The Top Five 2023 Summer Pool Parties in Gay Palm Springs
Looking for a sizzling summer getaway? Check out the top five pool parties in gay Palm Springs! Experience legendary events, splash under the sun, and create unforgettable memories.
Welcome to the desert oasis that is Gay Palm Springs – where the sun shines bright, the mountains tower in the distance, and the pool parties are legendary. For gay men seeking an unforgettable summer vacation, Palm Springs is the ultimate destination. With its vibrant LGBTQ+ community, breathtaking landscapes, and an exciting lineup of pool parties this summer, this desert paradise offers an escape like no other.
Get your sunglasses ready and let's dive into the Top Five 2023 Summer Pool Parties in Gay Palm Springs!
BOYZ NIGHT OUT
Date: Starting Friday, May 26, 2023 (and then every Friday night thereafter)
Time: 4:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Location: Hotel Zoso, 150 S Indian Canyon Dr. Palm Springs, CA 92262
Host: Zoso Fun
Website: https://www.facebook.com/zosofun
Price: Free event (no cover)
About: Every Friday night starting May 26, 2023, the iconic Hotel Zoso becomes the playground for BOYZ NIGHT OUT, hosted by the fabulous Snatch. This legendary pool party and happy hour extravaganza features Go-Go boys, pop-up drag events, and K-Gay's own DJ Galaxy spinning infectious beats. Immerse yourself in the vibrant atmosphere, sip on delightful cocktails, and enjoy awesome drink specials. Join the fun from 4 to 8 pm!
Sun Vibes
Date: Saturday, May 27, 2023
Time: 11:00 am - 6:00 pm
Location: Margaritaville Resort, 1600 N Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262
Host: Le Parties
Website: https://leparties.com/event/sunvibes-pool-party-palm-springs
Price: $20
About: On Saturday, May 27, 2023, prepare to be swept away by Sun Vibes at the Margaritaville Resort. This pool party, hosted by Le Parties, takes place from 11 am to 6 pm and promises a day of non-stop dancing and sun-kissed bliss. With colorful decorations, luxurious cabanas, and premium daybeds, the pool area transforms into a paradise. Cool off with refreshing drinks and let the rhythm move you as you revel in the beauty of Palm Springs.
PLUNGE 2
Date: Saturday, Jun 10, 2023
Time: 12:00 PM - 5:00 PM
Location: CCBC, 68300 Gay Resort Drive, Cathedral City, CA 92234
Host: Palm Springs Leather Order of The Desert
Website: https://www.pslod.org/plunge
Price: Starts at $45
About: The Palm Springs Leather Order of The Desert invites you to experience "A (Really) Different Kind of Pool Party" at PLUNGE 2. Taking place on Saturday, June 10, 2023, at CCBC, this event is not to be missed. Dance to the beats of Palm Springs' top DJ Peter Barona and explore the completely refurbished play space, featuring new slings and benches by JimSupport. Start your summer with a bang and indulge in all the fun and frolic you can handle!
FOAM PARTY: Poolside Pleasures
Date: August 25 - August 27, 2023
Time: August 25 · 10am - August 27 · 7pm
Location: CCBC, 68300 Gay Resort Drive, Cathedral City, CA 92234
Host: Xposure Events
Website: https://www.westernxposure.net/foamparty
Price: Starts at $60.00
About: From August 25 to August 27, 2023, CCBC Resort heats up with the Bear Naked Weekend's FOAM PARTY. Get ready for day and night pool parties, DJ Marcos Moreno spinning tunes, and, of course, foam parties all day on Saturday. This clothing-optional weekend hosted by Xposure Events promises a wet and wild time. Dive into the refreshing pools, mingle with fellow partygoers, and let loose with Big Dipper & Meatball!
Splash House
Dates: June 9 - 11, August 11 - 13, August 18 - 20
Times: TBD
Locations: MARGARITAVILLE, RENAISSANCE, SAGUARO & AIR MUSEUM
Host: Splash House
Website: https://splashhouse.com
Price: Starting at $34
About: Get ready for the ultimate summer festival experience at Splash House, taking place on June 9-11, August 11-13, and August 18-20. This multi-weekend extravaganza happens across three hotel resorts: Margaritaville, Renaissance, Saguaro & Air Museum. Each resort boasts a poolside stage, rooms, and balconies that become part of the fun. And as the desert day fades into night, the After Hours series kicks in, offering unforgettable dance parties under the stars at the Palm Springs Air Museum.
Palm Springs invites you to escape the ordinary and embrace the extraordinary. With its vibrant LGBTQ+ community, stunning landscapes, and an array of unforgettable pool parties, this desert oasis is the perfect destination for gay men seeking a sizzling summer getaway.
White Party Palm Springs 2023: The Ultimate Dance Music Gaycation
Discover White Party Palm Springs 2023, the ultimate dance music gaycation destination for gay men looking for a sizzling, fun-filled getaway. Immerse yourself in a weekend of non-stop parties, glamor, and entertainment in Palm Springs California!
White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global
If you're seeking the ultimate dance music gaycation experience, look no further than White Party Palm Springs 2023! This iconic event is the top shelf of gay parties – and there's nowhere else quite like Palm Springs for gay men looking to have a fantastic vacation getaway.
This year's White Party Palm Springs promises a weekend full of sizzling events, and you won't want to miss a (dance) beat. Here's a rundown of White Party Palm Springs 2023 events (and keep scrolling the schedule-at-a-glance breakdown below)...
White Party Global’s got a star-studded lineup of dance music legends set to grace the stage at this year's event, turning the weekend into the ultimate dance music oasis this year.
From May 12-14, the desert will come alive with the electrifying vocals of powerhouse performers Robin S, CeCe Peniston, Inaya Day, and Crystal Waters, all taking the stage at the world-famous White Party T-Dance on May 14th. As Chris Diamond, Executive Producer of White Party Global, puts it, "This year, we are honored to have four legendary house divas grace our stage and create an unforgettable experience for our attendees.”
With iconic hits like Robin S's "Show Me Love," CeCe Peniston's "Finally," Inaya Day's "Nasty Girl," and Crystal Waters' "Gypsy Woman (She's Homeless)," this lineup is a dream come true for house music lovers. As the divas themselves have expressed, the resurgence of house music and its influence on today's artists is a testament to the genre's enduring appeal and ability to bring people together on the dance floor.
Paula Abdul - White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global
On Friday night, the stage will be set on fire by singer-songwriter and queer performer VINCINT, who will bring his powerhouse voice and infectious energy to the FLUIDITY event. He'll be joined by the legendary Kevin Aviance and the opulent, Broadway-style production of CircuitMOM.
Prepare to get SOAKED with pool parties throughout the weekend at the Hilton Hotel, featuring an array of talented DJs, including Jeremy Dava, Marti Frieson, Liza Rodriguez, Jace M, and CircuitMOM herself on Sunday for a special CircuitMOTHER's Day extravaganza.
And let's not forget the main events: Saturday night's WHITEOUT at the PS Convention Center, with DJs Shane Marcus, Mor Avrahami, and GSP; Sunday's ORBIT T-Dance at the White Party Park, featuring DJs Dawna Montell, Manny Lehman, and Tony Moran; and finally, the ESCAPE Closing Party with DJs Phil Romano and Micky Friedmann.
Now, here’s a handy schedule-at-a-glance breakdown for your dance-fueled weekend:
"SOAKED! Pool Party"
Date: Friday, May 12, 2023
Time: 12pm – 6pm
Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area
Featuring: DJ Jeremy Dava and DJ Marti Frieson
"FLUIDITY"
Date: Friday, May 12, 2023
Time: 9pm – 4am
Location: Palm Springs Convention Center
Featuring: VINCINT, DJ Dan Slater, and DJ Tom Stephan
"SOAKED! Pool Party" (Day Two)
Date: Saturday, May 13, 2023
Time: 11am -7pm
Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area
Featuring: DJ Liza Rodriguez and DJ Jace M
"WHITEOUT"
Date: Saturday, May 13, 2023
Time: 9pm – 4am
Location: PS Convention Center
Featuring: DJ Shane Marcus, DJ Mor Avrahami, and DJ GSP
CircuitMOTHER’s Day "SOAKED! Pool Party"
Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023
Time: 11am – 4pm
Location: Hilton Hotel Outdoor Pool Area
Featuring: CircuitMOM and DJ Nick Stracener
"ORBIT - T-Dance"
Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023
Time: 3pm – 10pm
Location: White Party Park (1077 East Amado Road, across from PS Convention Center)
Featuring: DJ Dawna Montell, DJ Manny Lehman, and DJ Tony Moran
"ESCAPE" Closing Party
Date: Sunday, May 14, 2023
Time: 10pm – 4am
Location: PS Convention Center
Featuring: DJ Phil Romano and DJ Micky Friedmann
White Party 2022 - Photo by Brian T - Image Provided by White Party Global
Now that you've got the schedule, it's time to start planning your outfits! Each event promises its own flavor of fabulous, and we can't wait to see what you'll bring to the party.
With such a stellar lineup, this year's White Party Palm Springs is shaping up to be an unforgettable weekend of music, celebration, and connection. For more information on event details, passes, and accommodations, visit www.whitepartyglobal.com and follow White Party Global on Instagram and Facebook.
Get Tested, Stay Fabulous: Your Ultimate Guide to STI and HIV Testing in Palm Springs
Welcome to Palm Springs, handsome! It’s a sun-drenched playground for gay men from all over the world. With its iconic mid-century modern architecture, stunning desert landscapes, and thriving LGBTQ+ scene, there's nowhere else quite like it.
As we let our hair down and indulge in the fun there is to be had here, it's crucial to be responsible and stay on top of our sexual health. After all, nothing ruins a fabulous vacation like worrying about STIs or HIV, right? So let's dive into the easiest local clinics in Palm Springs for STI and HIV testing.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you think it’s important to include)!
In the meantime, here are two of the top clinics to keep you feeling clear and worry-free during your Palm Springs getaway:
1. Palm Springs TEST
Offers free, confidential, and rapid testing for HIV, Hepatitis C, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia
Walk-ins welcome; no appointment necessary
Hours: Monday-Friday, 8:30 am-4:30 pm
Location: 140 N. Luring Drive. Suite D, Palm Springs, CA 92262
Phone: (760) 299-6487
2. DAP Health
Provides testing and treatment for HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia
Offers same-day appointments and accepts most insurance plans
Hours: Monday-Friday, 8:00 am-5:00 pm
Location: 1695 N. Sunrise Way, Palm Springs, CA 92262
Phone: (760) 992-0492
Now let's compare these fabulous clinics:
Palm Springs TEST was founded as the first FREE clinic in Riverside County to test and treat sexually transmitted infections, and they are free of charge for everyone.
Palm Springs TEST offers free testing, while DAP Health accepts most insurance plans.
DAP Health offers a wider range of testing options, including Gonorrhea and Chlamydia testing, in addition to HIV, Syphilis, and Hepatitis C testing available at Palm Springs TEST.
Palm Springs TEST tests and treats Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia. They do rapid testing (but do not treat) HIV, Hep C. They do not provide PEP.
While all tests are handled at the facility, Palm Springs TEST requires outside lab work in order to test for Syphilis. There are several LabCorp locations in the area available for walk-ins and Palm Springs TEST covers the entire cost.
DAP Health takes a holistic approach to sexual health, offering not just testing and treatment, but also comprehensive care, support, and prevention services tailored to the individual's needs.
For those who may need financial assistance, DAP Health provides a sliding scale payment system, ensuring that everyone has access to the essential testing and treatment services they need.
Looking for even more options? Check out these online resources for additional clinics and testing opportunities:
GetTested
A comprehensive database of HIV, STI, and viral hepatitis testing services and support centers.
AIDS Healthcare Foundation
Offers free HIV testing and low-cost STI testing at numerous locations.
Planned Parenthood
Provides a range of sexual health services, including STI and HIV testing and treatment.
Palm Springs is truly the ultimate destination for gay men seeking an unforgettable vacation. With year-round sunshine, captivating cultural events, and a friendly, inclusive atmosphere, it's no wonder this desert oasis has become a mecca for LGBTQ+ travelers. And with such accessible and easy-to-navigate STI and HIV testing options, you can focus on making lasting connections with new friends, soaking up the sun, and living your best life in fabulous "Gay Palm Springs." Remember, darling, stay safe, stay healthy, and above all – stay fabulous!
April 2023: Top 5 Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley
Gay Palm Springs is where the LGBTQIA+ community knows how to party! Check out our April 2023: Top 5 Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley that are sure to make your experience in the low desert unforgettable!
If you're looking for a destination where LGBTQIA+ community knows how to have a good time, Palm Springs should definitely be at the top of your list. This desert oasis is a mecca for our vibrant gay community, with its warm climate, stunning scenery, and energetic nightlife. Whether you're looking for pool parties, music festivals, or just a good old-fashioned dance party, Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley have it all, honey.
Here are our votes for April 2023: Top 5 Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley that will surely have you spilling some tea with your squirrel friends afterward…
1. Faux Fur Ball
Date: April 1, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Air Museum
The Faux Fur Ball is an annual fundraising event benefiting the Palm Springs Animal Shelter. The event features a silent auction, raffle, live entertainment, and a fashion show featuring faux fur designs from top fashion designers. The event is a great way for our LGBTQIA+ community to help raise awareness about local animal welfare. Attendees are encouraged to wear their most fabulous faux fur outfit and enjoy a night of fun and philanthropy.
2. Sand, Stars & Guitars featuring Levi Kreis
Date: April 5, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Cultural Center
The Sand, Stars & Guitars series will feature a live performance by Grammy-winning singer and actor Levi Kreis. Levi is a Tony Award-winning actor, singer, and songwriter known for his undeniable charisma and vocal prowess. Born and raised in Oliver Springs, TN, Kreis began touring as a classical composer and songwriter by age 12. After being outed and losing opportunities with major record labels, Kreis discovered a passion for acting and landed his breakthrough role as Roger in the Broadway national tour of Rent. He went on to originate the role of Jerry Lee Lewis in Million Dollar Quartet, winning the 2010 Tony Award for Best Featured Actor in a Musical. As a singer-songwriter, Kreis has released ten albums and his music has been featured in film and television.
3. Palm Springs 85
Date: April 8, 2023
Location: Downtown Palm Springs, California
Palm Springs 85 is celebrating the 85th anniversary of Palm Springs being Incorporated April 20, 1938. Entertainment begins at noon with DJ’s and live entertainment, ending with an Elton John tribute band in the downtown park beginning at 7pm. You can even dress your pet like your favorite Hollywood celebrity for the dog costume contest. Attendees will also have the opportunity to participate in art exhibits and experience the city's unique architecture and design. We think this event will also be a great way to celebrate the LGBTQIA+ community and its rich history in Palm Springs. Don't miss out on this chance to party like it's 1938!
4. Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival
Date: April 14-16, 2023 and April 21-23, 2023
Location: Empire Polo Club, Indio
No list of events in Palm Springs would be complete without mentioning the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival. While not exclusively an LGBTQIA+ event, the festival has always been a favorite among queer music fans. With headliners like Lizzo, Harry Styles, and Billie Eilish, this year's festival promises to be one for the books. The festival takes place over two weekends at the Empire Polo Club in Indio, just a short drive from Palm Springs.
5. Stagecoach Music Festival
Date: April 28-30, 2023
Location: Empire Polo Club, Indio
If you love country music, the Stagecoach Music Festival is the perfect event for you. This three-day extravaganza, held at the same venue as Coachella, features some of the biggest names in country music, as well as up-and-coming artists. In addition to music, there are also food and drink vendors, a BBQ competition, and line dancing lessons. With an atmosphere that's both laid-back and lively, the Stagecoach Music Festival is a must-attend event for anyone who wants to experience the best in country music and festival fun.
Did we miss anything? If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you think it’s a top April 2023 event)!
For a deeper dive, check out our 2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley for the entire year (yaass, Queen)!
Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts: A Three-Way Comparison
Here’s a three-way comparison between Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts in Palm Springs, California.
Thanks to the Resorts Palm Springs group, Twin Palms Resort, Santiago Resort, and Descanso resort are a delicious trio of stylishly chic boutique hotels for men-only right here in Palm Springs.
Santiago Resort was my first gay, clothing-optional stay in Palm Springs back in 2018. Even after living in Los Angeles for five years, I’d never felt so free and pampered all at once. It changed the travel game for me – so much that I never want to stay in a resort where I have to wear clothes again. I mean, at least give me the option ;)
I was curious how the others would compare to my unforgettable Santiago experience, so I booked a little staycation at Descanso and Twin Palms to find out. Here are the results, ranging from the vibe to the cost of each one.
For a more complete list of clothing-optional gay resorts here in the Coachella Valley, check out our Best Clothing-Optional (Men-Only) Resorts in Gay Palm Springs post 🏳️🌈 😎 👬
In the meantime, here’s a three-way comparison between Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts in Palm Springs, California.
Image provided by Descanso Resort
Descanso Resort
Neighborhood
Located in the El Mirador neighborhood, Descanso Resort is nestled in the northern side of Palm Springs. It’s walkable to Palm Springs Uptown Design District, which is one of the city’s furniture design, resale, antique boutique, and vintage hot spots sprinkled along North Palm Canyon Drive. Since Palm Springs is known for its midcentury modern design, there’s plenty of inspiration nearby.
The food scene in this neighborhood hosts some of my favorite spots, like Sandfish Sushi & Whiskey and 1501 Gastropub. You can even get a sneak-peak of the Trixie Motel tucked behind 1501 if you’re curious. Check out Descanso’s “Staff Picks” section on their website for more local recommendations.
You can even borrow their complimentary bicycles if you want to explore the bike-friendly area.
Cost
Descanso features 16 spacious, beautifully furnished balcony & poolside rooms, suites, and deluxe suites. Rooms range from $200-$600 per night depending on the time of year. There’s always something going on in Palm Springs, so keep tabs on big events that might influence popularity and demand.
Vibe
Of all three Resorts Palm Springs properties, Descanso is perhaps the most relaxing and restorative option of the trio. This is partially because of the lush greenery that envelops the resort’s landscaping and garnishes the hotel walls. Its pops of modern greens and blues paints a clean, elegant white canvas that feels like a nod to old Hollywood both internally and externally. There’s a wellness vibe to Descanso that somehow feels fresh and familiar.
The Resorts Palm Springs properties prefers to use the term “swimsuit-optional” at their properties. It’s a tasteful differentiation from “clothing-optional” for this town because we have a variety of clothing-optional resorts for men-only that range the spectrum of sexual temperatures. That said, Descanso airs on the “chill” side of things. Some guests frolic in the nude while others don’t.
Throughout my stay at Descanso, the vibe was less social and more meditative. And while it was easy to make conversation and connect with other guys, the deeper need for relaxation felt like an unspoken agreement for most everyone there.
Perks
The Pamper Patrol (aka the Descanso team) also factors strongly into its restorative experience. They occasionally visit the pool, offering each guest a popsicle from a silver platter (literally and figuratively speaking) to cool off from the desert heat. Later in the day, a similar rotation offers up a tray of eucalyptus-dipped frozen washcloths, which you can drape over your face and inhale cooling vapors of.
Their 24-hour cantina is a highlight of all three properties. They are always stocked with complimentary snacks and beverages too, including the perfect Arnold Palmer and various coffee options that cater to your taste preference. In addition to their continental breakfast, guests are invited to linger by the pool for a complimentary ‘stay & splash’ poolside lunch.
Descanso’s rooms are as relaxing as their outdoor essentials. They all include king size beds, beautiful gay artwork, and poolside and/or mountain views of the ever-stunning San Jacinto Mountains.
Other perks include a hydrating heated salt water pool and outdoor spa, an outdoor mist cooling system, a poolside garden shower, communal fire pit, and on-site electric vehicle chargers. There was even a little treasure box by the bed stand containing some fun adult amenities for your (or his) pleasure.
Image provided by Santiago Resort
Santiago Resort
Neighborhood
Located in Tahquitz River Estates, Santiago is tucked in among other chic hotels & modernist architecture near the Southern bend of Palm Canyon Drive. It’s on the south side of Tahquitz Creek Channel (a popular spot both day and night).
Santiago is walkable to Townie’s Bagels Bakery & Cafe and Tool Shed – Palm Springs “original” leather and levi bar. There’s a variety of bars and restaurants just sound of of Santiago as well, such as The Purple Room, Koffi South, and King's Highway Diner.
There’s some fabulous shopping within walking distance too, like the Antique Galleries of Palm Springs, and GEAR Leather and Fetish (so you can suit up for underwear night at Tool Shed).
It’s also close to some beautiful hikes, like South Lykken Trail and Indian Canyon Trail.
Cost
Santiago features 23 beautifully spacious balcony & poolside rooms and suites. Just as its brother properties, rooms range from $200-$600 per night depending on the time of year and what’s happening that week in town.
Vibe
Santiago is the OG of the Resorts Palm Springs properties trio. It was opened in 1995 and was remodeled in 2015 with a more “Modern Ranchero” aesthetic, saturated in warm brown, orange, and red tones throughout. It’s been one of the most popular gay resorts in town ever since.
Whether you retreat to Santiago to enjoy the solitude or to be a social butterfly, you’ll definitely find your rhythm there. The social atmosphere feels more natural somehow, especially with those lingering in the saltwater pool. Perhaps it’s because Santiago has been around the longest and is attracting repeat customers from all over that makes the experience feel so welcoming. I’ve heard Santiago stories that range from mild to wild, so let your conscience be your guide ;)
Santiago is also swimsuit-optional, of course. Guests often show up to the pool area in a swimsuit and remove it once they’re comfortable enough. No matter what your comfort level, there’s no better opportunity than a judgment-free gay resort to let down your guard (or your swimsuit) and be as free as you want to be.
Perks
Just like their brother properties, Santiago’s 24-hour cantina is always stocked with complimentary beverages and snacks to enjoy. They offer a daily continental breakfast and complimentary ‘stay & splash’ poolside lunch as well.
You can marvel at more stunning views of the San Jacinto Mountains from just about anywhere on Santiago’s grounds and balcony overlooks. Every room has a king size bed, indulgent bath & beauty products, and modern, inspirational decor throughout. And, of course, there are some fun adult amenities tucked away in each bed stand.
In addition to the warm and inviting diligence of Santiago’s friendly staff, the same perks that have been infused into Descanso and Twin Palms Resorts all started here; an outdoor mist cooling system, a hydrating heated salt water pool and outdoor spa, communal fire pit, a poolside garden shower, and on-site EV chargers. Check out all their luxurious outdoor essentials list for more.
Image provided by Twin Palms Resort
Twin Palms Resort
Neighborhood
Located in Palm Springs’ first modernist neighborhood, Twin Palms Estates, is on the south side of town and closer in proximity to Santiago. Its pops of yellows, blues, and greens look as timeless and fresh in style and its modernist neighbors.
Twin Palms is a short walk to Koffi South and King’s Highway at the Ace Hotel. It’s also walkable (and bikeable) to the Smoke Tree Village which hosts eateries like Giuseppe's Pizzeria and 533 Viet Fusion. Be sure to check out Ace Hardware while you’re there too. Lovingly referred to by locals as the “Gayce,” it is perhaps the gayest hardware store you’ll ever see.
Cost
Twin Palms Resort features 20 guest rooms, including two suites. Just like Descanso and Santiago, rooms range from $200-$600 per night depending on the seasonal demand, though they are the most budget-friendly option at the moment being the new kid on the block.
Vibe
Twin Palms Resort is the Resorts Palm Springs group’s newest boutique hotel in town for men-only. It’s their first mid-century-made-modern resort, and it’s a true ode to Palm Springs modernism inside and out.
It first opened as the Brentwood Apartments in 1959 and was originally developed to blend in with its neighborhood, consisting of ninety modern tract homes designed by Palm Springs modernism architect William Krisel.
Twin Palms Resort has a more communal vibe, from its property layout to its spacious indoor and outdoor showers. Their heated salt-water pool acts as a centerpiece to its single-story rooms, all wrapping around the pool like a welcoming hug.
Its potential for new friends feels as natural as it is encouraged, where guests can seamlessly connect with each other and then go their separate ways. Time will tell what the true vibe of Twin Palms Resort will be, but it presents a beautiful foundation for all sorts of possibilities.
Perks
Twin Palms twelve-man spa is as relaxing as it is inclusive, and it faces another breathtaking view of the San Jacinto mountains. In addition to its outdoor and communal poolside showers, every room comes equipped with spacious walk-in glass showers with both rain and handheld shower heads that inspire all sorts of fun ideas.
It’s effortless to retreat from the common areas and enjoy some in-room solitude as well. Every room features private rear patio areas as well as remote lighting and window shades.
Following suit with Descanso and Santiago, Twin Palm’s cantina is open 24-hours and stocked with complimentary beverages and snacks. They also offer a lovely continental breakfast and complimentary poolside lunch, catered by a local Palm Springs eatery. Check out Twin Palms Resort’s outdoor essentials list for more perks.
2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley
From the Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival to Palm Springs Pride, check out our 2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley that you won’t want to miss!
Who wants to have a gay old time this year? The Coachella Valley is the perfect destination for all of us to live it up in 2023. Palm Springs, California is known for its warm climate, pool parties, and diverse array of events that cater to the LGBTQIA+ community. Whether you're a local or just browsing, you can always find something fun and exciting to do in our little desert paradise.
Let's dive in and explore the 2023 Top LGBTQIA+ Events in Gay Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley!
Palm Springs International Film Festival
Date: January 15-16
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Experience the art of cinema at the Palm Springs International Film Festival, featuring new and celebrated international features and documentaries. With over 135,000 attendees from around the world, it's an event you don't want to miss.
The 2nd Annual Palm Springs Pinot Noir Festival
Date: January 27-28
Location: Palm Springs, CA
If you're a fan of Pinot Noir, the Palm Springs Pinot Noir Festival is the perfect event for you. This two-day festival features tastings, seminars, and more, dedicated to the celebrated wine grape.
Oasis Music Festival
Date: January 26-29
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Get ready to dance the night away at the Oasis Music Festival, a four-day music festival featuring live performances by world-renowned DJs and musicians.
Southwest Arts Festival
Date: January 26-29
Location: Indio, CA
Immerse yourself in the arts at the Southwest Arts Festival, a three-day celebration featuring over 250 acclaimed artists and their unique creations.
The Center's Info-A-Go-Go
Date: January 25
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Come out and explore a range of free services at The Center's Info-A-Go-Go, a community resource fair that includes health screenings, career assistance, and more.
Art Party, Palm Springs Art Museum
Date: January 28
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Sip on cocktails, groove to live music, and view incredible artwork at the Art Party in support of the Palm Springs Art Museum.
Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo
Date: January 28
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Get fit and support a great cause at the Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo, which includes a 10K, 5K, and 1K run/walk event and a fitness expo featuring a range of health and wellness vendors.
Tour de Palm Springs
Date: February 11
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Join the fun at the Tour de Palm Springs, a bike ride and fundraising event that benefits local charities.
Modernism Week 2023
Date: February 16-26
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Discover the beauty of mid-century modern design, architecture, and culture at Modernism Week, a celebration featuring tours, lectures, films, and more.
Palm Springs Air Museum Gala
Date: February 18
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Don your black-tie attire and head to the Palm Springs Air Museum Gala, a sophisticated event featuring a cocktail reception, dinner, and live entertainment in support of the museum.
International Bear Convergence IBC 2023
Date: February 23-27
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Meet fellow members of the bear community and enjoy pool parties, dance events, and more at the International Bear Convergence.
McCormick's Palm Springs Exotic Car Auction
Date: February 24-26
Location: Palm Springs, CA
If you're a car enthusiast, don't miss McCormick's Palm Springs Exotic Car Auction, a three-day event featuring rare and exotic automobiles from around the world.
"Isn't It Romantic" Jazz Band Concert & Gala Fundraiser
Date: Feb 27
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Description: Enjoy an unforgettable evening of jazz music, delicious dinner, and a silent auction while supporting the talented Palm Springs High School Jazz Band. This event is a must-attend for anyone who loves music and wants to contribute to a great cause.
La Quinta Arts Celebration
Date: March 2–5
Location: La Quinta Civic Center Campus
The La Quinta Arts Celebration is a four-day festival showcasing the works of over 200 artists from various mediums, including painting, sculpture, ceramics, and photography. It's a great opportunity for art lovers to admire and purchase unique pieces.
Cathedral City First Friday Art Walk
Date: March 3
Location: Art and Design District
The Cathedral City First Friday Art Walk is a monthly event that highlights local artists in the Art and Design District. The event features live music, food, and drinks, making it a great way to experience the local art scene.
Cathedral City LGBT Days
Date: March 3–5
Location: Downtown Cathedral City
The Cathedral City LGBT Days is a celebration of the LGBTQIA+ community featuring live entertainment, food vendors, and a parade. This annual event brings together people of all backgrounds to celebrate diversity and inclusivity.
World Pride Mardi Gras Fashion Show PS Art Museum
Date: March 4
Location: Palm Springs Art Museum
The World Pride Mardi Gras Fashion Show is a high-fashion event that showcases outrageous costumes and designs. After the show, there will be an exciting party where you can mingle with fellow fashion enthusiasts.
Desert X
Date: March 4–May 7
Location: Multiple Locations
Desert X is a biennial art exhibition that takes place in the Coachella Valley. It features installations from artists all over the world, giving visitors a chance to explore the desert landscape and see some incredible art.
BNP Paribas Open
Date: March 6–19
Location: Indian Wells Tennis Garden
The BNP Paribas Open is the largest two-week combined ATP and WTA Tour tennis tournament in the world. This event is a must-attend for tennis enthusiasts and sports lovers.
Hollywood's Biggest Night at Trio
Date: March 12
Location: Trio Restaurant
Hollywood's Biggest Night at Trio is a night of glitz and glamor, where you can watch the Oscars live while enjoying cocktails and delicious food.
CV Rep Fundraiser - Puttin' On the Glitz
Date: March 13
Location: CV Rep
Puttin' On the Glitz is a fundraiser for the CV Repertory Theatre. The event features live entertainment, cocktails, and a silent auction. It's a great way to support the arts and have a good time.
Glow in the Park
Date: March 15–April 30
Location: Indian Wells Tennis Garden
Glow in the Park is an interactive art installation featuring illuminated sculptures. This event is a fun way to explore the Indian Wells Tennis Garden and experience some incredible art.
Fashion Week El Paseo
Date: March 17–23
Location: The Gardens on El Paseo
Fashion Week El Paseo is the ultimate fashion event in Palm Springs. The event features fashion shows from top designers, live entertainment, and a variety of vendors. This is a must-attend event for fashion enthusiasts.
Red Dress Dress Red Party
Date: March 18, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Air Museum
Get ready to paint the town red at the annual Red Dress Dress Red Party. Dress up in your most fabulous red frock and dance the night away in a sea of crimson at the Palm Springs Air Museum.
2023 Desert Open Studios Tour
Date: March 18-19 & March 25-26, 2023
Location: Various locations in the Coachella Valley
Get a behind-the-scenes look at the thriving art scene in the Coachella Valley. Visit local artist studios and see their creative process firsthand during the Desert Open Studios Tour.
Rainbow Challenge Golf Tournament
Date: March 19, 2023
Location: Escena Golf Club
Tee off for a good cause at the Rainbow Challenge Golf Tournament. Play a round of golf and support the LGBTQIA+ community in Palm Springs.
Variations of Three Pianos, Six Hands
Date: March 20, 2023
Location: McCallum Theatre
Get ready for an unforgettable evening of classical music with Variations of Three Pianos, Six Hands. Three of the world's top pianists will take to the stage for a magical performance you won't want to miss.
Palm Springs Int'l Gay Hockey Tournament
Date: March 23-26, 2023
Location: Desert Ice Castle
Lace up your skates and hit the ice for the Palm Springs International Gay Hockey Tournament. Whether you're a seasoned pro or a first-time player, this tournament is a must-attend event for hockey fans in the LGBTQIA+ community.
Palm Desert Food & Wine 2023
Date: March 24-26, 2023
Location: The Gardens on El Paseo
Treat your taste buds to a weekend of culinary delights at the Palm Desert Food & Wine 2023. Sample dishes from top local chefs and sip on the finest wines from around the world.
The Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards DAP Health
Date: March 25, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Convention Center
Honor the memory of renowned interior designer Steve Chase and support DAP Health at the Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards. Enjoy an evening of dinner, drinks, and live entertainment as we celebrate those who have made a difference in the lives of those living with HIV/AIDS.
One PS Community Picnic & Community Expo
Date: March 25, 2023
Location: Ruth Hardy Park
Bring your friends, family, and furry companions to the One PS Community Picnic & Community Expo. Enjoy a day of fun in the sun with local vendors, food trucks, and live entertainment.
Trans Pride 2023 - Empower and Employ
Date: March 26–29
Location: Palm Springs Art Museum
Trans Pride 2023 is a four-day event that is dedicated to celebrating the transgender and gender non-conforming community. This year's event features a job fair, a talent showcase, and a rally. The event aims to empower and employ transgender and gender non-conforming people, while also raising awareness about the challenges and issues that they face.
Palm Springs Jewish Film Festival
Date: March 31
Location: Camelot Theatres
The Palm Springs Jewish Film Festival is an annual event that showcases the best in Jewish cinema. The festival features films from around the world that explore Jewish culture, history, and identity. This year's festival includes screenings of short and feature-length films, as well as discussions with filmmakers and special guests.
Palm Springs Speaks present Al Franken
Date: April 1
Location: Richards Center for the Arts
Palm Springs Speaks is a speaker series that brings some of the most prominent figures in politics, entertainment, and culture to Palm Springs. This year, the series presents Al Franken, the former United States Senator, and comedian. Franken will discuss his career in comedy, his time in the Senate, and his thoughts on the current political landscape.
Palm Springs Animal Shelter's Faux Fur Ball
Date: April 1
Location: Palm Springs Air Museum
The Faux Fur Ball is an annual fundraiser for the Palm Springs Animal Shelter. The event features a runway show where adoptable pets are escorted down the catwalk by local celebrities. There are also auctions, a gourmet dinner, and dancing. All proceeds from the event go to support the shelter's efforts to rescue and care for animals in need.
Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival Weekend 1 & 2
Date: April 14-16 & April 21–23
Location: Empire Polo Club
The Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival is one of the most famous music festivals in the world. The event features some of the biggest names in music, as well as art installations and other attractions. This year's lineup includes Billie Eilish, Harry Styles, and Lizzo.
Dining Out for Life
Date: April 27
Location: Various locations
Dining Out for Life is an annual fundraiser for local HIV/AIDS service organizations. Participating restaurants donate a portion of their proceeds from the day to support these organizations. In Palm Springs, over 60 restaurants are participating in the event, making it a great way to try out new restaurants while also supporting a good cause.
Stagecoach
Date: April 28–30
Location: Empire Polo Club
Stagecoach is a country music festival that takes place at the same location as Coachella. The event features some of the biggest names in country music, as well as line dancing, barbecue, and other country-themed activities.
Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus Presents Notorious
Date: April 28–30
Location: Annenberg Theater
The Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus is a beloved institution in the Palm Springs community. This year, they present Notorious, a musical tribute to some of the most notorious people in history, including Al Capone, Bonnie and Clyde, and Marilyn Monroe.
Palm Springs Hot Rodeo
Date: May 4–7
Location: Multiple locations
The Palm Springs Hot Rodeo is a three-day event that celebrates the LGBTQ+ rodeo community. The event features bull riding, steer wrestling, and other rodeo competitions, as well as line dancing and other western-themed activities.
Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast
Date: May 11, 2023
Location: Palm Springs Convention Center
The Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast is an annual event that celebrates the legacy of Harvey Milk, an American politician and gay rights activist. The event includes a keynote speaker, awards ceremony, and a delicious breakfast. The goal of the event is to promote diversity, equality, and inclusion in the community.
White Party Global
Date: May 12-14, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
White Party Global is a legendary dance music festival that attracts thousands of attendees from all over the world. This three-day event includes some of the biggest names in music, as well as pool parties, fashion shows, and other exciting events. The dress code is all white, which creates a stunning visual effect.
Joshua Tree Music Festival
Date: May 18 - 21
Location: Joshua Tree, CA
Description: Immerse yourself in the magic of the Joshua Tree desert with this four-day festival that celebrates music, art, and culture. With an exciting lineup of musicians, artists, and performers, you'll be sure to have a great time while experiencing the beauty of the desert.
Lizzo The Special 2our
Date: June 2, 2023
Location: Acrisure Arena
Lizzo, the Grammy award-winning singer, songwriter, and flutist, will be performing her hits at the Agua Caliente Casino Resort Spa. The event promises to be an unforgettable experience with Lizzo's signature blend of funk, soul, and hip hop.
Splash House June Weekend
Date: June 9-11, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
Splash House June Weekend is a music festival that takes place across multiple venues in Palm Springs. The event features some of the hottest names in electronic dance music, as well as pool parties, after-parties, and other exciting events.
Out in the Vineyard Gay Wine Weekend
Date: July 14-16, 2023
Location: Various wineries in Sonoma Valley
Out in the Vineyard Gay Wine Weekend is a three-day event that celebrates the LGBT community's love of wine. The event includes wine tastings, gourmet meals, and other activities at some of the most beautiful wineries in Sonoma Valley. The event also raises funds for LGBT charities.
Splash House August Weekend 1 & 2
Date: Aug 11-13 & Aug 18-20, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
Splash House August Weekend 1 & 2 is another music festival that takes place across multiple venues in Palm Springs. The event features more than 30 acts, pool parties, and after-parties. It's a perfect way to enjoy the last days of summer.
Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend
Date: Sept 20–24, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend is the largest lesbian event in the world, attracting thousands of women from around the globe. The event includes pool parties, comedy shows, concerts, and other activities at various locations throughout Palm Springs.
Mini-Modernism Week 2023
Date: Oct 19-22
Location: Palm Springs, CA
Description: Don't miss out on the opportunity to explore Palm Springs' mid-century modern scene during Mini-Modernism Week 2023. This smaller version of the popular Modernism Week event features tours, lectures, films, and more, perfect for those who want to experience the best of mid-century modern design and architecture in a shorter timeframe.
Palm Springs Leather Pride
Date: Oct 26–29, 2023
Location: Various locations in Palm Springs
Palm Springs Leather Pride is a four-day event that celebrates the leather and fetish community. The event includes parties, workshops, and contests, as well as a parade down Palm Canyon Drive.
Palm Springs Pride
Date: Nov 3–5, 2023
Location: Downtown Palm Springs
Palm Springs Pride is an annual event that celebrates the LGBT community's diversity, culture, and achievements. The event includes a parade, a festival, and live entertainment from some of the biggest names in music. The event promotes equality, acceptance, and love for all.
Well, honey, there you have it – a roundup of some of the hottest events coming up in Palm Springs and throughout the Coachella Valley. From film festivals to rodeos, nightly drag shows to hot springs, what more could we ask for?
Don't miss out on all the excitement. Mark your calendars, book your flights, and get ready for some serious fun in Palm Springs this year!
Best 2022 Holiday Events in Gay Palm Springs
If you're wondering how you can make the yuletide gay this year in Palm Springs, here's our pick of the Best 2022 Holiday Events in Gay Palm Springs coming up throughout December!
If you're wondering how you can make the yuletide gay this year in Palm Springs, here's our pick of the Best 2022 Holiday Events in Gay Palm Springs coming up throughout December. Happy Holidays, guys!
Palm Springs Holiday Events To Make The Yuletide Gay
Dec. 2 | Official city holiday tree lighting | Frances Stevens Park
Dec. 2-18 (Weekends) | “Palm Springs Getaway” | Palm Canyon Theatre
Dec. 2 (Multiple Days) | “Sounds of the Holidays” | Palm Springs Aerial Tramway
Dec. 3 | Festival of Lights Parade | Downtown Palm Springs
Dec. 4 | 13th Annual Men of the Desert Fashion Show and Luncheon | Palm Springs Air Museum
Dec. 4 | The Roost's Wreath Decoration Contest and Auction on December 4th
Dec. 4, 11 & 18 | The Dirty Show Holiday X-Travaganza! With Deven Green and Handsome Ned | Dietlart
Dec. 16-18 | Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus “Naughty or Nice?” | Annenberg Theater at Palm Springs Art Museum
Dec. 23 | Western X-Mas: Holiday Bear Retreat | CCBC
Barracks
Dec. 3 | Snuggie & Union Suit Party
Dec. 10 | PigDaddy (Not exactly holiday-themed, but why not mix things up?)
Dec. 31 | Barrack's Ball Drop
Oscar's
Dec. 17 | Jackie Beat’s “War on Christmas”
Dec. 24 | Bitchiest Brunch Christmas Eve Edition
Dec. 25 | Oscar's FREE Christmas Breakfast
Dec. 31 | Drag Me Into 2023 | Two Dinners and Shows
Palm Springs Cultural Center
Dec. 10 & 11 | ‘Stars: A Galaxy of Song’ | Modern Men: Coachella Valley Men's Chorus
Dec. 17 | Pied Piper: A Twisted Holiday Tale | Palm Springs Dance Project
Dec. 20 | Deserted Films: Holiday Oddities
Runway @ CCBC
Dec. 9 | Vixen's Ho Ho Ho Show
Dec. 17 | Unwrapped Packages
The Purple Room
Dec. 18 | Judy's Old Fashioned Christmas
Dec. 23 | Blue Suede Christmas! Elvis: The Early Years
The Essential Pride Events Guide for Palm Springs Pride 2022
It's Pride weekend once again here in Palm Springs, and this year’s theme is SAY GAY! Here's our Essential Pride Events Guide for Palm Springs Pride 2022 🏳️🌈
Cheers, Queers! It's Pride weekend once again here in Palm Springs, and this year’s theme is SAY GAY!
You know they’ll be plenty of boys, booze, and blasphemy to remind you of how proud you are to be gay – and how lucky we all are to be able to live out loud here in Gay Palm Springs!
Between official Pride events, unofficial pool parties, and everything in between – there's an appalling amount of events happening all weekend long here in our quaint little desert town. Scroll to the bottom of this post for every option under the sun, or simply jump into this curated list of events we're most excited about…
Here's our Essential Pride Events Guide for Palm Springs Pride 2022 🏳️🌈
Friday, November 4th
3pm - 11:30pm - KGAY 106.5 Arenas District Pride Kick Off Block Party with music & dancing in the streets!
Saturday, November 5th
10am - Hotel Zoso Pride Drag Brunch (singing drag queens from P-town)!
11am-5pm - Palm Springs Pride Festival Day 1 + Marketplace (Click here for a downloadable festival map)
11am-5pm - CCBC Rainbow Splash Pool Party
1pm - Ongina's Palm Springs PRIDE Drag Brunch
5:30pm - UNBOUND: a live immersive kink chamber opera experience!
6pm - Boylesque! : A Night of Drinks, Drag & Delirium at Boozehounds
8pm - Todrick Hall on main stage
9pm - Bob the Drag Queen at Hotel Zoso (admission includes Zoso to SAY GAY! Underwear Party after)
9pm - ROUGH SEX at The Barracks (Free clothes check available, $20 cash at the door, no tickets are sold online for this event)
9pm - CCBC CumUnion (passes can be purchased in advance at the door)
Sunday, November 6th
10am - 12pm Palm Springs Pride Parade 2022
10am - 2pm - Pride Parade Party & Drag Brunch at Roly China Fusion with Rosemary Galore
11am - 6pm - Palm Springs Pride Festival Day 2 + Marketplace (Click here for a downloadable festival map)
4pm - The Robyn Party at the Arenas (nothing but Robyn songs)!
6pm - An Evening With Latrice Royale (includes a 3-course meal)
Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs
Here are our votes on the Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs!
It sure is hot here in the low desert! Fear not, fellow gaycationers and staycationers – there’s still plenty to do this summer here in Gay Palm Springs that will keep you busy and keep you cool (hopefully at the same time).
I’m not just talking about all-indoor activities either. There’s plenty of inspiration waiting for you all throughout the Coachella Valley.
Of course, there are plenty of other fabulous things to do and see this summer in greater Palm Springs, but these are our favorites so far. If you'd like to increase your search results, check out the Gay Desert Guide.
And if you have an activity you already love that didn't make the list, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it)!
In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs!
Drag Shows
Let’s start with the essentials. Naturally, sweetie, drag shows are all over Palm Springs. You can play Bingo with Miss Rusty Waters at Hunter's every Wednesday, make yo dollas holla at Vanity's Doll Haus every Friday at One Eleven Bar in Cat City, or bask in the nostalgia of The Judy Show! every Sunday at the Purple Room (just to name a few of course). Check out the Gay Desert Guide for a complete list of drag shows.
Dining
Grab some brunch at 1501 Uptown Gastropub, a light sushi lunch at Antigua Sushi Lovers, and then dinner at the NY-style Paul Bar/Food Gastropub. Or if you’re looking for a more unique experience, PS Underground is an ever evolving supper club (no two dinners are ever the same) featuring gourmet meals and world class entertainment. And if fresh local produce is your poison or pleasure, check out the Coachella Valley Certified Farmers' Markets.
For more of our dining favorites, look no further than our “Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs” post.
Hiking (in the morning)
If you want to beat the heat but still enjoy all the natural beauty the Coachella Valley has to offer, consider some morning (or evening) hikes like Tahquitz Canyon Waterfalls, Indian Canyon trail, or the many other trails in and around Palm Springs. There are also groups like Great Outdoors Palm Springs (GOPS) and various Facebook hiking (even naked hiking) groups you could join.
Or consider taking the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway – the “World’s largest rotating tram car” – up two-and-a-half-miles of Chino Canyon cliffs that feature panoramic views of the spectacular valleys below. The journey ends at the top of Mt. San Jacinto State Park (an elevation of 8,516 feet) where you’ll find observation decks, restaurants (with a view), and over 50 miles of hiking trails. It’s typically 20 degrees cooler at the top. And be sure to check out the Jeffrey pine trees up there because they smell like butterscotch (for real)!
Joshua Tree
Plan a perfect trip to Joshua Tree with the help of J Harvey’s My Normal Gay Life travel blog. In addition to Joshua Tree National Park, the high desert is full of spectacular natural wonders and blended ecosystems of both the Mojave and Colorado deserts. While you’re there, grab a bite at the Joshua Tree Saloon. And don’t forget to check out the Outdoor Desert Art Museum’s sculptures and installations (for free) and the World Famous Crochet Museum.
Just Relax Poolside
The pool might be the best place to wade out the Palm Springs summer heat. The pool at the Rowan Hotel is (freely) open to the public throughout the summer, so consider a poolside lunch and cocktails there. If men-only is more what you had in mind, there are day passes available at the Canyon Club in Palm Springs and at CCBC in Cathedral City (Cat City).
Movies
Catch a nice air-conditioned movie at the Palm Springs Cultural Center or the Mary Pickford Theater In Cathedral City (they even have recliners there)! You can also check out all the inspiring Palm Springs Film Festivals happening throughout the year.
Museums
If you want to quench your thirst for culture, start at the Palm Springs Art Museum’s exquisite collection of over 12,000 works of modern and contemporary art, architecture, and design. Every Thursday night, locals can browse the museum for free (5-7PM)! Next check out the Moorten Botanical Gardens “living museum” to see over 3,000 varieties of desert plants, trees, and spiky cacti.
If you’re curious about Palm Springs’ historic inhabitants, check out the Agua Caliente Cultural Museum’s five different exhibit areas dedicated to telling different chapters in the story of the Agua Caliente people.
And if you want to see the quirkiest museums of all, you’ll have to drive out of town to see the International Banana Museum in Mecca, CA (it’s exactly what it sounds like). And don’t forget to check out the World Famous Crochet Museum in Joshua Tree.
Nightlife
Get your tea dance on at Oscar's, bring your pup to Boozehounds, or make new friends at "Underwear Night" at the Barracks in Cat City. Check out more of our “Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs” favorites on our blog!
Other Inspirations
With six escape adventures to choose from, Escape Palm Springs has escape rooms that challenge you to pull off a bank heist, flee the doomed Titanic, save a wizarding school from an evil spell, or help Scotland Yard capture Jack the Ripper.
After you’ve escaped, go celebrate at Agua Caliente Resort Casinos in Palm Springs (or in Cat City) and see how far your luck will carry you!
Check out the Gay Desert Guide for more LGBTQ+ happenings in Palm Springs!
Outdoor Art
There’s no shortage of creative expression here in Coachella Valley. Start in Palm Springs with Marylin Monroe herself (the other lady liberty), conveniently located right in front of the Palm Springs Art Museum and next to the massive Palm Springs Babies Sculptures sandpit. Each baby is a whopping 11 feet long, 9 feet high, and weighs almost 300 pounds.
If stepping into a parallel dimension is more your vibe, check out RoboLights – an extraordinary four-acre light display created by artist Kenny Irwin boasting displays made from approximately 1000 tons of donated junk. It’s so strange, it’s even been featured on Conan O’Brian, The Learning Channel, and the BBC Travel Channel. Then go check out the Spider Volkswagen sculpture – a bizarre sculpture of a VW beetle-turned giant spider.
If dinosaurs are your jam, drive to Cathedral City and check out the new Jurassic Wonders in Cathedral City or the Cabazon Dinosaurs in Cabazon – a highly postcarded Palm Springs icon, boasting more than 50 life-size dinosaur statues. You may recognize it from its appearance in cult classic film Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure!
Just keep on driving and let Desert X be your tour guide to see all the incredible outdoor art spread all throughout the Coachella Valley.
Shopping
Grab some short-shorts at Division Palm Springs, some leather gear at Gear Leather & Fetish, and truly unique gifts from Just Fabulous Palm Springs. Check out more of our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs favorites on our blog!
Shows
Check out the The Judy Show at the Purple Room – a drag parody of the great icons of the 60s. Then enjoy AsiaSF Palm Springs iconic dinner show experience while the transgender Ladies of AsiaSF Palm Springs dazzle you (think “high drag,” but it’s not drag, honey). Or check out all the great drag shows happening almost daily here in and around Palm Springs.
If live music is your jam, check out the newly opened Alibi Palm Springs, Oscars, the McCallum Theatre, or the famous Pappy & Harriet’s saloon in Pioneertown. There’s always a ton of live events happening in this town, so check out the calendar listings for what’s coming up.
Summer Events
Palm Springs has quickly become an all-season place to be, so there’s always an event. Check out the Palm Springs Cultural Center or the Rock The Park summer music series. And if you’re still on Facebook (most folks still are in this town), consider joining the Gay Men of Palm Springs Facebook Group, or check out Palm Springs Bureau of Tourism for a calendar of events.
Tours
Whether it’s guided or self-guided tours you’re looking for, there’s a lot to see in our little town. Check out the Legends & Icons Tour or the Historical Society Walking Tours. If mid-century modern is what you crave, consider Mid-Century Modern Tours or Palm Springs Mod Squad tours. And for a fun self-guided tour of some fabulous Mid-century modern neighborhoods here in Palm Springs, check out our MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)!
For a unique, self-guided tour, get up close and take selfies with turbines on a Windmill Tour through the Coachella Valley and see some of the best-preserved windmills in all of California.
They are MUCH bigger than most people realize! And be sure to check out the Windmill Market while you’re there for the best Date Shake in Coachella Valley (4 years standing)!
Wellness Day
Since you came all the way to Palm Springs to relax and get away from it all, why not have a wellness day? Get a massage at The Men’s Grooming Spot, a haircut at Daddy's Barbershop, or some cannabis at The Vault Dispensary and Lounge. Or have you ever wanted to meditate in a cave? Check out more of our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs wellness favorites on our blog!
Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs
Here's a list of our favorite restaurants in Palm Springs – curated by us, with an emphasis on flavor, atmosphere, quality of ingredients, great tasting food, and gay-friendly (of course)…
Whether it's eye candy or after-dinner candy you're looking to accompany a great meal, there's something for everyone here in Gay Palm Springs!
Here's a list of our favorite restaurants in Palm Springs – curated by us, with an emphasis on flavor, atmosphere, quality of ingredients, great tasting food, and gay-friendly (of course).
We all have certain standards when we're dining out – different palettes, different allergies, and different tastes in hot waiters 😜 We know that not everyone's going to agree with our choices, but we hope that overall this list won't disappoint.
Of course, there are plenty of other great restaurants in greater Palm Springs (and in the surrounding Coachella Valley), but these are our favorites so far. If you'd like to increase your search results, check out https://visitpalmsprings.com/dining-in-palm-springs.
And if you have a place you already love that didn't make the list, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it)!
In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs (in alphabetical order by cuisine)!
*Or opt-in below for a downloadable cheat sheet version…
American
Willie Rhine of Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge and Chad Gardner of 533 Viet Fusion and Roly China Fusion bring their combined successful track records to offer a new seasonally fresh eatery. The food at 1501 Uptown Gastropub is great and there's lots of indoor and outdoor seating. We particularly love brunching outdoors because of it's beautiful view of the mountains!
Boozehounds aims to provide a friendly environment for both canines and their humans. By day, they are a coffee, co-working, and lunch spot. By night, they are a perfect happy hour and dinner destination for the whole family.
Chi Chi's is centered in the tradition of California wellness and set in the playful pool area of the Avalon Hotel. We love their specialized menus and innovative dishes.
Chicken Ranch is committed to keep to keeping it fresh; bringing farm-fresh produce and free-range poultry from local farms to your plate. They are always serving up quality and fresh, from rotisserie chicken, delicious salads, and seasonal ingredients. This is one of our favorite lunch spots.
Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge
Located in the Uptown Design District of Palm Springs, EIGHT4NINE's eclectic and colorful menu selections feature a fusion of comfort food, ethnic influences, and bold originality. So original, they haven't changed the menu in years, but folks still love it. The real standout for us is the bright and modern décor!
GiGi’s is a desert-inspired, Modern American restaurant, serving creative farm-to-table fare with a commitment to the freshest locally sourced ingredients. You may even be able to catch an occasional celebrity low-key dining here, but you didn't hear it from us😉
John Henry’s Café has been a favorite of Palm Springs locals and in-the-know visitors for over thirty years. It's quite an experience that you can only understand when you experience it for yourself, so... Go experience for yourself 😉
King's Highway at the Ace Hotel
An old roadside diner reimagined, King's Highway reinterpreted American comfort food for the desert with a focus on fresh, organic, and local ingredients. It might be Palm Springs best-kept secret (especially if you're trying to snag a table somewhere in town on a busy weekend night)!
La Copine is the only place we're listing that requires a day trip out of town to Yucca Valley. They are an incredible Californian restaurant serving fresh & inspired lunch in the Hi Desert from Thursday-Sundays only (11am-4pm). It's in the middle of nowhere but the food speaks for itself. If you don't believe us, just as The New York Times or VOGUE!
There is no place in Palm Springs more colorful than Lulu's. A must for every new Palm Springs tourist, Lulu's has become the restaurant all of Palm Springs loves to be (and be seen).
Oscar's has everything from dancing to live dinner entertainment in the heart of downtown Palm Springs. From drag brunch, to celebrity evening-with shows, to Oscar's signature T-Dance on Sundays, there's something for every gay!
Honoring the Rat Pack era, Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show!, a parody of the great icons of the 60s.
Sherman’s has become a landmark in the desert. A Kosher-style family restaurant, they offer an extensive menu for breakfast, brunch, lunch and dinner reminiscent of a New York style deli.
The Pantry's menu is an exceptional modern take on classic “Americana” cuisine, reinterpreting the traditional resort menu using a fusion of new techniques and influences. Their menu highlights fresh ingredients local to California and the Coachella Valley.
In the center of the Plaza, Tyler’s offers one of the best burger experiences in the desert!
Asian
This is a personal favorite of ours, and another Asian fusion eatery brought to you by the gay owners of Roly China Fusion. 533 Viet Fusion is a casual, hip setting for a mix of modern and traditional Vietnamese dishes and cocktails. We particularly love their spring roll menu, full of fresh selections like their lemongrass duroc organic pork roll and mushroom soba roll.
Antigua Sushi Lovers just opened and we love the owners as much as we love the sushi! They're also currently one of only two sushi places open for lunch as well as dinner in Palm Springs.
AsiaSF is a cabaret dinner show that has been wowing crowds for 23 years in San Francisco, and they've chosen Palm Springs as its first location outside the Bay Area. AsiaSF performers, who are all transgender women, bring their own personalities to lip-synced renditions of party playlist classics, creating a memorable dinner show for an iconic date night.
From dim sum to drag brunch, Roly China Fusion is modern Chinese cuisine with an asian fusion twist. Inspired by Chad’s husband Roly, the restaurant brings a vibrant, whimsical and elevated dining experience to the Palm Springs area. They also own 533 Viet Fusion, which is a personal favorite of ours!
Rooster and the Pig is a Vietnamese-American restaurant that strives to serve food and drink with distinction. They also take allergies seriously, so we always appreciate that.
Sandfish serves up quality hand-crafted sushi and whiskey pairings in a beautiful Scandinavian designed interior.
Taka Shin offers exquisite Japanese cuisine that delicately presents traditional Japanese food with a contemporary twist in a relaxed, no-frills environment.
Thai Smile has been bringing the authentic tastes of true Thai cuisine to Palm Springs for 18 years. We love crossing the street after a Sunday evening tea dance at Oscars for a comforting (and affordable!) curry.
Torakichi Ramen is a relatively new restaurant specializing in ramen. It's an intimate setting, but where it lacks in ambience it well makes up for with flavor!
Bar Food
Winner of Desert Sun's Best Restaurant in 2020, Blackbook is the real "chill bar" in the Arenas district as far as we're concerned. Its sleek industrial style features the largest whiskey selection in Palm Springs and a lot of acclaim for being the "best bar food in Palm Springs" among the locals.
The coolest (pun fully intended) gay bar and dance club here in Palm Springs, Chill Bar is another staple gay-borhood bar in our beloved Arenas district, featuring drag bingo, go-go boys, and our favorite disco-ball male statues (featured on The Palm Springs Guys website)! They have a fun bar menu, and the flatbreads are a particular stand-out for our pallets.
Hunters is Palm Springs’ go-to gay bar and dance club fun for 20 years now. Featuring the longest happy hour in all the Valley, Hunters serves up drag shows, karaoke, and Djs that keep the dance floor pumping (loudly!) right in the Arenas district. But they also have a great bar menu (from fried pickles to "hey girl" hot wings).
PaulBar is bar/food. That's all they have to say about that on their website, but locals have a lot more to say about how much they love it. The location isn't ideal (you'll wonder if you're in the right place at first), but it's got a very cool vibe when you get inside which is why it's so popular.
With plenty of atmosphere for all patrons “to roost,” the Roost Lounge in Cat City is a another friendly neighborhood gay bar with ongoing entertainment and karaoke.
BBQ
As the name suggests, Smoke Tree is all about BBQ; Baby Back ribs, Beef Ribs, Brisket, Pulled Pork, Smoked Chicken, Tri Tip, Andouille Sausage, Smoked Turkey, and more. This is the best BBQ in Palm Springs, but their hours often change whenever they feel like it, just FYI.
Cafe
Koffi (Various Locations)
Locally owned and operated, Koffi was established in 2002 and is now the largest independent specialty coffee retail and roasting operation in the Coachella Valley. Koffi has four (4) different café locations – three (3) of which are right in Palm Springs (Koffi North, Koffi Central, and Koffi South). Their oat milk iced lattes are strong & smooth, just the way we like them.
Right in the heart of the Antique Shopping District, the ever-popular Townie Bagel’s makes water boiled bagels fresh daily in Palm Springs. All their bagels, breads, muffins, and scones are made from scratch in their bakery. It's a local favorite, so get in line early!
Continental
Bar Cecil is a nod to the great American and European bistro experiences. They celebrate those who follow the beat to their own drum with an aesthetic as creative and inspiring as their food and cocktails. This place it POPULAR, and reservations are limited, so try to go early or late on a whim sometime.
Jake’s is a casual/hip American bistro serving fresh, innovative, and comfort food favorites. Their lunch menu screams California fresh, and they even have a "Flight of Salads" if you can't decide which mouth-watering salad to toss... I mean, choose 😉
Johannes Restaurant is modern European cuisine from Austrian born Chef/Owner Johannes Bacher, with an Upscale Casual Ambiance and an entire schnitzel menu!
Mid-Mod Café is Uptown Palm Springs’ [new] organic alternative for healthy smoothies, as well as breakfast, lunch and dinner. Created by the gay owners of Palm Greens, Mod Cafe offers a healthy spin on American classics with vegan, organic, vegetarian and Gluten-free options.
Truss & Twine sits adjacent to the team’s first venture, Workshop Kitchen + Bar and is the epitome of Palm Springs’ sophisticated desert vibe. They specialize in classic cocktails broken down by era, alongside a desert-inspired menu using ingredients from the Coachella Valley.
This mid-century lounge serves up boutique California wines, craft beers, and throwback cocktails. It's also a favorite destination for live music and drag performances, like Ross Mathew's "Dragtastic Bubbly Brunch".
From the same owners as Truss & Twine, Workshop Kitchen & Bar is farm to table seasonal through and through. From their James Beard-award winning interior design to their classic cocktail bar, it's our favorite spot in Palm Springs!
French
FARM is a Provencal-style restaurant with a menu comprised of traditional French dishes, brimming with locally sourced produce, eggs, and artisanal meats. It's a very popular spot for lunch and brunch, so get there early!
The name “French Miso Café” reflects the origin diversity of the owners Tomoko Jones and Eric Bovy. The result is an endearing setting where one can enjoy traditional Japanese and French cuisine at the same table. This place is as quality as it gets in Palm Springs – just be mindful of their limited hours.
Indian
Monsoon serves up a medley of flavorful Indian dishes like Chicken Curry Prawn Vindaloo and Malai Tikka, as well as vegetarian entrees like Mushroom Masala and Aloo Gobi.
Italian
Featuring the flavors of Northern Italy, Al dente Trattoria Toscana is a quaint cucina with a European atmosphere. We're still on the hunt for exceptional Italian food here in Palm Springs, but this one's our favorite so far.
Bill’s quest of making the best pizza possible led him to Italy and back exploring a wide range of pizza styles and techniques.
Sammy’s Place serves authentic Italian food in the Palm Springs area – the very best we've had in the valley so far! Their hours are limited to Thursdays - Sundays and they don't seem to have a website, but it's worth the trip.
Right in the heart of Palm Springs’ Fashionable Uptown Design District, Trio Restaurant aims to bring people together with timeless Italian-American fusion dishes and colorful décor. They also love actively giving back to the community, so that's a win in our book!
Mediterranean
With 2 locations in Palm Springs and one in Cathedral City, Santorini Gyro Restaurant serves up authentic Greek food as good as we always hope for.
Mexican
El Mirasol has built a reputation for consistently serving piping hot plates of artfully prepared Mexican regional cuisine and tangy flavorful margaritas in Palm Springs, California. Chef Felipe Castaneda serves up authentic versions of Mexican standards such as chile verde, shrimp pipian, and polo en mole poblano. We love starting with drinks next door at Dead or Alive Bar, then popping over to El Mirasol for a delicious dinner.
The same owners as FARM, Tac/Quila is their made-up word for combining gourmet Jalisco style cuisine with specialty tequilas and mezcals. Mexico’s artistry extends to its flavorful, colorful, and specialized cuisine.
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Best Clothing-Optional (Men-Only) Resorts in Gay Palm Springs
Staying "Gay" (at a gay resort) is optional in Palm Springs – and so is staying in your clothes. So why not experience the freedom of a clothing-optional gaycation in the most liberated, body-positive place on earth for men who love men?
*Updated: November 11, 2022
Staying "Gay" (at a gay resort) is optional in Palm Springs – and so is staying in your clothes. So why not experience the freedom of a clothing-optional gaycation in the most liberated, body-positive place on earth for men who love men?
Never stayed at a clothing optional gay resort before? Are you horrified at the very thought of a clothing-optional experience? I'm guessing the voyeur in you is at least curious about it or you wouldn't be here right now 😉
My advice to you is to just jump right in and stay clothing-optional so you can see for yourself how exhilarating it can be. Keep those boy shorts on for now if you must, but at least check out Inndulge's illuminating video collection of enticing tutorials to help you with your first clothing-optional experience.
Don't worry, I'll wait...
Ok, now that you're SOLD, here the Best Clothing-Optional (Men-Only) Resorts in Gay Palm Springs in our opinion (in alphabetical order)...
Home of "The Maze," All Worlds is more LA bath house than San Francisco sex club, but it straddles the two in true Palm Springs Warm Sands neighborhood fashion. They're always open and offer day passes if you want to join in on the fun.
The Canyon Club Hotel is the only gay men's resort in Downtown Palm Springs and it's a good choice if you're looking for more affordable rates too. They've got a saltwater pool, 16-man spa, and a garden oasis hedge maze for more secluded fun.
CCBC (Cathedral City Boys’ Club) Resort is the largest clothing optional Gay men’s resort in the Coachella Valley, located in the heart of Cat City. They are open 24/7 with a regular variety of special events, like CUMUNION sex parties and male bonding pop-up events, and even offer day (and night) passes for those who just wanna have a little fun.
Introducing Descanso – the first men’s resort to open in Palm Springs in over ten years. From the the guys who brought us Santiago Resort, it’s a newly reimagined blend of luxurious Hollywood Moderne meets California garden greenery.
In the center of Warm Sands, the Desert Paradise Resort hosts a large saltwater pool, newly expanded jacuzzi spa, steam and sauna rooms, romantic fire pit, and outdoor garden shower. Consider it your paradise in the desert.
Since 1975, El Mirasol Villas has been a destination resort for Gay Men in Palm Springs. Located in the Warm Sands neighborhood, its only blocks away from downtown.
The Hacienda is a popular and stylishly spacious gay resort in the heart of Warm Sands, Palm Springs’ gay Mecca.
25 years strong, Inndulge is a popular clothing-optional resort in Palm Springs, featuring a 12-man 24-hr jacuzzi and a 24-hour heated salt water pool. They've also got an enticing video collection on their website to help you with your first clothing-optional experience.
Santiago Resort is an intimate luxury getaway where gay men can rediscover the bliss of completely giving into the moment. This popular clothing-optional resort has a salt water pool – and for those who have yet to experience a salt water (saline) pool, you're in for real treat.
One of the top Gay Resorts in Palm Springs, the Triangle Inn offers sun-drenched tropical gardens and breathtaking mountain views for any experience – romantic and relaxing to fun and frisky.
From the same guys who brought us Santiago Resort, and the freshly minted Descanso Resort, Twin Palms Resort is the newest kid on the block. It’s a mid-century-made-modern experience draped in luxury and timeless style. And if it's anything like its brothers, it's sure to be a new favorite men’s resort in town.
Vista Grande Resort is a premium clothing optional gay men’s resort in Palm Springs, featuring 2 swimming pools, a hot tub, dry sauna, spacious steam room, and breathtaking waterfalls.
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Is Palm Springs Flirty or Dirty?
Is Palm Springs Flirty or Dirty? The short answer is both (and everything else you can and can't even imagine in between)! Everyone is here in Palm Springs for a good reason. Whether you've decided to retire here, vacation here, live here part-time or full-time, Palm Springs is a treasured destination for so many people. Everyone is here because they want to be – and that's a recipe for people who are a lot more pleasant to be around than the average community. Since gay men are practically the majority here at this point, there's a lot of fun to be had in the modern gay desert…
Is Palm Springs Flirty or Dirty? The short answer is both (and everything else you can and can't even imagine in between)! Read on, boys...
Everyone is here in Palm Springs for a good reason. Whether you've decided to retire here, vacation here, live here part-time or full-time, Palm Springs is a treasured destination for so many people. Everyone is here because they want to be – and that's a recipe for people who are a lot more pleasant to be around than the average community. Since gay men are practically the majority here at this point, there's a lot of fun to be had in the modern gay desert.
When a gay friend comes to Palm Springs for the first time, wondering what to do first, I like to ask, "Do you want something flirty or dirty?" In my experience, there is no third option. Everyone is excited to be here and eager to engage with what makes Palm Springs so special and unique. This inherent openness creates an ever-flirtatious dynamic all around – especially between gay men – that is as harmless as it is enticing.
Everyone flirts in Palm Springs. Drag queens flirt with you during at Ross Mathews Dragtastic Bubbly Brunch at V Wine Lounge. Store clerks flirt with you at GayMart USA as they help you pick out your new swimwear. You can flirt with the other boys in the pool at your clothing-optional resort. You can flirt with your waiter while you're having dinner at Eight4Nine Restaurant & Lounge. You can flirt with your bartenders at Hunters Palm Springs and all the boys along the way when you're barhopping throughout the Arenas District after dinner. And you can even flirt with the baristas at Koffi the next morning.
I've also quickly learned never to assume anything in this town. For instance, it seems to me that if you're a gay couple in Palm Springs, you are in some sort of open relationship unless proven otherwise (at least for the long weekend). That's the line where flirty meets dirty in my book because depending on the "vibe" of things, the new friends you just met 5 minutes ago sitting at the bar at Blackbook (my personal favorite social bar) might just invite you over to their place later that night to enjoy some more cocktails and naked pool time in their salt water saline pool. Did somebody say cock(tails)?
It's just as easy for flirty to go dirty should you choose. Palm Springs has over twenty (20) LGBTQIA+ resorts and guest houses, and at least 14 of them are gay clothing-optional resorts. Some of these clothing-optional resorts also offer day passes for men only, like All Worlds Resort in Palm Springs and CCBC Resort Hotel in Cathedral City (aka "Cat City" as the locals refer to it). Day passes (also available at night) at clothing-optional resorts for men only are the greater Palm Springs version of a gay bathhouse experience.
Of course, there's also some dirty fun to be had on the side here and there, like at the Barracks in Cat City or the Tool Shed in Palm Springs. They both host a variety of themed nights, like "Underwear Night" (Wednesday's at the Barracks and Thursdays at the Tool Shed), where anything goes after enough drinking, flirting, and jock-strap eye-candy everywhere.
So the next time you're here in Palm Springs, do you want it flirty or dirty? I suggest you start with flirty and then see where things go from there. Either way, just get into it. Embrace it. Openness and sex-positivity is the heartbeat of connecting with new people out here. And in a town this vibrant with affluent professionals, creative influencers, and fellow gays from all walks of life, you never know who you're going to meet next and how they might shape your life for the better.
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Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs
From mid-century made modern home goods to gaycation fashion, Palm Springs is brimming with gay-owned and LGBTQIA+ businesses to patronize (along with some brand names that we all not-so-secretly love as well)…
From mid-century made modern home goods to gaycation fashion, Palm Springs is brimming with gay-owned and LGBTQIA+ businesses to patronize (along with some brand names that we all not-so-secretly love as well).
Mens short shorts are the unofficial gay dress code here in Palm Springs, so leave those straight-boy shorts at home and show us some thigh, handsome. You can start building your ST33LE Brand short shorts collection at Division Palm Springs until you've got every color of the rainbow under your belt (literally under your belt).
And while you're exploring the downtown area's signature boutiques (realizing how sexy your legs really are in those new short-shorts), be sure to check out some of our favorite spots too...
Mens Clothing
Division Palm Springs hosts a contemporary collection of tank tops, button downs, swim wear, and those highly coveted short shorts I mentioned above. If you really want to dress the part of an experienced Palm Springs gay, this is the place to shop – and it's right in the Arenas district.
GayMart USA proudly touts itself as America’s Favorite Gay Superstore. Swimsuits and underwear of all flavors are their specialty, but they've also got some fun cards, gifts, and adult novelty items (did someone say poppers)? GayMart is also in the heart of the Arenas district.
Bear Wear curates a nice selection of mens fashion, jewelry, and gifts. Philip ‘n Bruce always look forward to assisting you with your apparel needs – big men, small men, all men. And you guessed it – it's in the heart of the Arenas district.
Mr. Turk Menswear presents a swank modern resort interior that features 1970s styles with vintage flair at boujie prices. A bit further north on North Palm Canyon Drive, Mr. Turk is the baby spoon to Trina Turk Palm Springs.
Adult Gifts & Sex Shops
Rough Trade Gear Palm Springs has the hottest mens street, fetish, sport, and play gear – right in the heart of the Arenas District.
Gear Leather & Fetish has some of the best fetish goods from the world’s top makers for men who play hard. They're located on East Sunny Dunes Road, so grab a drink at the Tool Shed next door for some inspiration first.
Art, Gifts & Inspiration
Destination PSP offers uniquely fun and originally-designed merchandise. Their stylish, modern designs reflect the mid-century heritage of the Palm Springs experience. We particularly love their MCM (Mid-Century Modern) t-shirts and tissue box covers!
Just Fabulous Palm Springs is an modern lifestyle boutique offering a wide array of gifts, books, home decor that are as fun as they are inspiring.
Queertique Palm Springs is a queer lifestyle shop championing primarily independent queer artists unique art, apparel, goods, vintage and more. Be sure to take a selfie in their glamorous oversized dressing room (and then tag them in it obviously)!
The SHAG Store is the retail store for the artworks and merchandise of artist Josh Agle (aka SHAG). His style represents the vintage Palm Springs highlife, and every print is always hand signed and numbered by Shag himself.
Christopher Kennedy is Mid-Century made Modern. His home furnishings and interior design embody modern luxury and vibrant Southern California glamour.
Rancho Relaxo has a mission to inspire and delight, focusing on local artists and artisans who celebrate the spirit of Desert Modernism in their signature fashion, accessories, home decor, and gifts.
Home Furnishings & Accessories
H3K Home is a gay-owned operation specializing in design consultation, but they have a uniquely colorful showroom of Desert Modern home furnishings and accessories that would brighten anyone's day. We particularly love their Palm Strings Collection.
PS Homeboys are staging specialists with an inspiring showroom in the Arenas District that specializes in Mid-Century meets Modern home décor.
Wabi Sabi Japan Living is an ode to the “impermanence and imperfection” of Japanese art and design, featuring home goods and imported specialty groceries from Japan and Asia.
Consignment / Resale / Thrift Shops
Revivals is where all the conscientious gay locals shop, donate their furniture and appliances, contribute their art and jewelry, and volunteer their time. That's because all four (4) Revivals Stores and locations here in the Coachella Valley donates 100% of its profits to support comprehensive healthcare at DAP Health (the Desert AIDS Project) to the tune of over $1 million a year. Now that's what I call health "care"!
Misty's Consignments has room after room of professionally staged "venuets" filled with designer furniture, fine art, and more. It's an ever-rotating inventory wonderland for even the most discerning gay man (myself included)!
Antique & Vintage Furniture Shops
Antique Galleries of Palm Springs is the newest, largest, and best source for antique, vintage, and retro everything in the Coachella Valley. You'll find all sorts of random things here.
Palm Springs Vintage Market is a wonder to behold on the first Sunday of each month (8:00 am to 2:00 pm). Located at the Palm Springs Cultural Center (formerly Camelot Theatres), it has the best collection of Southern California sellers of vintage and antique furniture, art, clothing, jewelry, and home furnishings for any mid-century design enthusiast!
Wellness
The Men's Spa at La Dolce Vita is the only place where you can stay gay in town that includes a spa exclusively for gay men.
The Men’s Grooming Spot waxes where others don't. They also offer men’s massage, skin care, hair, and men’s nails with a "cool spa vibe" as the only complete men’s spa in the Coachella Valley.
World Gym Palm Springs has been referred to as the gayest gym in the world more than once since we've arrived here in Palm Springs. Think every type of gay (especially daddies and bears) wearing next-to-nothing and proudly keeping it "the" gay gym in town. Did somebody say cruising?
Daddy's Barbershop serves the LGBTQ communities and our allies with “old school barbering” and modern, sexy haircuts – right in the Arenas District.
Sunny Dunes Barber Shop is a no-frills, three-chair shop run by well-seasoned male barbers at a reasonable price.
The Vault Dispensary and Lounge promises to deliver the finest cannabis dispensary experience you can find. Their consumption lounge even features fun events, like Legendary (digital) Bingo night, hosted by comedian Deven Green & Ned Douglas!
Brand Names
Don't worry, boys – there's an H&M Palm Springs right here in the heart of downtown too for those of us who crave the familiar side of retail therapy.
West Elm Palm Springs is right next to H&M as well, so go seek some inspiration there while you're at it. Just consider supporting a local brand as well (unless you really need that sickening lamp that only West Elm can provide).
The Desert Hills Premium Outlets & Cabazon Outlets are side-by-side and just a quick 20-minute drive west of Palm Springs if you get that outlet itch. The Desert Hills Premium Outlets are the real highlight between the two, featuring all the name brands we love.
Palm Desert Shops is a great resource for where the bougier shops are. In fact, Palm Desert is where everything bougie and corporate is.
So, What's The T?
Why the Palm Springs Guys? The truth (the T) is that we wanted to create the kind of platform we were originally looking for ourselves before we moved here. There are lots of great resources available for all things gay here in Palm Springs, but none of them offered the kind of local flavor and local intel in one place that we were seeking…
*If you’re as obsessed with RuPaul's Drag Race as we are, you already know that 'The T' is another term for 'the Truth.'
If you didn’t know, well, you’re welcome.
Hey, Guys! We are Gregory and Glen (aka the Palm Springs Guys).
Consider us your new local guides to Gay Palm Springs. We’re pretty new to the high desert ourselves, so we invite you to explore the wonders of this Gaytropolis along with us, hand-in-hand (aww).
Why the Palm Springs Guys? The truth (the T) is that we wanted to create the kind of platform we were originally looking for ourselves before we moved here. There are lots of great resources available for all things gay here in Palm Springs, but none of them offered the kind of streamlined local flavor in one place that we were seeking. The Palm Springs Guys is our take on Gay Palm Springs!
While we may be new full-timers here ourselves, we hope our fresh perspective and new discoveries will become your secret weapon to Gay Palm Springs travel and pleasure. We can’t wait to share everything we learn with you along the way – all the hidden gems and the not-to-be-missed – so that you can eat, play, and stay gay here in the greater Palm Springs desert of Southern California.
The best way to follow along is through our What's The T? newsletter (which you can sign up for below)…
Like you, the pandemic served up some serious transitional realness for Glen and I – from Maryland to Marilyn (with a few places in between). If you’re curious to learn more about our backstory, check out our about page.
For now, here's some food for deep thought. After three (3) months in Palm Springs now, we are surrounded by shining examples of pride everywhere we go. Beautiful layers of pride to replace outdated layers of shame.
We’ve come a long way as gay men, but there’s still so much shame we carry in the queer community. That’s why it matters to celebrate who we are. That’s why gay communities that flourish in destinations like Palm Springs are so important – and why destinations like Palm Springs are only baby steps in the right direction in acknowledging generations of shame and struggle.
Glen and I are 40 years old now. We’ve been lucky in both our lives, but we’re finally PROUD to be who we are. We are no longer ashamed – and we’re reminded of that every day out here so far.
Come visit us sometime!
Cheers,
Glen & Gregory, The Palm Springs Guys
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