa pools naturally heated to different temperatures. Purchase a day pass to enjoy the spring-fed pools, cedar sauna, and relaxing lounging areas. Book a reasonably priced massage or mud wrap and receive complimentary admission to the mineral pools for the day of your treatment.
Come Visit Us in Gay Palm Springs
Visiting Gay Palm Springs is a fabulous idea for countless reasons. With year-round sunshine, a rich cultural scene, and a welcoming community, it's the perfect destination for making new friends and lasting connections. Whether you're here for the spas, the nightlife, or the stunning desert landscapes, Palm Springs offers something for every gay traveler. So pack your bags, book your spa appointments, and get ready to relax and rejuvenate in one of the most vibrant and inclusive destinations in the world.
Your Ultimate 2024 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (April-December)
Your ultimate gay getaway guide to 2024's top LGBT+ events in Palm Springs from April-December. From drag balls to art symposiums, discover why this desert oasis is the perfect playground for every gay man.
Welcome to Palm Springs! The LGBT+ scene is on fire in 2024, making it the ultimate playground for gay men once again. If you’re seeking the perfect blend of culture, party, and relaxation, Palm Springs is the place to be – where the events are as diverse as our fabulous community itself.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!
In the meantime, here’s your ultimate 2024 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (April-December)…
April 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Apr 11: Play Time: Private Jazz Concert at Eldorado / Artful Event – Jazz under the stars in one of Palm Springs' most enchanting locations? Yes, please! This event mixes art, music, and the magic of the desert for an unforgettable evening.
Apr 12-14 & Apr 19-21: Coachella Weekend 1 & 2 – Need we say more? The festival that everyone's Instagram feed dreams of, featuring an eclectic mix of music, art, and fashion. It's where the desert becomes a canvas for the arts.
Apr 13: World Art Day Festival – Celebrate art in all its forms, from painting and sculpture to digital and performance art, in a festival that spans the vibrant streets of Palm Springs.
Apr 13: Coming OUTdoors - Hike & Mixer in the High Desert – Combine the beauty of nature with the joy of meeting new people in this unique event that takes you on a scenic hike followed by a mixer.
Apr 14: Twice Blessed: An Afternoon Cabaret – A cabaret afternoon with a twist, showcasing talent from within our community in a cozy, intimate setting.
Apr 15: Idyllwild Art in Society's 7th Annual Symposium – Engage with art on a deeper level in the serene setting of Idyllwild, where thinkers, creators, and enthusiasts come together.
Apr 20-21: Modern Men Chorus: Greatest Hits – The local chorus group that has been touching hearts and eardrums alike brings you a compilation of their greatest hits.
Apr 21: Cocktail Party at Frank Sinatra's Twin Palms Estate – Sip cocktails at the legendary Twin Palms Estate, once home to Frank Sinatra, in a night that promises elegance, nostalgia, and perhaps a little crooning.
Apr 25: DAP Health, Dining Out for Life 2024 – Dine out, do good. Participating restaurants donate a portion of their proceeds to support DAP Health, so you can help the community simply by enjoying a delicious meal.
Apr 24-26: Stagecoach 2024 – The country music festival that's a little bit rock n' roll and a whole lot of fun. Dust off your cowboy boots and get ready to line dance under the desert sky.
Apr 25-28: Defying Gravity with Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus – A musical journey that promises to lift your spirits and perhaps even your feet off the ground.
Apr 26: Revivals After Dark / Back Alley Event – A night market like no other, blending art, fashion, and music in a setting that's as unexpected as it is thrilling.
Apr 27: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
April 28: International Jazz Day – Celebrate the universal language of jazz with performances that span the genre's rich history and its bright future.
May 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
May 1: Rock the Park - WANTED: A Tribute to Bon Jovi – Channel your inner rock star at this electrifying tribute concert. Sing your heart out to "Livin' on a Prayer" under the stars and feel the energy of live music bringing people together.
May 4: Beethoven & Friends / Desert Winds Freedom Band – An evening of classical music with a modern twist, showcasing the talents of the Desert Winds Freedom Band. It's a perfect blend of history and harmony.
May 3-5: Artworks: Theatre Fest 2024 / Desert Theatreworks – Dive into the world of theater with this festival showcasing local playwrights, directors, and actors. From comedy to drama, there's a story for everyone.
May 9: Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast 2024 – Start your day with inspiration at this breakfast honoring the legacy of Harvey Milk. It's an event that celebrates diversity, courage, and the ongoing fight for equality.
May 15: Momentum: a Concert by Modern Men's Chorus – Experience the power of voices united in song. The Modern Men's Chorus presents an evening of music that promises to inspire and move you.
May 17-18: Tag Team (Bears & Cumunion Collide): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
May 24-27: Desertopia Memorial Day Weekend 2024 – Kick off the summer with a bang at Desertopia, a weekend-long celebration of LGBTQIA+ pride, culture, and community. Expect parties, performances, and plenty of poolside fun.
May 31: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
June 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
June 1: Sarah McLachlan at Acrisure Arena – Fumbling Towards Ecstasy 30th Anniversary Tour, with special guest Feist.
June 4: Janet Jackson at Acrisure Arena – Together Again Tour, with special guest Nelly.
June 18-24: Palm Springs International ShortFest 2024 – Celebrate the art of short filmmaking at this renowned festival. With screenings, panels, and workshops, it's a cinephile's dream come true.
June 28: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
June 29: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
June 29: Equality Wine Fest – Sip, savor, and support equality at this exquisite wine festival. Featuring selections from LGBTQIA+-friendly wineries, it's a taste of the good life, all for a good cause.
July 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
July 4-6: Dadfest – Dadfest is a celebration of, you guessed it, daddies! Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
July 5: New Kids On The Block at Acrisure Arena – With special guests Paula Abdul and DJ Jazzy Jeff.
July 19: Jennifer Lopez at Acrisure Arena – This Is Me Tour.
July 19-21: Gay Wine Weekend 2024 – Continue your vinicultural voyage with a weekend dedicated to the finer things in life. Wine tastings, vineyard tours, and elegant dinners await in this oenophile's oasis.
June 20-22: Heatwave 2024 – Western Xposure is a sex-positive bear party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
July 21: Palm Springs Lip Sync Contest – Let your inner diva shine at this uproarious event. Whether you're channeling Cher or channeling your best Madonna, it's your time to lip-sync for your legacy.
July 26: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
July 27: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
August 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Aug 8: Alanis Morissette at Acrisure Arena – The Triple Moon Tour, with special guests Joan Jett and the Blackhearts and Morgan Wade.
Aug 8-11/16-18: Splash House 2024 – The ultimate summer pool party is back, blending the heat of the desert with cool beats and even cooler drinks. It's where music, swimming, and dancing create the perfect summer vibe.
Aug 16: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
Aug17: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
September 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Sept 6: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
Sept 7: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Sept 21: Art In the Park in the Dark – Experience art like never before in this unique nighttime event. As darkness falls, the park comes alive with illuminated installations, live performances, and an atmosphere of mystery and wonder.
October 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Oct 10-12: The Haunted Gay Resort – Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Oct 17-19: Raise Some Hell – Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
November 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Nov. 1-3: Palm Springs Pride 2024 – Cap off the year with Palm Springs Pride, the pinnacle of LGBTQIA+ celebrations. With parades, parties, and performances, it's a festival of love, acceptance, and fabulousness that draws together the community from far and wide.
Nov 8: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
Nov 9: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
December 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs
Dec 6: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.
Dec 7: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
Why Palm Springs?
Aside from the year-round sunshine and the backdrop that looks like a constant Instagram filter, Palm Springs is a place where you can truly be yourself. It's a community that welcomes everyone with open arms and a cold cocktail. Making friends is as easy as stepping out your door, and forming lasting connections happens as quickly and naturally as the desert blooms after a rain. Whether you're here for the art, the parties, or the peace of mind, you'll find your tribe in Palm Springs.
So, pack your bags, bring your short-shorts, and prepare for a vacation that's anything but ordinary. Palm Springs is where every gay man's travel dreams are set to come true. See you soon in the desert!
CLUB541: Discover Palm Springs' Newest Sex Club
Cum check out Palm Springs' latest gem, CLUB541 – the ultimate playground for gay men seeking a thrilling, sex-positive adventure in the heart of the desert.
Welcome to Gay Palm Springs, where the days are hot, and the nights are even hotter – especially now with the opening of CLUB541, Palm Springs newest sex club (or “gay men’s private social club” if you like).
This desert oasis, long celebrated as a safe-haven for men who love men, just leveled up its game. While Palm Springs always promises a complete liberation of your senses, CLUB541 takes it even further for you as Palm Springs' newest nocturnal playground, exclusively for men who want to explore the depths of their fantasies.
CLUB541: A New Wave of Sex-Positivity in Palm Springs
Palm Springs is a unique gem indeed, and it’s mostly known for its clothing-optional resorts offering a spectrum of different vibes, from mild to wild. Some have more of a "bathhouse" feel with play areas, such as The Canyon Club, All Worlds Resort, and CCBC in Cathedral City, while others have a more laid-back vibe, like Twin Palms and Descanso.
Gay men can usually expect to find more traditional bathhouses and sex clubs for men-only when they’re traveling in bigger cities. That hasn't been the case here in Palm Springs. Of course, there’s always fun to be had around every corner, but CLUB541, situated at 541 E Industrial Pl, Palm Springs, CA 92264, has carved out its unique niche as the first real "sex club" in the greater Palm Springs area and the only one dedicated exclusively to men in the Coachella Valley. It’s also walkable from the Tool Shed and several men-only hotels like Santiago.
Safety First
Brought to us by the guys behind The Slammer in Los Angeles, CLUB541 is also about creating a safe space where men can meet, unwind, and indulge in their fantasies with freedom and respect. They want you to have fun, but they highly value the health, privacy and safety of their clientele, respecting all local laws and their neighbors. When visiting CLUB541 they expect that you will too. And if you have any doubts after any sexual encounters visiting CLUB541, please check out our Get Tested, Stay Fabulous: Your Ultimate Guide to STI and HIV Testing in Palm Springs article!
CLUB541’s Enticing Offer
Open from Thursday & Friday: 7pm-4am, and Saturday & Sunday: 4pm-4am, CLUB541 invites you in with an enticing grand opening rate of just $15. There's currently no membership required, and you'll get in-and-out privileges all evening with paid entrance.
Add $2 to the fee if you'd like a clothing check, but most guys seem to like to keep their clothes on from what I've seen so far. That said, be sure to wear something sexy and bold – from leather gear to minimalistic layers, or whatever you might wear to local hotspots like the Tool Shed or the Barracks in Cathedral City.
A Peek Inside CLUB541
Much like its brother (The Slammer in LA), CLUB541 is where men can play hard and raunchy in a hyper-masculine environment. CLUB541 is a zone of hot sexual energy, where every turn offers a new possibility. While the club itself is more intimate than some other sex clubs and bathhouses I've been to, CLUB541 has a little of everything – private rooms with glory holes, a sling room, a dark room, and even a "suckatorium" that you can cruise your way along through (or situate yourself within). The club's ambiance is a blend of dark, minimal aesthetics with red-light district vibes, complemented by Tom of Finland's iconic imagery throughout.
Cum check them out
Palm Springs isn't just a place to visit; it's a lifestyle for gay men. Its year-round sun, LGBTQ+ cultural vibrancy, and welcoming atmosphere make it a magnet for gay men looking to forge new connections and create unforgettable memories. In Palm Springs, every moment is an opportunity to meet someone new, to experience something different. CLUB541 is a new chapter in the ongoing story of Gay Palm Springs – a story of freedom, fun, and the unapologetic celebration of who we are.